Blind Items Revealed
August 3, 2012
If you date this former A list celebrity and now a struggling C who still has A list recognition, you do so at your peril. Of course before you even get a date with her she will know whether or not you are into kink. She only wants you if you are willing to be dominated by her and are willing to suffer all in the name of her personal satisfaction. You think you are going to get satisfied? Not going to happen at least while you are with her. It is all about her and only her and if you can't handle that then you better leave. She does not break up with guys, they run from her. The longer you go out with her the edgier she gets and the riskier she gets. Safe words? Not with her. She goes until she gets tired or bored. Oh, and this will be revealed.
Janet Jackson
Everything, and I mean everything, about Janet Jackson that baffled me before has been solved by this blind. The music, the husbands, Jermaine Dupri....wow it all makes sense now. Go Janet.
ReplyDeleteThis is from last year??? Total bullshit blind!
DeleteShe's been with her husband for 1 year and dates him for 4 years. Stupid!
Well twisted perverted kids arise from a mom who turns a blind eye to a father's sexual and physical abuse all while counting money and talking about Jesus.Just realize this abuse is still going on with the next generation. All of them are broken.
DeleteWell twisted perverted kids arise from a mom who turns a blind eye to a father's sexual and physical abuse all while counting money and talking about Jesus.Just realize this abuse is still going on with the next generation. All of them are broken.
DeleteControl!
ReplyDeletesounds like Micheal Jacksons relations with little boys....I always thought she was molested when young. She is so strange and mouse-like in interviews etc.
ReplyDeleteGet it girl. GET. IT.
ReplyDeleteneed to ask michael jordan about this!!!
ReplyDeleteThe chorus of "Control"
ReplyDeleteI'm in
Control
Never gonna stop
Control
To get what I want
Control
I like to have a lot
Control
Now I'm all grown up
Mrs. Jackson, if you're nasty!!
ReplyDeleteI guess her billionaire husband doesn't mind the ass spanking
ReplyDeleteIt's always the quiet ones innit?
ReplyDeleteDoesn't surprise me in the least. She has always given off a bit of a domme vibe. Definitely evident at her concerts. I bet her new hubby likes this aspect of her too.
ReplyDeleteI say let your freak flag fly!
No Safe words! How messed up is that? I wouldn't' trust Janet with Anything I valued, let alone my personal safety.
ReplyDeleteThose Jacksons are one messed up family.
ReplyDeleteI was sure this was Martha Stewart.
ReplyDeleteLoL, lazyday. It wouldn't have surprised me in the least.
DeleteI would think guys would line up for this treatment! Not all them, but a certain type (of which there are legions...)
ReplyDeleteHell Rosemary - guys pay $$ for this kind of treatment- although they probably wants some sexual gratification themselves.
Deletef-ing sick, how is that fun for the guy? Pain until she gets tired or bored? one sided bedroom games? no thankyoufornothingseeya.
ReplyDeleteSick? You obviously know nothing about kink.
DeletePlease share! You'll make quite a few of us happy.
DeleteThat was directed to Keels.
DeletePaying money, at its core, implies that the man is still in some sort of control of the situation. You see, he has controlled her actions by creating an incentive (getting paid) so that she would beat the ever-loving stuffing out of him. If he doesn't want that to happen again, well he just doesn't offer money to her again. Miss Jackson just wants to cause pain and that is not a good kind of freaky.
ReplyDeleteAnother person that clearly knows nothing about kink/BDSM.
DeleteI know that when a person has no safe word that it can become dangerous. I may not be into the scene but I know when a submissive Won't use the safe word the Dom has to be more careful.
DeleteI always thought it the Sub that had the Real control.
If I'm wrong, you can educate me.
If you don't use a safe word, you shouldn't be engaging in BDSM activites. Plain and simple.
Delete@kels.its the gag AND tied up that confuses me. How do you tap out?
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DeletePaying money, at its core, implies that the man is still in some sort of control of the situation. You see, he has controlled her actions by creating an incentive (getting paid) so that she would beat the ever-loving stuffing out of him. If he doesn't want that to happen again, well he just doesn't offer money to her again. Miss Jackson just wants to cause pain and that is not a good kind of freaky.
ReplyDeleteI think it's great to read about a female celeb who likes to be the one doing the dominating, instead of being the one who gets dominated. That's what I hate about this current wave of "kinky" books-it's always the female getting dominated. Boring as shit IMO.
ReplyDeleteIf it was Jermaine Jackson doing this to woman most of you would agree it would be crooked and ego-driven. Especially considering she does not seem to bring any of the men pleasure etc and they RUN AWAY---sounds like assault and that is bullshit.
ReplyDeleteand I am tired of all you know-it-all kink people telling us non kink people we are ignorant or not entitled to op-pinons regarding sexuality that we do not partake in. This is not a kink board we are trolling so we can discuss our feelings however we choose and that situation is sick and deviant in my opinion
ReplyDeleteI think I might pass out, because I actually agree with you! Kinksters and poly people should not speak on behalf of all in their community. And it is just fine to think that something is deviant. IMHO, we might consider that the world would be so much better off if we leave people to their own CONSENSUAL activities and focus on the NONCONSENSUAL crap that ruins lives. A much more costly drain on our resources and destruction of creativity and contributions to society. Like rape, child modestly, bullying at all levels-personal to institutional. Tyvm for your time.
Delete@derek, I can see what you are saying, but it is also pointed out in the reveal: "It is all about her and only her and if you can't handle that then you better leave". So if you know this going in then both parties have a compatible kink.
DeleteI'm not sure this is so sick and deviant, there are plenty of subs who get off on dom/dommes who make it all about them.
Kink can be great fun with healthy minded adults. It does suck when you have two subs in a relationship though.
ReplyDeleteHow is it the reveals in the last three weeks are better than the reveals given for three days for 4th of July? I'm still puzzled on why there were days of repeat tweener and has-been DLister reveals.
ReplyDeleteI've been wondering the same thing...
Delete@V yeah its just a complicated situation I guess. I guess these type of blinds always irk me cause some people in my life annoy the hell outta me when they discuss their kinks and have this attitude that people not into that are less evolved sexually or missing out because we are stupid etc. Ive had to end relationships cause I just cant get into that stuff---personal preference only. Until recently one could argue that this was not really working for Ms. Jackson in terms of having sustainable relationships. She was always dating druggies etc. and IMHO way below her standards (use to be a huge fan of Janet as a child) b ut she got herself a billionare who is very attractive so time will tell. I guess if you ladies wanna get a quality man you can take a page from Ms. Nasty's handbook and get your dominance on. I am not shocked by the kink part---she has made it clear since the velvet rope album what shes into---but more shocked that she is a c-lister---Holly Madison is above her? dont think so
ReplyDeleteVelvet Rope indeed.
ReplyDelete@Derek, I think you nailed the real shock of this blind :)
ReplyDeleteWhile I think kink can be a great thing, I also think "vanilla" can be the most complex of flavors. Whatever your preference, just have fun and hopefully you and your partner(s) are making one another happy.
@Derek, I also only half believe this blind...is she a domme? Hell yah, but I call bullshit on the non use of safewords. I just think the guys she has been with ultimately were not true subs.
DeleteNobody is saying you are ignorant or not sexually evolved. I'm not into it and I'd say I'm a pretty sexual person. But to say that a sex act that is consensual between two adults is sick....IS kind of ignorant. Its one thing to say, hey thats not my thing or hey i dont get how someone can be aroused by that...and another to call it sick and weird.
ReplyDeleteYou can be as vanilla as you want, but do not call people who aren't vanilla sick and weird. I'm not even into BDSM or kink and I found the comments against Ms. Jackson to be even more disturbing than her kink. Is she hurting anyone who doesn't want it? No? Then shut up.
There had to been some serious problems in that household growing up(Jackson's) they were probably all molested, I know Joe was a beater, but they are all messed up. Feel sorry for Michaels kids!
ReplyDeleteThat is one messed-up family.
ReplyDeleteAnd apparently people HAVE to have been molested to be into this right? And theyre messed up because they like it right? Pure ignorance.
ReplyDeleteKels hun you are contradicting yourself. She doesn't use safe words it says. Therefore she does what she pleases whether buddy likes it or not ---aka borderline torture---everyone is entitled to their opinon no need for telling people to shut-up or name calling
ReplyDeleteActually hun no I'm not. If she tells you beforehand there are no safe words and you still give her money and agree to it, whos fault is that? Its dangerous, which is why I said a safe word should be used, but if she doesn't want it and he doesn't then who am I to say anything? Like I said, this is between two CONSENSUAL adults so they can do as they please.
DeleteTorture is involuntary. These subs know what they are getting into. Real torture is nothing to joke about and it's not the same as BDSM.
And you imply that her kinks are caused by molestation, yet you say that its just a matter of personal preference. You also say that if someone wants to get a man, take a page out of Janet's handbook yet you say that Janet's relationships haven't been successful and the only reason the one shes in now is successful is because hes rich and cute.
DeleteContradictions everywhere. Save it.
Ugh. Another woman victimizing and objectifying men. Disgusting.
ReplyDeleteso Kels you think its cool if Jermaine Jackson or Joe Jackson for all it matters sets up a scenario with a woman like this? no safe words, no stop, he will finish when he damn well pleases. and the women are running away this maniac and it is cute and funny? If this was a blind with a man you best acknowledge you wouldn't be so liberal with it
ReplyDeleteActually I would. Consent consent consent. And your argument doesn't work when all youre doing is trying to turn people who are already extremely creepy without any kind of sexual implication into what you think is a sexual deviant for the sake of an argument.
DeleteIt is all well and good until someone dies.....there HAS to be a safe word.
ReplyDeleteand look at her family....i do not think everyone into kink has been molested obvis. but in her particular case and with Michael and her other pervy brothers i think it has a little something to do with it. it does not take Sigmund Freud to realize that
ReplyDeleteTo those saying the guys are consenting or can leave whenever they want, I hope you have the same opinion the next time some female celeb isn't allowed in the house until an actor's 10 friends are done fucking her or has to where turtle necks to hide the hand print bruises around her throat.
ReplyDeleteConsent! Now I get why they drill this into you during sex ed. Consent consent consent.
Delete@Derek, even if Joe only molested certain family members and not all, ALL are affected. The Untouched are just as powerless and can either identify with the victim or the victimizer.
ReplyDeleteI think Janet chose to model herself after her father, the pain giver.
This is total bullshit! She's been with Wasam for several years.
ReplyDeleteThis is total bullshit! She's been with Wasam for several years.
ReplyDeletewhy is she just described as a c list celebrity? She would be a former A list singer, but still A list celebrity, and I'm not even a fan because the girl can't sing a lick.
ReplyDelete@count - I would. However comparing this with the mickey Rourke blind is a little much, no?
ReplyDeleteAnyway, I still think this blind is half true, half enty editorializing. Over the last 30 years Janet has been linked to 5 men - James debarge, Rene elizondo, Matthew mc, jermaine dupri, and her new hubby. She was with Rene and jermaine for at least 7 years a piece. Debarge, I'm not even counting because they were both young, but Rene and jermaine I could see them getting tired of the domme thing, but running? A bit of an exaggeration.
MMc, I've heard rumors likes a little smack time (similar yo his character in the paperboy) - so it's not really odd a fling may have occurred.
The new hubby? Maybe he likes what she has to offer and vice versa. Can't really say, since they are currently together.
Still doesn't sound like men "running from her" to me.
@V: shhhhhh. I'm trying to snag a loon. Don't go making sense on me.
ReplyDeleteK, ill shut it :)
ReplyDeletePerhaps kels is confusing ignorance (lack of knowledge) with idiocy (unable to learn). S'all good. Too bad though. I like learning about things from people who have experience.
ReplyDeleteNot unable...unwilling to learn.should have previewed :)
DeleteKels says shes not into that stuff anyways so she cant have much to teach and preach. If I am an idiot for not liking to be beat by someone with severe daddy issues in the bedroom or to beat and cause pain to someone I care for then so be it- I am an idiot----at least I can have good sex without some weird neurological temptation running through my head and a clear conscious of what is really up
ReplyDeleteI love her anyway
ReplyDeleteI knew when I saw her awesome breast guard thing at the half-time show that she was into something at least slightly kinky, but I thought she was a sub.
ReplyDeleteThere's no way I'd let Nasty Mizzzz Jackson near me w/o a safe word. No matter what her song says, she exhibits a serious lack of Control in her personal life. I don't think she could be trusted to stop at the right time.
Seems like a much healthier way to work out daddy issues than being a serial killer.
ReplyDeleteIf you're into kink, great - go do it. It's just boring to hear people talk about all the "edgy" and "kinky" stuff they do ad nauseam in the comments section of a...gossip blog. Seriously, it's boring and boorish, people.
ReplyDeleteI'm not a prude by any means, but phonies and their bullshit are tiresome.
Blah blah blow it out your ass.
ReplyDeleteIf ya don't like my comments, then don't read em. But no, you need something to piss and moan about, so you read every one of them.
my kinda womans....
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