“I went to a friend’s boyfriend’s house and his older brother decided to teach me backgammon which led into a back massage, which led into rape. My first heterosexual experience. He was 25 years old and I was 12.”
Even with that, Pamela was not finished sharing. She said that a few years later a boyfriend of hers “decided it would be funny to gang-rape me with six friends. I wanted off this earth.” I'm surprised she is still functioning after these events occurred. Somehow she made it through these experiences and in the world of Hollywood seems fairly normal. I'm surprised she has never shared these before now in a book or People Magazine story. The crowd looked shocked that they came to give money for one cause and ended up hearing something wholly unrelated. She tied it together by stating that because she didn't trust humans, animals became something she could trust and love.
That explains sooooo much.
ReplyDeleteI knew there was a reason I never wanted to learn backgammon.
ReplyDeleteMuch love, Pammy.
ReplyDeleteTrue auntliddy. I feel bad for her.
ReplyDeleteAm I gonna be the only one who hates on that dress? I guess it's not the dress but the titty balls.
ReplyDeleteAnd yeah that does say so much about why she is the way she is.
No Sherry, you're not. That dress is ten tons of terrible aweful ( or maybe awwwful), awful alone can't sum it up.
DeleteShe looks like a hung corpse that's gone bogman dessicated =-O
Steam, sherry- or looks like she spilled something on dress and then said oh no! Quick! Give me your scarf!
DeleteSherry those boobs are hideous.
Deleteforget the dress Sherry look how thin she is except what the dress is showing off :(
ReplyDeleteWow - today is Canadian content day. Who's next - Bieber?
ReplyDeleteSurfer, why would you invoke like that?? Cross your fingers, maybe it will be Jann Arden!
DeleteI wonder how much, if any, of that is true or at least has some basis in reality, and how much is simply Ms. Anderson saying whatever she thinks might elicit support/favorable publicity. Call me cynical, but I tend to disbelieve anything anyone in the entertainment industry says, or at least to attribute ulterior motives to the fact that it's been said. Such as LiLo's tweet a few minutes ago about what an experience it is to be in Cannes (where she apparently is at the moment). Now, ask yourself, why would LiLo be in Cannes? When was the last time she had a film which had even a hope of being screened there, let alone winning a prize? A decade at least? If even then? More likely she's there to try to latch onto another rich sugar-daddy, but instead keeping quiet about and carrying on with her business of trying to find a new sucker to fleece, she tries to play it off as if she's a respectable (if there is such a thing) member of the acting community.
ReplyDeleteSooooo, because Lindsay Lohan is working the fancy ho stroll in Cannes, Pamela Anderson can't have been assaulted? I think you're looking at it from the wrong end of the stick, Robert. Those that are sexually assaulted or exploited from a young age are more likely to gravitate towards industries where they get recognized for what they've been taught is their primary assets: looks and sexual availability. Not an expert! But I'd say that is more likely than Pamela Anderson fabricating a tale of sexual assault for sympathy
DeleteRobert- im wondering why you wld follow lilo on twitter!
DeleteIs she getting to the point when teen sons are questioning their moms choices in life? And this is why she is spilling, real or imagined?
DeleteHowever I believe the studies show that women who are sexually abused as a young age often seem to go one of two ways, you are either sexually repressed or those women begin to believe that their only value is their sexuality but this time they think they are in control but they aren't really - most porn stars will admit to having being sexually abused at a young age. I guess it is also a function of becoming sexualized at a young age even if the experience was not enjoyable.
ReplyDeletenapping
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DeleteThe article I read yesterday said she had "many" nip slips during her speech.
ReplyDeleteKat, the nip slips give me a bad feeling. This venue isn't appropriate for this kind of sharing...her husband is pimping her out, and she's getting to old for this shit ( I don't mean age or beauty old but being used over and over, is getting old)
DeleteI'm wondering, is she starting to unravel?
Is desperation pushing her farther , faster?
lol @bacon ranch
ReplyDelete{{{{hugs4Pamela}}}}
Agree Tina, its a matter of " if you're going to take it anyway, I may as well get something up front to show I'm in control.."
ReplyDeleteGreat for coping but sucks for living...:-\
Sad...
Rapes, gang rapes, Bieber... Canada is so lovely.
ReplyDeleteSeriously, Canada is the US with a good publicist.
Apologies TTM! And I agree with your last comment.
ReplyDeleteHappy Victoria Day!
Explains a lot.
ReplyDeleteShe needs a stylist
ReplyDeleteWasn't it Pam that was a solved blind about using her Hep C to garner sympathy or something like that? Does this sound familiar to anyone? If I am thinking correctly, I am also cynical to this story. Ah, I found it. http://www.crazydaysandnights.net/2013/12/blind-items-revealed_6066.html
ReplyDeleteMy thoughts exactly!!!
DeleteShe doesn't look well. She's frail and there's no life in her eyes.
ReplyDeleteIf the Blind that SaintsFan posted is true, then Pam could also be making this up. I didn't realize the Hep C thing was fake.
ReplyDeleteI fell for the ol' "back rub" line a couple times, from same guy, and I was in my 20's. It's hard to turn down a back rub.
ReplyDeleteHOWEVER, I've found that "back rub" is definitely code for _______. No "safe words" work after take off.
Is that when she contracted Hep C???
ReplyDeleteAre we suppose to start feeling bad for her ??? Sounds terrible. But I don't believe anything that comes out of her mouth.
@Monkeysports, Tommy was the giver according to Pam, I think it was an alimony squeeze play at the time...
DeleteSome of you guys truly are fucking assholes. Maybe she is sharing her experience to help other women recover from their bad experiences and let them know they are not alone....I really REally hate some posters here
ReplyDeleteAnd maybe she's not. Or maybe it's true and she is exploiting herself. Why hate people who have a different take on something someone in Hollywood said. Cause it's not like they milk it if they can get free publicity or anything....
DeleteI agree with you Derek. It was very brave of her to share her horrific experiences....there is no 'appropriate' time or place to share that stuff; its always going to be awful to hear no matter how when or where. I love her ! Even more so now....I really hoped her sharing helps her heal.
DeleteI really hope that she isn't lying about this, but then again I really really hope this didn't happen to her!! Absolutely horrific!!! People that lie about sexual abuse don't realize the damage of trust to those that actually have these horrific things happen to them.
ReplyDeleteShe fooled me once with the ghostwriting, never again.
ReplyDeleteThe Rules of Backgammon decree it.
You all claim to be "feminists" yet are the first to dismiss or slander a woman with the courage to attempt healing and help others SMH
ReplyDeleteWhy the fuck would she lie about this? I guess since it is not a blind item you dismiss it and do not get so outraged?
The issue isn't whether we're feminists or not. If this weren't someone who has been rumored to have lied about some pretty significant developments in her life, I doubt you'd see the cynical comments we have here today. But IF the blind re: her Hep C is true, I don't think it's out of line to be a little suspicious.
DeleteI don't believe this blind where she was faking Hep C. There is a huge stigma to having Hep C and at the time it was revealed, the ensuing publicity slammed her; it did not create sympathy. If sympathy was the goal, there are a lot of other diseases that would have done the trick.
ReplyDeleteBut that blind & reveal is lawsuit proof. Pammy is going to sue Enty to prove that she did/does have Hep C? Not in this lifetime.
Derek, in people's defense, they question her because of the whole Hep C incident. She has history of lying. I would prefer her to lie at this point than to actually have gone through that though. Heartbreaking.
ReplyDeleteI don't dismiss it, Derek. She intimated this in the 80's during her V.I.P run. She didn't say...but she ran herself down for her " smalltown naivete "
ReplyDeleteThe thing is, she isn't sharing at a rape survival/empowerment seminar but at a fundraiser for animals. I don't blame the skepticism but I think she is crashing , not cashing.
poor pam.. hugs pam
ReplyDeleteanimals are so much easier to trust was the point of the story,,b/c of the abuse!!
it was an animal charity event guys!
stop being asshats about her dress. she was probably drunk to get enough courage to share
@Sugarbread exactly---I like poking fun at celebs outfits as much as the next person but time and place! If you do not understand the correlation between animal rights and rape victims than you truly need to get a brain transplant. And regarding her new look---not everyone is a materialist ding-bat that makes looking good their number one priority in life. Pam never claimed to be a fashionista and she is not a model or coming out with a line of clothing anytime soon so what is your point?
ReplyDeleteoh @Sherry---that was NOT targeted towards you directly. I say what others think are dumb ass things 24/7. Just this story is a big one and Pammy is Canadas heart and soul. She truly is. She does some really dumb shit as well (shes the first to admit she is not perfect) but she does a lot of important shit as well...
ReplyDeleteWell, either way this is sad. If she's lying, it's sad; if it really happened, it's sad. Why don't we have compassion for her either way.
ReplyDeleteUgh how low class. Some things better left unsaid. I'm sure all those French people just thronged around her after that over share.
ReplyDeleteI met Tommy Lee once---very very nice guy. We chatted briefly and I admitted I was not familiar with his music but gushed to him about Pam (maybe a little inappropriately considering it was 2 years ago and they are very separated). When her name was mentioned he had the biggest grin on his face and it was apparent the admiration was shared. He said she is a great woman basically...
ReplyDeleteYou never know with this chick. Her story could be true but unfortunately his past fame whoring taints it a bit. Also question why now- is she trying to help other victims or just hoping to get back into the news. Not sure if she will be helping anyone in the future but it did get her in the news for a day.
ReplyDeleteI will take her confession at face value and simply say how awful for her and that I hope she can and has moved past the abuse she suffered.
ReplyDeleteI think it was her time to share her connection with animals. Poor woman. She's had to be sexy her entire career.
ReplyDeletePlease, Never doubt a woman or child telling you of abuse. That adds to the pain.
I wish she'd remove her implants again. They look painful...like two small bowling balls. She should have named names. (Dunno if legal. But I'd want to on such a public platform)
@Countess, unless there are police records which she never indicated, I believe naming names now would be slander and the accused could sue her.
ReplyDeleteI don't want to doubt anyone claiming abuse however, if the blind is true, there is a history of lying for attention so I will reserve my judgement and just say I don't know what, if anything, happened to her. I hope it's not true.
I'm with Derek. Pam's past is exactly what I'd expect from someone who experienced what she described.
ReplyDeleteAnd anyone doubting the story is the ENTIRE reason victims stay silent. So pat yourselves on the back, you helped a rapist today! They want the victims to STFU, too.
Pam has a history of bullshitting. Hep C, pregnant by Kid Rock, etc.
ReplyDeleteFLOP #1: Whores Lie.
Maybe sharing this will be cathartic for her in some way. She has other issues, but seems like a nice person. I wish her well.
ReplyDeleteI have a soft spot for Pam and think there is a good heart underneath all the external stuff. I wish her nothing but health and happiness :)
ReplyDeleteI wondered about this as well and why she chose this opportunity to share her story when one of her sons was present.
ReplyDeleteI'm with Robert, Pammy lies A LOT. She's lied about having miscarriages and is questionable whether or not she has hep C. I do believe she was molested, because of the way she uses sex to get ahead, but I wonder how much this is true.
ReplyDeleteWe all know why Lindsay is at Cannes, but Pam was recently cast in a Werner Herzog film if I'm not mistaken. Herzog is adored in France so Pam gains some credibility on that front.
ReplyDeleteThis is HORRIBLE.
ReplyDeletei do not understand the correlation between animal rights and rape victims.
ReplyDeleteLindsay announced a new film at Cannes last year, she's just yacht girl this year with that upcoming film as an excuse.
ReplyDeleteHairydawg, Pam said after the attacks she couldn't trust humans so she fell in luv w animals thus explaining her passion for their protection. She stopped me eating KFC. I can't eat there after researching and now I side eye every ff place....
Btw, whatever happened to the NYC woman that was going to be homeless?
@countess Blondie! Was a scammer. After googling her, she showed up in many articles. She has a two bedroom apartment but refuses to rent out the second bedroom and would rather beg strangers to pay her rent. It's just a way to supplement her income.
DeleteSo sad!!
ReplyDeleteAs much as I hate to doubt anyone who claims abuse, I'm having a great deal of difficulty with this. If she hadn't lied about the Hepatitis, of the miscarriage, I would be more willing to believe her. I can only assume that the Hepatitis and miscarriage lies were contrived to garner her publicity/sympathy, so rape and molestation would dovetail quite nicely with her agenda. I wish I could be as trusting and compassionate as the other posters here, but as a statistic myself it's very upsetting when a known liar tries to play that card.
ReplyDeleteIt's also really ticking me off that so many people are saying, "Ooooh! That explains a lot!", as if, she's a great big ho, so of course she was molested/raped. Not every victim chooses to become a drunken slut. STOP IT.
Those implants need to go!
ReplyDeleteIt always amazes me how with every story like this how many people come out and proclaim it true and start preaching about anyone doubting their story is helping rapists ect ect. Intelligent people try to weigh the facts of each situation and the character of the accuser and accused before proclaiming the truth. Fact of the matter is commenters on gossip sites have no idea of most facts and therefore only have the character issue to judge on. We have no idea if her claims are true or not but it is only an opinion and your opinion isn't really better than someone elses. In my opinion blindly believing every accuser would be much worse than trying to come to an opinion/conclusion by examining all the facts.
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DeleteThanks fancy- pisses me off how the bullies come out of the woodwork whenever certain issues like this come up. Yes the hard part of coming forward is that it is a very private personal issue and there are doubters. No doubt that truthful accusers/victims are sometimes suffer more abuse but the solution is not to blindly believe every accuser- that would be beyond stupid. I think most give accusers the benefit of some doubt because we all know how hard to come forward but like any crime the evidence must be judged by those in a position to collect and review it.
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DeleteI agree. Your post is mature and logical the two emotions needed when dealing with a subject like this.
Bravo TexasRose! You must have been inside my head because I was thinking the same thing! It amazes me sometimes how some people will believe (without question) any sob story they hear.
DeleteI choose to take the word of people who talk about abuse, because too often those who are abused are not believed or don't see justice done.
ReplyDeleteAlso, the vast majority of victims remain silent & worse, they feel guilt & shame when they did nothing wrong.
I hope her openness inspires others to at least get counselling if they are struggling with what has been done to them.
I respect those who are questioning Pam, but remind them that anytime abuse is raised it stirs the memories up for any victim, and we have many courageous people on this blog who have shared their stories. Let's just be a little bit gentle on these posts.
I hear and understand what you're saying feraltart. I think most doubters do appreciate how hard it must be to come forward. I'm asking that those who choose to believe every accuser respect the fact that they don't really know and that doubters are not victim haters.
DeleteJaysus Christ @ letloverule.
ReplyDeleteyou sound like the thought police.
"anyone DOUBTING this story pat yourselves on the back, you helped a rapist today!"
cuz NO ONE ever lied about being raped...right?
It wasn't a rumor that Pam said she had Hep C. It was widely reported, clips of her talking about it, etc.
Now she never mentions it. And oh yeah, she's been married twice since supposedly being diagnosed with a highly contagious, potentially deadly disease you can contract through sex.
That's why some of us doubt this story. She's been known to lie in the past when it suited her needs or got her publicity. No one is saying they are pro rapist.Now get off that fuckin pedestal.
Some of you and your slut shaming ways make me sick, if any of you had the thought process to actually read more than the headlines you will know that it was an entirely appropriate forum to bring up her abuse....animals did not judge her and loved her unconditionally.
ReplyDeleteHow do know she lied about her Hep C?? Coz Enty told you?? Fucking lemmings....
@Kat thanks for the answer. How'd it come out? Is her real name attached to a story in main stream media or is she connected to Enty somehow did he/she report it? I hope she's not out on the streets.
ReplyDelete@countess HAH! Don't worry she's fine. Google PJ Gach and the first suggestion is "pj gach rent" then you can see many article written about her begging strangers and the comments on brokelyn are my fav. They were angry that her story got on the legit site for people with real rent problems. She's just trying to supplement her income as a fashion blogger. Her blog is www.thequeenofstyle.com She was trying to scam you nice hardworking people.
Delete@Kat
DeleteThanx for the Intel. I was suspicious of that one. This is good to know.
Anytime @fancy! All I did was click for her blogger profile which linked to her blog... I hope nobody here gave her money.
Delete@BeckMae, you seem like a very angry, hostile person, and you have my sympathy.
ReplyDeleteAs for the Hepatitis claims: Hepatitis is a disease of the liver, and drinking is a huge no-no. But as the entire world has seen, thanks to the internets, she continued to drink like a fish for years. She also announced, with her Hep C claim, that her liver was fine, but she probably only had 10 years to live, 15 if she was lucky; this pissed off a lot of medical experts, because there is no reason that someone with Hepatitis can't live a full life. She has also stated that she was not taking Interferon, but was instead treating her highly contagious, potentially deadly (and sexually transmissible) disease with homeopathic remedies. (Also, she stated that because of her Hep C, she was afraid of developing "psoriasis".)
I'm not going to go into the lies about the miscarriage and plastic surgeries; suffice to say that this woman has proved herself untrustworthy.
If this woman had no problems lying about having a miscarriage, then she would not have a problem lying about being molested. She also stated she got hep c from Tommy Lee, who has stated he does not have the disease then she stated she got the disease from a tattoo needle. She also said she would be dead in a decade (2002) from her hep c, so she also likes to be dramatic. It's not a shock that people are questioning Anderson's assertions.
ReplyDeleteWtf is up w/ the constant bragging of the "hate" for certain commenters?
ReplyDeleteYeezus.
CDaN was my fun place for awhile
but the unnecessary bitch fights,
have become too much.
@Warecat, I totally read that in Mike Meyers "So I Married An Axe Murderer" voice. <3
DeleteHAHAHA!!! Seven!
DeleteI literally just spit when I laughed!
Pam smells like soup!
Scratch a prostitute/porn actress (high-end or low-end) and you'll find a victim of sexual assault underneath.
ReplyDelete@derek <3
ReplyDeleteand honestly, minus the gang rape but add in some other abuse and you have my childhood prior to 12.
@elissa you obviously know me as well as you know Pammy......
ReplyDeleteBless her if this is true. It would explain some of her behavior (dating that loser Scott Baio for so many years comes immediately to mind). If not, then may she end up in the lyin' famewhore dustbin with the likes of Lohan.
ReplyDelete@headrot - Damn. I'm so sorry. No one should have to go through what you have. No one.
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ReplyDeletePlease show me a celebrity who DOESN'T lie and famewhore, before we decide that is 'evidence' that's she's lying about this. Not very damning, IMO.
Even liars tell the truth at times. Even liars get raped. I know, right??
I'll give her the benefit of the doubt, if only to support others in coming forward.
+1 @letloverule...well put...
ReplyDeletemost all females lie about "miscarriages"
ReplyDeleteand they ALL LIE ABOUT PLASTIC SURGERY
BETCH PLEASE KIM KARTRASHIAN STILL CLAIMS SHE HAS NEVER HAD ANYTHING DONE!!!
pam talked about her rape b/c she was saying how she only felt she can truly trust and love her animals
i for one have 4 critters and i feel they have given me more love than any human - no rape, miscarriage etc.
but animals are therapeutic for lots of ailments. not just for you who weren't there to judge
a 12 yr old might not have realized what exactly what was going on or thought she had support at home to speak up and say something.
same as a 16 yr old w/ the gang rape. prob stayed quiet out of shame, guilt, would rather nobody know, hopes it will just be pushed aside and move on w/ her life
stop betching @ pam for coming forward now. it's always easier to tell the truth about things when you are older wiser and realize it wasn't your fault and you having nothing to lose by coming clean
BACK OFF BITCHES
when a rape is reported what the INVESTIGATORS need to do while gathering evidence and interviewing (they probably are/do)is:
ReplyDeletetreat the accuser as if she has been raped until proven otherwise
and...
treat the accused as if he did not commit the crime until proven otherwise
(our justice system is supposed to b doing this already...right?)
we cannot throw men under the bus on this. some of us have sons. GODFORBID an accusation is lobbed at our son (or any man we love) that isn't true. no person is perfect. that includes rape accusers. we don't want males to get the message that if they are accused of rape that they are not to be believed if, in fact, they are telling the truth.
I am raising a daughter and a son. I could b on either side of this issue. ACCUSER or ACCUSED
((KNOCK WOOD))
every person posting is posting their opinion and opinions are based on our lives and experiences. I get it.
but, I think we need to just chill a bit and think logically about this. Logic would be taking this with a grain of salt.
I have no idea if pam is truthful about this or not. im not even going to go there. if this is her truth...then it is.
Pam could well be lying. Or she could be telling the truth. Or maybe it's a little of both. Anything is possible, so quit piling on people who don't see the issue they way you do.
ReplyDeleteFor me these "admissions" raise a whole lot more questions than answers, although they certainly would help to explain why this particular woman defines herself solely by her sexuality.
let me go home
ReplyDelete@Sugarbread maker
ReplyDeleteSpeak for yourself, please.
No, not "most all females have lied about 'miscarriages'".
Maybe you have, but I'd never do something so vile and manipulative.
You're right, fancy. But she didn't name names, there's no lawsuit...unless I missed something...so it really doesn't seem like she's even trying to gain anything here. Just telling her story, and how it made her love animals.
ReplyDeleteAnd your sons can get raped, too. (Heaven forbid) There's no shortage of sickos out there, or people to cover for them.
Let love rule ...
ReplyDeletemy post is not about Pam. My post is about attitudes that convict men without evidence and strictly on the word if an accuser. As mature adults we should not jump to conclusions which effect our sons negatively. I'm not suggesting that we dismiss the girl or woman just that we let things play out so both are treated with respect.
@Headrot---just awful! Stay strong girl xo
ReplyDeleteBesides the talk about the Hep C being faked didn't she lie to Kidd Rock about a miscarriage?
ReplyDeleteIt's kind of hard to believe someone who has cried wolf a couple of times already.
Pam told Kid Rock she was pregnant to force a marriage. Kid Rock went to visit her on a set, and found her drunk and partying, and he realized the pregnancy was bullshit.
ReplyDeleteThanks Count. That's what I thought. I remember Kidd on Larry King talking about it. He seemed pretty straight forward & she certainly never came out & denied it afterwards.
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