This foreign born athlete is hopeful that the new freedom that this foreign former boy bander is showing sexually will allow them to finally step out as a couple together.
I just want Harry to be completely comfortable with coming out. But seeing what some “ fans “ are saying after all this hoopla this week... I get why he doesn’t.
Tween girls aren't going to get wet when they know their hunk of spunk loves to suck down on D and get covered in man milk. Harry has waited til the OD craze died a death before revealing his fag side, and even then he parrots bullshit about being bisexual. Maybe he could get into that Sam Smith market, or appeal to the blue hair Tumblr crowd, who think that straight sex gives you coochies, because weighing 300 lbs and looking like a hot smelly mess has nothing to do with dudes not wanting to bang you. I say the more homos come out the closet the better, all these straight for pay actors and singers is false advertising, and that's wrong.
I thought it was all about the music and talent, why would these female fans care what he wraps his dick around? It's not like they'd ever have a chance with straight him unless he lost a dare or felt like goin' hoggin'.
Boy Bands are carefully put together to appeal to prepubescent girls fantasies. They have to be good looking, project as uber hetero, each representing a fantasy archetype. The bad boy, the sensitive one, the joker, the jock etc. This shit is all about moving product via young girls wet underpants. You don't get them wet you don't sell records and tickets.
Okay I really doubt Harry has some secret athlete boyfriend. I also don't think he's "coming out" at all. this seems like his typical queerbaiting. He's done this for years. Half his fans want him to be gay so he plays both sides to keep 'em happy. Don't get me wrong, I do think he's messed with guys in the past but c'mon he's never gonna put out a statement anywhere near soon.
The truth is that lots of girls and women get off on the idea of a hot guy sleeping with another man. I'm sure many fans would love Harry even more if he came out as bisexual.
Interestingly survey says ( I don't know who keeps doing surveys like this but) that straight women prefer gay m/m porn to straight porn. And also many prefer w/w porn to straight porn. They feel it's more a balanced/safe type thing? M/m books on places sites like goodreads are very popular with the ladies . It's funny though we easily as a society say that straight men love the idea of two beautiful women getting it on , twice the boobs! lol but get all weird when women like the idea of two hot men together. What's that about? Let's unpack why that is lol.
I'm female and yes, I love m/m porn! But it's hard to find videos that meet my criteria (kissing, foreplay, the bottom has to be really hot). When it comes to straight porn, I'm less picky.
Although I like female bodies, w/w porn bores the heck out of me. For me, it lacks a certain type of energy. Maybe it's that 'balance' thing Halloweenie mentioned which does NOT turn me on.
I like a bit of power imbalance and I love it when a hot man is in the 'weak' position ;-) Maybe that's hard to accept for some people?
Anyway, boy banders are supposed to be/project "uber hetero"?!? In what alternate universe/dystopian Orwellian nightmare are these limp wristed, noodle armed emo poofs projecting masculinity/hetero??? They all look like Korean Kpop boy bands which is to say, effeminate androgynous Japanese CGI/video game/anime/manga characters. Where what passes as the "women" look like young boys, and what passes as the "men" look like young boys. Like Square's Final Fantasy series characters.
I find it truly shocking that heterosexual women prefer gay male porn to straight porn. I dislike guy/girl porn just because it plays so outwardly phoney and boring. guy pumps girl, girl yelps (cue oh baby chant +cigarette) but to say one prefers m/m for whatever reason I question. I think it's time for first ever(?) cdan readers poll
I thought Harry's secret guy is Xander Ritz, who is an athlete. Which would make Enty's clue confusing because he's not foreign-born (believe he's from Pennsylvania). Never heard of Xavier Dolan dating him (he's supposed to be with Winter Soldier right now).
Maybe this blind is referring to another One Direction member (Niall and Liam were both rumored to be dating athletes).
Ugh, I looked for a blind like this Wednesday. The puffy shirt and a lyric about messing around does not make Harry gay or bi. He just has the luxury of being able to f—- anyone in any room.
I thought Harry Styles was banging Aaron Rodgers on datalounge the gays there said he frequently visits Wisconsin. I also heard that Styles and Aaron Rodgers are very close. Rodgers promoted Harry Styles new album on his Twitter account.
Someone mentioned Sam Smith he is openly gay and his second album is selling in the millions worldwide. So I do not see why Harry Styles needs to be coy. He should just come out. Notice no one in One Direction solo album is selling millions.Zayn Malik and Niall Horan debut albums along with Styles success is just moderate. Coming out might help give Harry Styles an edge make him distinct.
Harry Styles and Xander Ritz. Anyone can see that. It has started way back in 2015 when they were super obvious and they're still hanging out. Plus 'Medicine' - Harry's song about messing around with a guy - was written in 2015.
1) One Direction members were marketed as sex symbols from the start. Sam Smith was overweight so no one cared who he was dating (but they're more interested now that he's lost the weight)
2) One Direction members don't hold a candle to Sam Smith when it comes to vocals. Now that they've gone solo, people are actually paying attention to their singing, and they don't want to shell out money for just "merely good."
Both of these factors make it harder for Harry to come out. But I agree with you that he should do it, for three reasons:
a) He'd be a lot happier in general. I think he's been itching to do it (he was dropping clues all over the place before his management pushed him back in) and he'd love to be able to walk around freely with his BF.
b) His fans are already the comfortable with the idea of him being with a man. They were convinced he was dating Louis Tomlinson (and shipped them hard), and many also knew about Xander back in 2015 (they created whole Tumblr pages about them). So he doesn't really have much to lose -- it's not like he relies on homophobic people for album sales. And his hardcore fan base will always be there.
I can see Harry doing the whole beard marriage thing like you say. Why not, lots of other stars get away with it.
But I think it partly depends on his career. If he releases a few more albums that don't light up the charts, he'll probably feel like he has nothing to lose if he comes out. Conversely, if his next album is a hit (or his acting career takes off), he's more likely to stay in the closet. It's an interesting test case, as I can't remember a musician leaving so many clues without actually coming out as bisexual or gay.
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I just want Harry to be completely comfortable with coming out. But seeing what some “ fans “ are saying after all this hoopla this week... I get why he doesn’t.
ReplyDeleteThey're all gay!
ReplyDeleteGrown gay men fussing about their sexualities!
Is there anything more trivial?
Tween girls aren't going to get wet when they know their hunk of spunk loves to suck down on D and get covered in man milk. Harry has waited til the OD craze died a death before revealing his fag side, and even then he parrots bullshit about being bisexual. Maybe he could get into that Sam Smith market, or appeal to the blue hair Tumblr crowd, who think that straight sex gives you coochies, because weighing 300 lbs and looking like a hot smelly mess has nothing to do with dudes not wanting to bang you. I say the more homos come out the closet the better, all these straight for pay actors and singers is false advertising, and that's wrong.
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I thought it was all about the music and talent, why would these female fans care what he wraps his dick around?
ReplyDeleteIt's not like they'd ever have a chance with straight him unless he lost a dare or felt like goin' hoggin'.
@Brayson maybe men who feel their calling is singing and prancing around on a stage are unlikely to be suitable mates. For women.
ReplyDeleteOne Direction? Talent?
ReplyDeleteYou've heard their records?
Boy Bands are carefully put together to appeal to prepubescent girls fantasies. They have to be good looking, project as uber hetero, each representing a fantasy archetype. The bad boy, the sensitive one, the joker, the jock etc. This shit is all about moving product via young girls wet underpants. You don't get them wet you don't sell records and tickets.
Had to google who "Xavier" was ... Xavier Dolan not an athlete.
ReplyDeleteRicky Martin got even bigger audience after getting out of the closet
ReplyDeleteOnly furious one was an ex gf of him saying everyyybody accused her of being a beard and "she wasnt"
Harry Styles is just annoying ... His fans know he's Gay and the whole world (only some old women think he's straight) zzzZzzz
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ReplyDeleteOkay I really doubt Harry has some secret athlete boyfriend. I also don't think he's "coming out" at all. this seems like his typical queerbaiting. He's done this for years. Half his fans want him to be gay so he plays both sides to keep 'em happy. Don't get me wrong, I do think he's messed with guys in the past but c'mon he's never gonna put out a statement anywhere near soon.
ReplyDeleteYou mean he's Gay because his fans want it?
DeleteRio ferdinand!?! what does a middle aged widowed father currently dating a reality star have to do with a gay boybander banging at his closet door?
ReplyDeleteLewis Hamilton needs to 'fess up.
ReplyDeleteLOL @ Rio Ferdinand. He looks like that porn star with the big ass mole on his dick
ReplyDeleteThe truth is that lots of girls and women get off on the idea of a hot guy sleeping with another man. I'm sure many fans would love Harry even more if he came out as bisexual.
ReplyDeleteIf Zayn and Harry got together the little girls would be hysterically happy. Same if it were Harry and Louis....but Zayn is prettier.
ReplyDeleteInterestingly survey says ( I don't know who keeps doing surveys like this but) that straight women prefer gay m/m porn to straight porn. And also many prefer w/w porn to straight porn. They feel it's more a balanced/safe type thing? M/m books on places sites like goodreads are very popular with the ladies . It's funny though we easily as a society say that straight men love the idea of two beautiful women getting it on , twice the boobs! lol but get all weird when women like the idea of two hot men together. What's that about? Let's unpack why that is lol.
ReplyDeleteI'm female and yes, I love m/m porn! But it's hard to find videos that meet my criteria (kissing, foreplay, the bottom has to be really hot). When it comes to straight porn, I'm less picky.
ReplyDeleteAlthough I like female bodies, w/w porn bores the heck out of me. For me, it lacks a certain type of energy. Maybe it's that 'balance' thing Halloweenie mentioned which does NOT turn me on.
I like a bit of power imbalance and I love it when a hot man is in the 'weak' position ;-) Maybe that's hard to accept for some people?
Jeeze wtf, people.
ReplyDeleteAnyway, boy banders are supposed to be/project "uber hetero"?!? In what alternate universe/dystopian Orwellian nightmare are these limp wristed, noodle armed emo poofs projecting masculinity/hetero??? They all look like Korean Kpop boy bands which is to say, effeminate androgynous Japanese CGI/video game/anime/manga characters. Where what passes as the "women" look like young boys, and what passes as the "men" look like young boys. Like Square's Final Fantasy series characters.
I find it truly shocking that heterosexual women prefer gay male porn to straight porn. I dislike guy/girl porn just because it plays so outwardly phoney and boring. guy pumps girl, girl yelps (cue oh baby chant +cigarette) but to say one prefers m/m for whatever reason I question. I think it's time for first ever(?) cdan readers poll
ReplyDelete@Tricia, are you sure about that?
ReplyDeleteI thought Harry's secret guy is Xander Ritz, who is an athlete. Which would make Enty's clue confusing because he's not foreign-born (believe he's from Pennsylvania). Never heard of Xavier Dolan dating him (he's supposed to be with Winter Soldier right now).
Maybe this blind is referring to another One Direction member (Niall and Liam were both rumored to be dating athletes).
Ugh, I looked for a blind like this Wednesday. The puffy shirt and a lyric about messing around does not make Harry gay or bi. He just has the luxury of being able to f—- anyone in any room.
ReplyDeleteI thought Harry Styles was banging Aaron Rodgers on datalounge the gays there said he frequently visits Wisconsin. I also heard that Styles and Aaron Rodgers are very close. Rodgers promoted Harry Styles new album on his Twitter account.
ReplyDeleteSomeone mentioned Sam Smith he is openly gay and his second album is selling in the millions worldwide. So I do not see why Harry Styles needs to be coy. He should just come out. Notice no one in One Direction solo album is selling millions.Zayn Malik and Niall Horan debut albums along with Styles success is just moderate. Coming out might help give Harry Styles an edge make him distinct.
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ReplyDeleteHarry Styles and Xander Ritz. Anyone can see that. It has started way back in 2015 when they were super obvious and they're still hanging out. Plus 'Medicine' - Harry's song about messing around with a guy - was written in 2015.
ReplyDelete@Orville, two big differences there:
ReplyDelete1) One Direction members were marketed as sex symbols from the start. Sam Smith was overweight so no one cared who he was dating (but they're more interested now that he's lost the weight)
2) One Direction members don't hold a candle to Sam Smith when it comes to vocals. Now that they've gone solo, people are actually paying attention to their singing, and they don't want to shell out money for just "merely good."
Both of these factors make it harder for Harry to come out. But I agree with you that he should do it, for three reasons:
a) He'd be a lot happier in general. I think he's been itching to do it (he was dropping clues all over the place before his management pushed him back in) and he'd love to be able to walk around freely with his BF.
b) His fans are already the comfortable with the idea of him being with a man. They were convinced he was dating Louis Tomlinson (and shipped them hard), and many also knew about Xander back in 2015 (they created whole Tumblr pages about them). So he doesn't really have much to lose -- it's not like he relies on homophobic people for album sales. And his hardcore fan base will always be there.
@Max Bull, very interesting insights.
ReplyDeleteI can see Harry doing the whole beard marriage thing like you say. Why not, lots of other stars get away with it.
But I think it partly depends on his career. If he releases a few more albums that don't light up the charts, he'll probably feel like he has nothing to lose if he comes out. Conversely, if his next album is a hit (or his acting career takes off), he's more likely to stay in the closet. It's an interesting test case, as I can't remember a musician leaving so many clues without actually coming out as bisexual or gay.