People cheat because they're insecure. They constantly need outward validation that other people want to fuck them. Even if you're secure enough with your own self-worth (like, you're not one of those paranoid people who always thinks every single person who's ever dated was cheating on you, or you keep them on a short leash and ask them to Skype/FaceTime your surroundings when you're away to prove you're not doing anything funny), being with someone who's insecure about their own self-worth can really get you thinking what they're doing to seek validation from others.
Because your validation, no matter how much you love(d) them, will never be enough for them. There's a sub-category of narcissism that covers a kind of narcissism caused by insecurity than constant need for validation (they have a thirst for it). And they can infect you with their own insecurity by constantly trying to "oversell" you (as their partner) by over-exaggerating your achievements (telling people how "important" your career is, yada-yada) because they want people to believe they've landed a big-shot partner, but in private they would never let their partner outshine them... It's like constantly walking on eggshells.
I wish people would stop blaming themselves when their partners cheat on them. It's never your fault. Take care, everyone... ♥
Shia again?
ReplyDeleteMy knowledge of Disney actors goes from Kurt Russell straight to Efron. No in between.
ReplyDeleteI genuinely believe people who cheat should be stoned to death.
ReplyDeleteThere aren't enough stones on the earth to accommodate that...
ReplyDelete...so, so disrespectful to your spouse "cheat" on a spouse.
ReplyDeleteDoesn't matter who you are. or the "why" you are cheating.
Kurt Russell, just for laughs. (Franchise:Rescue in NY/LA), Wife: you know her).
ReplyDeleteKurt Russell and Goldie Hawn have remained as unmarried partners for a very good reason. Ain't him.
ReplyDeleteJustin Timberlake
ReplyDeleteKurt is not married
ReplyDeleteIt's Justin timberlake
People cheat because they're insecure. They constantly need outward validation that other people want to fuck them. Even if you're secure enough with your own self-worth (like, you're not one of those paranoid people who always thinks every single person who's ever dated was cheating on you, or you keep them on a short leash and ask them to Skype/FaceTime your surroundings when you're away to prove you're not doing anything funny), being with someone who's insecure about their own self-worth can really get you thinking what they're doing to seek validation from others.
ReplyDeleteBecause your validation, no matter how much you love(d) them, will never be enough for them. There's a sub-category of narcissism that covers a kind of narcissism caused by insecurity than constant need for validation (they have a thirst for it). And they can infect you with their own insecurity by constantly trying to "oversell" you (as their partner) by over-exaggerating your achievements (telling people how "important" your career is, yada-yada) because they want people to believe they've landed a big-shot partner, but in private they would never let their partner outshine them... It's like constantly walking on eggshells.
I wish people would stop blaming themselves when their partners cheat on them. It's never your fault. Take care, everyone... ♥