My experience from dating the nice guy...they end up chasing, treating you like gold, worshipping you, telling you how amazing and wonderful you are. Even though they're not you're type...you give them a chance, because they're so good to you. Then months later, once they have your heart, they pull away and dump you at 2:40am on a Monday morning out of the blue, after the day before telling you he loved you and wanted to move in with you and was planning your bday party w/ your best friend...never to hear from them again. That's what I think of nice guys. Overrated.
I guess I'm a little bitter, if you couldn't tell.
Crila 16 -- that's a real bummer of a story & I'm sorry it happened to you. I can see why you're bitter & hope you've found an edgy dude to have kickass rebound sex with. FWIW, I married a nice guy & it'll be 10 years in August. The only big surprise is he can be a real self-centered a-hole at times, which just makes him human. A really, really annoying human.
"Nice" guys are not really nice guys. At least not the guys who continually proclaim they are "nice guys" and, "I should just be an asshole. The girls seem to like that." And then one day they are the worst asshole you ever encountered. Or they stalk you. At least you know where you stand with the jerks.
Just food for thought: It is naturally easier for the guy to be nice if the girl is also nice. Have any of you stopped to consider if you are as nice as you used to be? My sympathies to Crila 16 though, jerks can come in all forms, shapes and sizes....
Does anyone actually watch the videos Enty posts?
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DeleteMy experience from dating the nice guy...they end up chasing, treating you like gold, worshipping you, telling you how amazing and wonderful you are. Even though they're not you're type...you give them a chance, because they're so good to you. Then months later, once they have your heart, they pull away and dump you at 2:40am on a Monday morning out of the blue, after the day before telling you he loved you and wanted to move in with you and was planning your bday party w/ your best friend...never to hear from them again. That's what I think of nice guys. Overrated.
ReplyDeleteI guess I'm a little bitter, if you couldn't tell.
Only if it's puppies or kittens!
ReplyDeleteI always check the comments first to see if it's worth watching.
ReplyDeleteI never watch them either. They usually take long to load and aren't worth it. Or rarely are worth it.
ReplyDeleteCrila 16 -- that's a real bummer of a story & I'm sorry it happened to you. I can see why you're bitter & hope you've found an edgy dude to have kickass rebound sex with. FWIW, I married a nice guy & it'll be 10 years in August. The only big surprise is he can be a real self-centered a-hole at times, which just makes him human. A really, really annoying human.
ReplyDeleteComing up on 24 years with a nice guy. Funny thing though...he's not nearly as nice anymore. Sometimes I have to do my own laundry!
ReplyDelete"Nice" guys are not really nice guys. At least not the guys who continually proclaim they are "nice guys" and, "I should just be an asshole. The girls seem to like that." And then one day they are the worst asshole you ever encountered. Or they stalk you. At least you know where you stand with the jerks.
ReplyDeleteNot paying for data to watch videos. Sometimes read comments.
ReplyDeleteReally nice guys don't move in with you. Ever. You move in with them.
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ReplyDeleteJust food for thought: It is naturally easier for the guy to be nice if the girl is also nice. Have any of you stopped to consider if you are as nice as you used to be?
ReplyDeleteMy sympathies to Crila 16 though, jerks can come in all forms, shapes and sizes....
If you need to say that you're a nice guy, you're not a nice guy.
ReplyDeleteIf you think women are machines where you put niceness in until sex pops out, you're not a nice guy.
Being nice to eachother is a basis for social life, if you think you deserve a f* cookie for something so basic, you're not a nice guy.