Tuesday, July 08, 2014

Your Turn

When you go to the house of someone for dinner, do you usually bring a gift? What if it is just lunch?

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  1. what kinda dumb question is this...

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  2. blunts or rolling papers usually

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    1. I bring one already rolled. #I'mabetterstonerthanRay

      Also, I always bring wine and maybe a baked good. Cause I'm a totally awesome dinner guest and I need to make up for being a pescetarian.

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    2. #letshaveastonerparty

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    3. #i'llbringthehash

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    4. #illbringspecialcookies
      #alsocanmakespecialbutter
      #alsoihavesomeshrooms

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    5. Ok you win. I'm seriously wishing we could party together now!

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    6. It'll happen boo, its on my bucket list to get fully baked with you

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    7. Um, if I offer to host and cook lunch, am I invited?

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    8. Come on over, Brea! Plenty to share. It'll be like a Snoop Dog video up in here!

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    9. One? ONE, Sugar? Please. I'm like Snoop at a house party. ;-)

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    10. I meant one right after the other, IJU! I usually bring this much weed to a dinner!

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    11. That's more like it. In the words of the great Paulie in Goodfellas 'now we can eat!'

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    12. IJU
      Looks about right !

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    13. Ray.. When do you want to have an OG Batman party? ?

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    14. Whenever you want sugarbread!

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  3. I always bring bubbly or wine for both..

    Hi CDAN Fam,
    Hope everyone had an amazing 4th.

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    1. Don't be such a stranger - you've been missed!

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  4. I bring x number of cellphones, iPad and laptop.

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    1. Hey Trainrides!!!
      What? You've got enough to eat at home, Enty.
      Don't be a cheapskate, bring a bottle of some shit. It's always 5 o'clock somewhere, even if it's only lunch...

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  5. hi Montana! You got a few correct reveals under your belt that day ; )

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  6. I bring my appetite.

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  7. Always I bring myself and that's a true gift because I do not visit..and if/when I do I always bring a nice bottle of something or dessert.

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  8. A bottle of my homemade wine!

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  9. Wine or homemade bread for a dinner, a fun dessert for a lunch. Always.

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  10. I always intend too and then run out of time or forget until the last min. I do try to write a thank you Caen though afterward

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    1. Jez, I even tried to proff read this before bit posted.

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  11. I bring Franzia for me.

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  12. Yes. Usually a bottle or two of wine or a dessert.

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  13. Depends on the person. Sometimes a bottle of wine, or flowers, or dessert-y type of something. @Nothanksdarlin', I'm pretty good with writing thank you notes, too. :)

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  14. Lunch - bring dessert
    Dinner - bring wine
    Late night - bring a condom

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  15. Their gift is my Presence

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  16. Always. A great bottle of wine, flowers, a special dessert. And a thank you note within a week. It's just good manners and the late Matriarch Mrs. Kid Jones would roll over in her grave if I didn't.

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    1. @kidJones. MamaKid raised u right!

      Come over any time.

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  17. Almost always food or drink. And always, always, always too much food cuz I grew up in family of 7, 5 males; Tall, hungry, males. I only know huge portions, huge dishes.
    Unless it's a last minute thing, and they insist I don't, and time is of the essence. (I need time for my mop, cheeks, lips and a pre-drink)

    One friend, definitely ALWAYS a gift. A friend of my parents, now mine, always buys me gifts. Usually from Nordies. Followed by an $8 THANK YOU card in the mail. I LOVVVVVE HER!!

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  18. @ Ray and Sugar, you're so organized. I hurriedly pack a film container.

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    1. That's an old school stash container.

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    2. James, would you like to come to our stoner party?
      #stonersmakethebestdinnerguests

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    3. Batties for everyone !!!

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  19. Always bring something, no matter what meal or occaision. Its fun and good manners.

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    1. @auntliddy: I totally agree. I usually cook something or if I'm asked not to bring anything then I just bring wine and/or flowers.

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  20. @Ray and Sugar today in WA state (here) it's the first day legal pot stores open up.

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    1. Have you gone to one yet, James?

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    2. Jealous! You better hit onE up and smoke a fatty in honor of Sugs and I

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  21. I can roll very beautiful cone joints (the kind with the filter end).

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    1. Sweeet! I roll blunts better than joints and I have a sweet collection of glass pieces and a big ass gravity bong.

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    2. Cones are the best but I always use a filter in my joints, cones & blunts but prefer to smoke out of glass like my bong.

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    3. Sure you do, Smoke-a!

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    4. Don't ya know it TTM ;-)

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  22. Yes and yes. Plus we have food allergies so we always bring food just in case

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  23. I always bring something…flowers, cake, wine….a book

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  24. Some people even insist that I bring my 5lb killer dog. (I know??????) But I make sure she leaves her little gifts back home.

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  25. I imagine some day there will be a CDaN convention. Hopefully in WA or CO.

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  26. Always wine. As a gift, and just in case!

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  27. Never show up empty-handed. It's a rule.

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  28. A plastic bag full of class rings.

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  29. Wine, a few gourmet cheeses, a more expensive ice cream (weird, I know), or something similar. So yeah, I bring something.

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  30. Always wine, sometimes a baked good or two as well

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  31. Ass, grass, or cash. Nobody visits for free...

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    1. Do you bring your girlfriend or wife?

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  32. Desert pastries

    Wine

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  33. Wine, flowers, a chi-chi candle or candy, pretty hand soaps or some silly thing that suits that particular person. One friend collects tacky plastic snow globes, another collects little elephants. A lunch hostess gift depends on the hostess, some yes, some no.

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  34. I usually take a bottle of wine or some cute cocktail napkins

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  35. my favorite bottle of 1.5 L wine so I can sit there with a genuine smile on my face just in case it's a boring ass visit

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  36. Colt 45 and pot, naturally.

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  37. I am usually the host, but I don't expect anything. Empty plates and a few compliments are enough for me.
    Now, if someone wanted to be good and roll while I cook I won't say nay.
    And rum is always welcome in my house, but not essential.
    Can I go to the SugarRay Partay?? You know you want me....

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    1. Your invitation has been sent. Brea as well!

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    2. Much appreciated. And you are cordially invited to my smoke shack any time. No gift required.

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    3. Anonymous1:46 PM

      SugarRay! That's hilarious high 5 IJU!

      I'm always the hostess too and those you know me well enough to be invited know to bring me bubbles.

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    4. Anonymous1:48 PM

      *who* not you :(

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    5. I have a magnum of bubbly in the fridge just waiting for an excuse, Katydid.

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  38. Lunch? Who invites someone to their house for LUNCH? That said, I do think it's always nice to bring a bottle of mid-priced wine if you've been invited to dinner and you know that the family in question drinks and will appreciate it. I feel like anything other than that is strange. Like, don't give someone fancy soaps or something just because they've invited you to a meal! Lol. You could always bring a dessert too but that might be a bit to presumptuous; maybe they already have something that they made and were going to serve and want to be the sole finale to the evening.

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  39. I've totally invited people to my house for lunch but I don't expect them to bring anything. Usually it's not a complicated lunch buffet. I would think it weird if they showed up with wine for lunch.

    What does get on my tits etiquette-wise is a recent invite I got to an anniversary party thrown by the couple's grown-ass daughter. It was BYOB and BYOChair and a pot luck but she was insistent on an RSVP. What does it matter how many guests you have if they're bringing their own booze, food and seating?

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  40. Growing up in the South we were taught never ever EVER go anywhere without at least a small token of thanks for being welcomed into someone's home. I'm a baker so I'll usually bring some small pastry that doesn't need to be served immediately.

    Last year I ordered too much wine for a party so had two leftover cases of prosecco. It's been great just grabbing a bottle on the way out the door. Everyone loves a little bubbly and I love not having to panic about what I'm going to do for a hostess gift.

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  41. Well, come on over, Its Just U! I'll grill some hot dogs!

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  42. Yes, I bring something - booze, dessert, bread/cheeses, gourmet candy, flowers, etc.

    Gift selection depends upon who/what's on the menu/where.

    I think cooking is fun, but when you throw a shindig or serve a dinner, it's still time and effort so a little nod of thanks is always appreciated.

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  43. If it is a big Holiday dinner, then I bring wine, or flowers, sometimes even a surprise dish...like dessert or cookies. Otherwise, no.

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  44. Bring something always.

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  45. Bring something always.

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  46. Just remembering...I once bought kazoos for everybody-25 pr30- to a christmas eve party. Man that was fun!!!!

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  47. I don't bring anything. And I hate it when people bring me something. Can we just get together and hang out without making a huge production out of it?

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  48. I'm not a big fan of eating at other people's houses, and I certainly don't have dinner at someone else's house.

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  49. Never show up empty-handed!

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  50. I don't do fancy dinners with friends. Usually pizza or bbq, and if they insist we say bring dessert. We'll usually grab a cheesecake from Superstore if they don't specify what to bring. Cheesecake, yum...

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