So terribly sad. Yet, curious. She seemed to "have it all." Not that it means that she had a perfect life, but something had to be bothering her.
Not sure why, but this quote is the first one that jumps out at me after hearing she committed suicide. In reference to stars and celebrities & how 'she found out that things are not always as they seem.'
"'You'll see the most perfect person (star) and you are like, God, she's, like, perfect. And then she'll tell you everything that's not perfect. Everyone has their own special set of problems--in their own minds,' she told Harper's Bazaar in 2011. "
Very sad. But scarf tied to a doorknob? And no suicide note? Not to mention, she was tweeting/FB just last week. I was thinking this seems more like an autoerotic-asphyxiation gone wrong.
I feel bad she is dead, but you can't pin this on Mick. He is Mick Jagger, you know going in he will bang anything that moves.
Wow. I just checked her Wiki to find her age (47). I figure pill OD. She hung herself, from a doorknob, with a scarf. That is certainly committing to a cause, when you can stand up and walk away if you have second thoughts.
I actually gasped when I scrolled down to see this. That poor woman. I can only imagine what she was going through. I wish she'd been able to see her way to getting help. I feel more for those she left behind, though.
And I hope this could help Mick Jagger get some therapy to live his life in a less selfish manner.
@S sometimes Enty writes true blinds but for one true blind ,how many fake blinds?
Kevin Bacon's divorce (3/4 years ago),Jennifer garner/amy adams's pregnancy last year, sandra bullock's new adoption,kate beckinsale's divorce,Kanye West's absent at the baby shower,Ashley Judd's car story....Even what Enty wrote on Lindsay Lohan's burglarized house was untrue.
who know? in 3 days,we will learn L'wren was depressive or ill or Jagger and she broke/breaking or something without link
Someone who takes their own life is struggling with a lot more than just simple relationship issues. As well, you never know if the issues they are struggling with (usually major depression or other mental illness) are contributing to the relationship problems, simply by neither side knowing how to handle it.
Every time something like this happens, people look at those left behind and thing "why didn't you do something?" but I'm sure they are asking the same of themselves. Hindsight is 20/20. It's easier to judge when you're not in that position.
Had a friend take her life about 5 years ago now, and I still think about her and think "I should have just called her, why didn't I call her? Why didn't I check in more often?" And I was living on the other side of the world at the time. It's hard, you realize afterwards what you could have done differently but at the time you don't see it.
I actually gasped when I saw this too Disco. So very sad and tragic and no, it wasn't Mick's fault. Everyone knows he has no qualms about cheating. And maybe she didn't care about that anyway. Gawd I feel so badly about this for some reason. She was such a talented lady. Like Alexander McQueen-another amazing designer who took his life. They've deprived the world of the beauty they could create but it was too hard for them to stay.
May she find the peace she was so desperately hoping to find.
Head there is nothing to be jealous of here. hun it s not proper thinking. depression has its demons black dogs. you should talk to someone about it as it s not worth it. once out of the tunnel you can understand why
Lmao!! @ huffing panties, Count. That sounds a lot more fun than accidentally breaking your neck on a door knob.. Personally, I am a scary ass and though I would never try it I have always been curious about asphyxiation erotica... not for the standard reasons. Im more curious about the science behind it from a biological perspective. .. like how the body would or can become sexually stimulated from lack of oxygen. Im gonna wiki that shit later if I can remember.
Headrot that isn't something to be jealous about. What you will be jealous of is everyone else who fought through their depression and chose life over death should you decide you want to follow in L'Wren's footsteps. Life can always change and get better, but death is certain and unknown. Don't make the grass is greener mistake, it is never better on the other side.
She was super tall - how did she hang herself from a door knob? Weird. I liked her designs. You have to know going in with a rock star that there's going to be lots of sex outside the relationship.
@Amartel: you do not need a drop to successfully hang yourself but it I is usually helpful. You actually don't need any drop. Inmates and mental patients can just tie a towel to a door knob or bed frame and lean into it. All that matters is that there's enough pressure to stop oxygen from getting to your brain.
@Eros: I don't know. I would figure it has to do with muscles either reflexively contracting or relaxing.
The only thing I've heard with reflex action is if gagged during anal, the sphincter muscles will contract. I guess that is the body's defense against shitting yourself while vomiting. Never tried it though, because I never had sex with a chick crazy enough to say yes, or that I hated enough not to ask.
LOL!? I had to read this 4 times before finally getting it. Very witty, Count.
You know about the muscles reflexing automatically during asphyxiation - I thought it would be something similar to that . I just couldn't fathom how one would become sexual ly stimulated. I'm guess the person would have to become sexually stumulated from pain for this to work. Yup, *dusting off my hands * This would never work for me. I dont like pain.
THANK YOU, @AMD. I hate that the man she'd been dating is the first thing anyone mentions, sometimes even before her name. She was a person in her own right, FFS.
(I also despise "female [occupation]" in obits--no, moron, it's "[occupation]".)
I was a big follower of her Instagram account. It was exceptional. She posted pics of her in !Mississippi, India and Barbados with him in the last few months. On January 15th after posting several times. A Day she stopped. I think her staff did her twitter. Take a look at her Instagram. What an eye she had for beauty!
I'll never understand what drives someone to do something like this.
I went to high school with Ricky Berry, I didn't know him personally, but I went the basketball games and he was so good. He made the NBA. He had everything he thought he wanted. Then he shot himself after an argument with his wife.
There's so much more going on there than we know. Ricky killed himself, L'Wren killed herself. The other people may have been excuses, but there was a lot more going on than any of us will ever know or understand.
@headrot Honey, please don't say that. You would be missed here terribly. You will get through this. You've made it so far. Sometimes it's even taking it 15 minutes at a time.
Very sad. She was very talented, her gowns and dresses were very feminine and beautiful.
Large debts are nothing strange in the fashion world, many a small or mid-scale designer has had to close up shop due to money troubles. Its not unusual to see them re-open a few years later with new backing - Mizrahi comes to mind. It seems a bit extreme to take your life over it, but then who knows her state of mind. I'm sure we'll hear more in the coming weeks.
It is all a bit reminiscent of Hutchence - the scarf on the doorknob, etc. I wonder if she left a note.
Re Enty and recent blinds: there was plenty of chatter about Scott after she cancelled her LFW show and her absence from Jade Jagger's (and daughters) baby shower over the wkend. Nothing an alert blind gossip blogger wouldn't pick up on. I wouldn't assume they (Entys) had an inside track on info here.
Headrot, please get help. Strength & courage are asking for help when you need it, even if the first step is a gossip blog. You are unique, & should you go through with your thoughts, your light can never be replaced. There would be a dark space in the world that no-one else could fill.
I have a dear friend in a depressive episode at the moment. She is pregnant & can only take a certain anti-depressant. I text her, but not too much, as I don't want her to feel pressured. She knows I am here & would go to her if she needed me at the drop of a hat. She has survived numerous self-harm attempts & I am so grateful that she is still here & didn't succeed. For anyone who is having dark thoughts, please get help.
We'll said @feraltart, I hope your friend gets through it...I've had a number of friends too with depression pre and post pregnancy and it's no joke. You are a good friend....
@headrot the number for Suicide help in the US is 1800 273 TALK please call this if you need or let me know if you are in a different country than the US and I'll find another number for you. We care a lot about you, honey...
My friends husband had a degenerative disease, didn't want to die from it and committed suicide. He called his uncle and cousin to come over and killed himself after the call. Headrot, I echo other peoples advice. Please don't even contemplate taking your life. It's a permanent solution to a temporary problem.
Suicide is painful for all the people left behind.
@jsierra LMFAO talking like someone who knows nothing.
call a hotline for what? seriously. hotlines dont fix shit. its a fucking joke. theyre all well and grand for people who dont have legit issues and just need someone to whine to.
if you fools think my envy is me feeling suicidal youre wrong and i can barely contain my disgust at the stupidity.
@feraltart who the fuck are you to tell me I need help? sounds like youre the one who needs help as you need a reality check.
@sherry no shit sherlock. and thank you for moronically jumping on the bandwagon. never once did i claim to be suicidal. but thanks for verbalizing what i knew all along. people who are "antisuicide" are the fucking selfish ones cause they are more worried with "their feelings" than what is best for the other person.
headrot: Don't be so callously dismissive of people who, out of no motive other than simple human decency, have posted support and advice for you doesn't speak well of you. Leekalicious is simply being kind and trying to be helpful, as is everyone else who's posted with advice or offers of support; they've either been there and done that themselves (or, more accurately, not done that...), or know people who've been in that same boat, or are simply compassionate people. Maybe that seems "corny" or insufficiently "edgy" for you; maybe you're in so black a place that you can't imagine anyone giving a rat's ass; maybe you're trying to drive people away to justify whatever you want to do--hell, maybe you're just trolling us all...WHATEVER. No matter what your story really is, she doesn't want you to kill yourself, I don't want you to kill yourself, and I think I can safely say no one else here really does, either. This isn't 4chan, FFS; we don't encourage vulnerable people to hurt themselves, even when they do piss us off, as you seem intent on doing; we hope that you get help and support, and come through whatever dark space you're in. Maybe you'll be a happier, friendlier person; maybe you'll still be a jerk; but hey, at least you'll still be alive. We do it because that's what basically decent people do, damn it, and we'll keep doing it no matter how much you sneer at it, so there. *blows raspberry*
TL;DR: You can be a jerk all you like, but nobody here really wants you to hurt yourself, so go get some help if you need it, OK?
"It doesn't speak well of you." Damn my getting wound up and messing up my syntax...anyway, all of my previous comment is based on the idea that you might actually be depressed, suicidal, or just plain unhappy. If all you are is a raging bitch on wheels, though...that's your business, but we still don't want you to hurt yourself. We're not trying to help because of the kind of person you are--it's because of the kind of people we are. Selfish? Go ahead and say that (and you will, no doubt...). I just think of it as Doing The Right Thing, whether or not it meets with your approval.
@robin living in a world with an idiot like you isnt a world that i wish on anyone or their children. ps. i hope noones been stupid enough to procreate with you cause i would absolutely hate to have to deal with the selfish self entitled little asshats that you'd clearly raise.
and i dont give a rats ass what you want.
i however, do wish that you'd do the world a favor and kill yourself.
also: didnt realize you were a psychic and knew all about everyone's lives in here to know that they've "been there", that just takes your idiocy to a new level.
I have always loved Jagger since I was a child. But let's face it, he doesn't have to be faithful to anyone. He can be the 'dog' he is and date whomever he wants, but just know, if he dates you, he will not be faithful.
Another thing, one article says she called someone to come to her place so she would find her. How horrible is that? She was really messed up.
Yeah, well, Julia Roberts' half-sister committed suicide a couple of weeks before the Oscars and there's Julia, laughing in the second row and mugging in Ellen's famous selfie, and going to the after-parties.
Good riddance to bad rubbish. She was a spoiled brat who killed herself because her business failed and her boyfriend fucked around on her. Big fucking deal. Happens every day to people who don't own nine million dollar apartments with carcelevstors so they can drive to the door of their 9th floor pad. I have no sympathy for this spoiled cunt and neither should Mick.
@headrot I posted in the other L'Wren thread, a long post, to try to help. I do know what it's like, bc when I was drinking, I made two serious attempts. One of them landed me on a ventilator, so please don't tell me what I know. It wasn't fun. My throat hurt like shit after. Right now you are angry at the people who are trying to help you. You need to get angry at the alcohol/drugs that are making your life miserable. You need to think about things that will replace the drinking/drugs. You will find that the only thing you had in common with friends at the bar, or your dealer, was the alcohol or drugs. Take your life and sobriety back - one drink or hit at a time if you have to, and give the finger to the substances and people who have caused the pain. People will envy you because you've been able to quit. Some will be pissed off. The people who love you will be so very glad to have you back.
Headrot, you have a lot of spirit. Think about the anger you have toward people on this board. Try to refocus that on the substance. Your anger here is really fear of letting go of your booze/drug. You have a lot of spunk, and you are a survivor. Make that work for you.
Im not angry at anyone. Im disgusted with a bunch of idiots who are a good representation of the common human race who prove on a regular if not hourly basis how fucking stupid they are, how worthless and meaningless their lives are, and how self centered and self important they think themselves and what the fuck is wrong with society that encourages people like you to reproduce and continue on in your sickening little bubble like you do. Seriously, learn this mantra, because its fact "if you didnt exist, the world would be a better place"
@headrot I spilled my guts on here trying to help you. If it wasn't good enough, I am sorry. If I'm off base, then please enlighten me.
There are some good, kind people on here who are going out of their way to reach out to you. When you mentioned suicide and how you admired L'Wren for having the balls to go through with it, maybe you were joking. In that case you should have added something like: just kidding. If you've read this board for any length of time you know that there are others who have lost people to suicide. In short, it's a red flag, a blaring siren to action. I would cry if I knew something had happened to you, headrot, from the little I know about you. Your view of life right now seems very cynical and dark. You are actually the one that sounds self-centred right now.
@Headrot What is the cause? What is it that I need to get right? You mean you want me to encourage you to kill yourself? Support you in that choice? That will never happen. Maybe you need to get back to writing? Just try to do a little bit everyday. I don't mean writing a bestseller, I just mean getting back into the habit and take it from there.
mick jagger knows he broke up with that girl and is trying to make it seem like they were still together so he wont be the "blame" and hes a piece of shit for that!
@Headrot I do get it now, slow as I am. You were telling me to try harder next time to off myself. I don't think it will happen to me again, because now that I'm clean and sober, I can see with clear eyes what is happening around me. I can see who my friends are and who is using me.
She's been like two different people lately - sweet one minute, then striking out at someone nice like you, fancy, and all the others who tried to help, for no apparent reason. If it actually was headrot, the hateful stuff is when she's drinking or using. The nice part is headrot sober. Or, as fancy suggests, it's a fake headrot (which I hope). We may never know, because she doesn't read the group all the time.
RIP
ReplyDeleteWow, that is sad. RIP L'Wren.
ReplyDeletewow... wasn't there just a blind about these 2? how eerie.
ReplyDeleteThat's awful. RIP.
ReplyDeleteno no no!!
ReplyDeleteWait, wasn't there a blind about her the other day?
ReplyDeleteSo sad. She made some lovely clothes.
ReplyDeleteI don't know what role Jagger played in her troubles, but this story will follow him for the rest of his life. It will be in his obituary.
Didn't you post a blind about her the other day? The celeb who cancelled a big event because of her cheating rock star boyfriend? WOW!
ReplyDeleteRIP
ReplyDeletePoor thing. May she find some peace at last.
Awful. RIP, poor woman. She must have been in a truly terrible place.
ReplyDeleteAs I said on the other thread if that blind from the other day wasn't BS Mick has some deep deep thinking to do right now.
ReplyDeletehere's the blind: http://www.crazydaysandnights.net/2014/03/todays-blind-items-she-disappeared.html
ReplyDeleteRIP/Condolences to Ms. Scott.... wow Enty you were on to this days ago... how do you do it???
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ReplyDeleteThe blind I think was on 3-13 #10 that discussed her. It was pretty darn grim.
ReplyDeleteGahddam it. :( RIP
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ReplyDeleteSo sad. :(
ReplyDeleteThis is awful.
ReplyDeleteSo terribly sad. Yet, curious. She seemed to "have it all." Not that it means that she had a perfect life, but something had to be bothering her.
ReplyDeleteNot sure why, but this quote is the first one that jumps out at me after hearing she committed suicide. In reference to stars and celebrities & how 'she found out that things are not always as they seem.'
"'You'll see the most perfect person (star) and you are like, God, she's, like, perfect. And then she'll tell you everything that's not perfect. Everyone has their own special set of problems--in their own minds,' she told Harper's Bazaar in 2011. "
None of ever can see inside another persons head or know their pain, I'm so sad for her.
ReplyDeleteEnty posts http://www.crazydaysandnights.net/2014/03/todays-blind-items-she-disappeared.html and people think the site is fake?
ReplyDeleteVery sad news. My thoughts are with her friends and family.
ReplyDeleteNY Daily News is claiming she was found hung by a scarf around her doorknob. So sad, hope she finds the peace she was searching for.
ReplyDeleteDoes Enty have to reduce her to just "girlfriend of Mick Jagger?" What about her accomplishments?
ReplyDeletecheck out the lifts in Mick's shoes in that picture. yowza, now I know where Tom Cruise shops!
ReplyDeleteVery sad. But scarf tied to a doorknob? And no suicide note? Not to mention, she was tweeting/FB just last week. I was thinking this seems more like an autoerotic-asphyxiation gone wrong.
ReplyDeleteI feel bad she is dead, but you can't pin this on Mick. He is Mick Jagger, you know going in he will bang anything that moves.
ReplyDeleteWow. I just checked her Wiki to find her age (47). I figure pill OD. She hung herself, from a doorknob, with a scarf. That is certainly committing to a cause, when you can stand up and walk away if you have second thoughts.
@turtle: Wouldn't it be something if it was a kinky sexual thing, and Mick split when shit went south?
ReplyDelete@ Count... I think that is how david carradine.. Evidently asphyxiation causes some type of sexual high...
DeleteI actually gasped when I scrolled down to see this. That poor woman. I can only imagine what she was going through. I wish she'd been able to see her way to getting help. I feel more for those she left behind, though.
ReplyDeleteAnd I hope this could help Mick Jagger get some therapy to live his life in a less selfish manner.
over some wretched ass mick jaggerrrr!!!!
ReplyDeletegirl, i wish i could bring you back. It wasnt worth itttttttt
@S
ReplyDeletesometimes Enty writes true blinds but for one true blind ,how many fake blinds?
Kevin Bacon's divorce (3/4 years ago),Jennifer garner/amy adams's pregnancy last year, sandra bullock's new adoption,kate beckinsale's divorce,Kanye West's absent at the baby shower,Ashley Judd's car story....Even what Enty wrote on Lindsay Lohan's burglarized house was untrue.
who know? in 3 days,we will learn L'wren was depressive or ill or Jagger and she broke/breaking or something without link
i just hope L'Wren is in peace now
This is awful.
ReplyDeleteI hope no one who admired her decides to emulate her. Depression lies.
Someone who takes their own life is struggling with a lot more than just simple relationship issues. As well, you never know if the issues they are struggling with (usually major depression or other mental illness) are contributing to the relationship problems, simply by neither side knowing how to handle it.
ReplyDeleteEvery time something like this happens, people look at those left behind and thing "why didn't you do something?" but I'm sure they are asking the same of themselves. Hindsight is 20/20. It's easier to judge when you're not in that position.
Had a friend take her life about 5 years ago now, and I still think about her and think "I should have just called her, why didn't I call her? Why didn't I check in more often?" And I was living on the other side of the world at the time. It's hard, you realize afterwards what you could have done differently but at the time you don't see it.
Wow. How incredibly sad. She must have had deeper issues than just Mick.
ReplyDeleteHow does someone that tall hand themselves from a doorknob, though?
I actually gasped when I saw this too Disco. So very sad and tragic and no, it wasn't Mick's fault. Everyone knows he has no qualms about cheating. And maybe she didn't care about that anyway. Gawd I feel so badly about this for some reason. She was such a talented lady.
ReplyDeleteLike Alexander McQueen-another amazing designer who took his life. They've deprived the world of the beauty they could create but it was too hard for them to stay.
May she find the peace she was so desperately hoping to find.
Disco - Mick is 70. He isn't going to change now. To her credit, Angelina Jolie saw through him when he aggressively pursued her back in the 90's.
ReplyDeleteRIP L'Wren.
i just beleieve she did this, cant believe it!
ReplyDeleteI am sad over this......not that I knew anything about her, but to feel as if there is no reason to live....
ReplyDeleteChrist Enty, how about "L'Wren Scott, successful clothing designer and model...." She had an identity before and beyond Mick Jagger.
ReplyDeletei'm jealous that she had the conviction to go through with it.
ReplyDeleteThat is one messed up comment Headrot - I hope you get help.
DeleteHead there is nothing to be jealous of here. hun it s not proper thinking. depression has its demons black dogs. you should talk to someone about it as it s not worth it. once out of the tunnel you can understand why
DeleteI hope you both get half a brain and i hope romona gets help taking her tranny makeup off
Delete@JBE - Everyone is capable of a turning point moment, but you're probably right. It's easier for folks to just not have them.
ReplyDelete@eros: yeah, f that. I'm too much of a klutz to choke or try hanging myself. Closest I've gotten to breathe play is huffing panties.
ReplyDeleteLOL.
Lmao!! @ huffing panties, Count. That sounds a lot more fun than accidentally breaking your neck on a door knob.. Personally, I am a scary ass and though I would never try it I have always been curious about asphyxiation erotica... not for the standard reasons. Im more curious about the science behind it from a biological perspective. .. like how the body would or can become sexually stimulated from lack of oxygen. Im gonna wiki that shit later if I can remember.
DeleteHeadrot that isn't something to be jealous about. What you will be jealous of is everyone else who fought through their depression and chose life over death should you decide you want to follow in L'Wren's footsteps. Life can always change and get better, but death is certain and unknown. Don't make the grass is greener mistake, it is never better on the other side.
ReplyDeletemy heart stopped for a second when I read the headline and seriously asked myself if it was April Fool's Day.
ReplyDelete"And I hope this could help Mick Jagger get some therapy to live his life in a less selfish manner"
ReplyDeleteMick Jagger is not going to change. Did he feel guilty about Brian Jones? Not for one nanosecond.
And yes I did find this sad for L'wren. Total shock more than the news about PSH.
She was super tall - how did she hang herself from a door knob?
ReplyDeleteWeird.
I liked her designs.
You have to know going in with a rock star that there's going to be lots of sex outside the relationship.
@Amartel: you do not need a drop to successfully hang yourself but it I is usually helpful. You actually don't need any drop. Inmates and mental patients can just tie a towel to a door knob or bed frame and lean into it. All that matters is that there's enough pressure to stop oxygen from getting to your brain.
Delete@Eros: I don't know. I would figure it has to do with muscles either reflexively contracting or relaxing.
ReplyDeleteThe only thing I've heard with reflex action is if gagged during anal, the sphincter muscles will contract. I guess that is the body's defense against shitting yourself while vomiting. Never tried it though, because I never had sex with a chick crazy enough to say yes, or that I hated enough not to ask.
P.S. If you put the panties inside out on a pillow, you can close your eyes and pretend you are 69ing.
ReplyDeleteLOL!? I had to read this 4 times before finally getting it. Very witty, Count.
DeleteYou know about the muscles reflexing automatically during asphyxiation - I thought it would be something similar to that . I just couldn't fathom how one would become sexual ly stimulated. I'm guess the person would have to become sexually stumulated from pain for this to work. Yup, *dusting off my hands * This would never work for me. I dont like pain.
RIP L'Wren...
ReplyDeleteTHANK YOU, @AMD. I hate that the man she'd been dating is the first thing anyone mentions, sometimes even before her name. She was a person in her own right, FFS.
ReplyDelete(I also despise "female [occupation]" in obits--no, moron, it's "[occupation]".)
I was a big follower of her Instagram account. It was exceptional. She posted pics of her in !Mississippi, India and Barbados with him in the last few months. On January 15th after posting several times. A Day she stopped. I think her staff did her twitter. Take a look at her Instagram. What an eye she had for beauty!
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ReplyDeleteI'll never understand what drives someone to do something like this.
ReplyDeleteI went to high school with Ricky Berry, I didn't know him personally, but I went the basketball games and he was so good. He made the NBA. He had everything he thought he wanted. Then he shot himself after an argument with his wife.
There's so much more going on there than we know. Ricky killed himself, L'Wren killed herself. The other people may have been excuses, but there was a lot more going on than any of us will ever know or understand.
RIP
ReplyDeleteaccording to Daily Mail,she had huge money trouble ($6 millions in debt) and it could be the cause of her suicide
ReplyDeleteGawker is reporting her business was pretty much in ruins. She didn't show anything at fashion week.
ReplyDeleteThis is horrible.
@headrot
ReplyDeleteHoney, please don't say that. You would be missed here terribly. You will get through this. You've made it so far. Sometimes it's even taking it 15 minutes at a time.
Very sad. She was very talented, her gowns and dresses were very feminine and beautiful.
ReplyDeleteLarge debts are nothing strange in the fashion world, many a small or mid-scale designer has had to close up shop due to money troubles. Its not unusual to see them re-open a few years later with new backing - Mizrahi comes to mind. It seems a bit extreme to take your life over it, but then who knows her state of mind. I'm sure we'll hear more in the coming weeks.
It is all a bit reminiscent of Hutchence - the scarf on the doorknob, etc. I wonder if she left a note.
Re Enty and recent blinds: there was plenty of chatter about Scott after she cancelled her LFW show and her absence from Jade Jagger's (and daughters) baby shower over the wkend. Nothing an alert blind gossip blogger wouldn't pick up on. I wouldn't assume they (Entys) had an inside track on info here.
Headrot, please get help. Strength & courage are asking for help when you need it, even if the first step is a gossip blog. You are unique, & should you go through with your thoughts, your light can never be replaced. There would be a dark space in the world that no-one else could fill.
ReplyDeleteI have a dear friend in a depressive episode at the moment. She is pregnant & can only take a certain anti-depressant. I text her, but not too much, as I don't want her to feel pressured. She knows I am here & would go to her if she needed me at the drop of a hat. She has survived numerous self-harm attempts & I am so grateful that she is still here & didn't succeed. For anyone who is having dark thoughts, please get help.
We'll said @feraltart, I hope your friend gets through it...I've had a number of friends too with depression pre and post pregnancy and it's no joke. You are a good friend....
Delete@headrot the number for Suicide help in the US is 1800 273 TALK please call this if you need or let me know if you are in a different country than the US and I'll find another number for you. We care a lot about you, honey...
RIP. Very sad. I think her Instagram is gone. I can't find it.
ReplyDeleteShe called or texted or emailed her assistant to come over. The assistant found her dead, she hanged herself.
ReplyDeleteOh great - come on over and find my dead body - and by the way, you don't have a job anymore.
Sucky day for the assistant, I would say.
My friends husband had a degenerative disease, didn't want to die from it and committed suicide. He called his uncle and cousin to come over and killed himself after the call.
ReplyDeleteHeadrot, I echo other peoples advice. Please don't even contemplate taking your life. It's a permanent solution to a temporary problem.
Suicide is painful for all the people left behind.
She texted the assistant at 8:30. Assistant arrived at 10. Did she expect the ass't to arrive in time to "save" her?
ReplyDelete@jsierra LMFAO talking like someone who knows nothing.
ReplyDeletecall a hotline for what? seriously. hotlines dont fix shit. its a fucking joke. theyre all well and grand for people who dont have legit issues and just need someone to whine to.
if you fools think my envy is me feeling suicidal youre wrong and i can barely contain my disgust at the stupidity.
@leek whatever. that statement is ridiculous
@feraltart who the fuck are you to tell me I need help? sounds like youre the one who needs help as you need a reality check.
ReplyDelete@sherry no shit sherlock. and thank you for moronically jumping on the bandwagon. never once did i claim to be suicidal. but thanks for verbalizing what i knew all along. people who are "antisuicide" are the fucking selfish ones cause they are more worried with "their feelings" than what is best for the other person.
fucking disgusting.
Oh Headrot, we are just trying to extend a bit of love and care across the interwebs to you. I'm sorry if it upset you
ReplyDeleteheadrot: Don't be so callously dismissive of people who, out of no motive other than simple human decency, have posted support and advice for you doesn't speak well of you. Leekalicious is simply being kind and trying to be helpful, as is everyone else who's posted with advice or offers of support; they've either been there and done that themselves (or, more accurately, not done that...), or know people who've been in that same boat, or are simply compassionate people. Maybe that seems "corny" or insufficiently "edgy" for you; maybe you're in so black a place that you can't imagine anyone giving a rat's ass; maybe you're trying to drive people away to justify whatever you want to do--hell, maybe you're just trolling us all...WHATEVER. No matter what your story really is, she doesn't want you to kill yourself, I don't want you to kill yourself, and I think I can safely say no one else here really does, either. This isn't 4chan, FFS; we don't encourage vulnerable people to hurt themselves, even when they do piss us off, as you seem intent on doing; we hope that you get help and support, and come through whatever dark space you're in. Maybe you'll be a happier, friendlier person; maybe you'll still be a jerk; but hey, at least you'll still be alive. We do it because that's what basically decent people do, damn it, and we'll keep doing it no matter how much you sneer at it, so there. *blows raspberry*
ReplyDeleteTL;DR: You can be a jerk all you like, but nobody here really wants you to hurt yourself, so go get some help if you need it, OK?
"It doesn't speak well of you." Damn my getting wound up and messing up my syntax...anyway, all of my previous comment is based on the idea that you might actually be depressed, suicidal, or just plain unhappy. If all you are is a raging bitch on wheels, though...that's your business, but we still don't want you to hurt yourself. We're not trying to help because of the kind of person you are--it's because of the kind of people we are. Selfish? Go ahead and say that (and you will, no doubt...). I just think of it as Doing The Right Thing, whether or not it meets with your approval.
ReplyDelete@robin living in a world with an idiot like you isnt a world that i wish on anyone or their children. ps. i hope noones been stupid enough to procreate with you cause i would absolutely hate to have to deal with the selfish self entitled little asshats that you'd clearly raise.
ReplyDeleteand i dont give a rats ass what you want.
i however, do wish that you'd do the world a favor and kill yourself.
also: didnt realize you were a psychic and knew all about everyone's lives in here to know that they've "been there", that just takes your idiocy to a new level.
ReplyDeletedecent people let other people do what is right for them. decent people dont do what makes them feel better.
ReplyDeletei'm sorry your narrow mind has formed in such a way that the actual definition of what a decent human is has escaped you.
Somebody said to me recently on another thread "don't feed the troll."
ReplyDeleteGood advice, I think.
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ReplyDeleteShe was beautiful and talented. How sad.
ReplyDeleteI have always loved Jagger since I was a child. But let's face it, he doesn't have to be faithful to anyone. He can be the 'dog' he is and date whomever he wants, but just know, if he dates you, he will not be faithful.
ReplyDeleteAnother thing, one article says she called someone to come to her place so she would find her. How horrible is that? She was really messed up.
Tina Mallette referenced Brian Jones death and how the Stones as a collective never seemed to look back.
ReplyDeleteThat said this is so sad.
Yeah, well, Julia Roberts' half-sister committed suicide a couple of weeks before the Oscars and there's Julia, laughing in the second row and mugging in Ellen's famous selfie, and going to the after-parties.
ReplyDeleteBut hey - at least she wore black.
Good riddance to bad rubbish. She was a spoiled brat who killed herself because her business failed and her boyfriend fucked around on her. Big fucking deal. Happens every day to people who don't own nine million dollar apartments with carcelevstors so they can drive to the door of their 9th floor pad. I have no sympathy for this spoiled cunt and neither should Mick.
ReplyDeleteAnd wow is all I'll say to the mess in here. Suicide is bad m'kay.
ReplyDeleteShe killed herself on Patti Richards' birthday :(
ReplyDelete@headrot I posted in the other L'Wren thread, a long post, to try to help. I do know what it's like, bc when I was drinking, I made two serious attempts. One of them landed me on a ventilator, so please don't tell me what I know. It wasn't fun. My throat hurt like shit after. Right now you are angry at the people who are trying to help you. You need to get angry at the alcohol/drugs that are making your life miserable. You need to think about things that will replace the drinking/drugs. You will find that the only thing you had in common with friends at the bar, or your dealer, was the alcohol or drugs. Take your life and sobriety back - one drink or hit at a time if you have to, and give the finger to the substances and people who have caused the pain. People will envy you because you've been able to quit. Some will be pissed off. The people who love you will be so very glad to have you back.
ReplyDeleteHeadrot, you have a lot of spirit. Think about the anger you have toward people on this board. Try to refocus that on the substance. Your anger here is really fear of letting go of your booze/drug. You have a lot of spunk, and you are a survivor. Make that work for you.
ReplyDeleteClearly you werent committed enough to the cause leek. You need to try again and get it right.
ReplyDeleteIm not angry at anyone. Im disgusted with a bunch of idiots who are a good representation of the common human race who prove on a regular if not hourly basis how fucking stupid they are, how worthless and meaningless their lives are, and how self centered and self important they think themselves and what the fuck is wrong with society that encourages people like you to reproduce and continue on in your sickening little bubble like you do. Seriously, learn this mantra, because its fact "if you didnt exist, the world would be a better place"
ReplyDelete@headrot I spilled my guts on here trying to help you. If it wasn't good enough, I am sorry. If I'm off base, then please enlighten me.
ReplyDeleteThere are some good, kind people on here who are going out of their way to reach out to you. When you mentioned suicide and how you admired L'Wren for having the balls to go through with it, maybe you were joking. In that case you should have added something like: just kidding. If you've read this board for any length of time you know that there are others who have lost people to suicide. In short, it's a red flag, a blaring siren to action. I would cry if I knew something had happened to you, headrot, from the little I know about you. Your view of life right now seems very cynical and dark. You are actually the one that sounds self-centred right now.
Why does suicide always bring out all the trolls?
ReplyDelete@CharRicho Call me a troll if you want, but I'm just trying to help.
ReplyDelete@Headrot What is the cause? What is it that I need to get right? You mean you want me to encourage you to kill yourself? Support you in that choice? That will never happen. Maybe you need to get back to writing? Just try to do a little bit everyday. I don't mean writing a bestseller, I just mean getting back into the habit and take it from there.
ReplyDeletemick jagger knows he broke up with that girl and is trying to make it seem like they were still together so he wont be the "blame" and hes a piece of shit for that!
ReplyDelete@leeky you're not the troll, Headrot is.....
ReplyDelete@Headrot I do get it now, slow as I am. You were telling me to try harder next time to off myself. I don't think it will happen to me again, because now that I'm clean and sober, I can see with clear eyes what is happening around me. I can see who my friends are and who is using me.
ReplyDeleteThis does NOT sound like headrot!
ReplyDelete@TTM I agree it does not...do you think a troll has taken over? Can 2 people have the same Blogger name? I thought not..
ReplyDeleteWell, there's the Fake Count, same name, and about 1000 Unknowns, so I think so for sure, but why headrot??
ReplyDeleteTypical of trolls. Turn a thread of a woman light years ahead of yourself into a thread about YOU...
ReplyDeleteSMH
Stop drinking the kool aide people. The master is at work. AND she's laughing.
I just hope she's Okay. I'm very worried about her.
ReplyDeleteShe's been like two different people lately - sweet one minute, then striking out at someone nice like you, fancy, and all the others who tried to help, for no apparent reason. If it actually was headrot, the hateful stuff is when she's drinking or using. The nice part is headrot sober. Or, as fancy suggests, it's a fake headrot (which I hope). We may never know, because she doesn't read the group all the time.
ReplyDeleteWe can only be human Leeky! Unfortunately I don't think it's a fake....I too hope she's ok.
ReplyDelete@BeckyMae Thanks for that, I feel a little better now.
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