November 30, 2012
This is not what this B- list television and movie, but best known for a hit almost network show expected. She did not sign up to hide inside and never be seen. She wants to go out and be noticed and have a career and be noticed and be in magazines and be noticed, not order in every night. It's what you get though when you are with this A list all movie actor. It is all about him and what he wants.
Blake Lively/Ryan Reynolds
Of course it's marble mouth. Too easy.
ReplyDeleteWhy am I so cranky today? Hmmm...
That's why scarlett ran for the hills
ReplyDeleteEasist blind ever part deux.
ReplyDeleteShouldn't have married him, dumbass.
ReplyDeleteBe careful what you wish for or you might just get it.
ReplyDeleteLeo is looking good right now I'll bet.
some boys take a beautiful girl and hiiiide her away from the rest of the wo-o-o-orld....
ReplyDelete@eris hilton- hahaha, love it!
DeleteShe wants to be the one who walks in the sun!
DeleteGirls, they wanna have fun. Oh, girls just wanna have fun.
DeleteOk so how long do we give them based on what we know about them now? I say another year
ReplyDeleteI hate reading about abusive relationships.
ReplyDeletehe honestly seems like he should have just married a non-hollywood person since he seems to crave as much normalcy as possible. i don't knock him for not wanting his personal life splashed all over magazines, etc but meeting someone in your profession and then expecting them to quit it, as if they don't love it as much as you do, seems very selfish if that's his MO.
ReplyDelete@ Tina - Leo is looking especially good right now with all of his nominations this year. She's kicking herself over all the missed red carpet opportunities to wear horrible Marchesa gowns. Karma.
ReplyDeleteNow that song will be in my head all day, Eris.
ReplyDeleteI dont know if this is so much abuse as this is he just wants a normal stay at home wife. To me it sounds like he just wants an old fashioned marraige where his wife stays home, he takes care of her, and she makes him feel good. IDK.
ReplyDeleteAbuse is a pretty loud word, and not something people should throw around, and as someone who's been abused in a relationship, kind of insulting, but then again I dont know the whole situation.
He should just divorce her and find himself a nice gorgeous girl with no ties to Hollywood who would be thrilled to stay home and be taken care of. Those girls do exist.
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ReplyDeleteMeh. Was she really that surprised? Their entire courtship was like this, too, so I think she had some idea of what she was getting into.
ReplyDeleteThat said, I've gotten the impression that she's head over heels for him. Though she might not be perfectly content, I could see her sticking it out for a good bit of time if everything else between them is good.
Well she'll always have the ring...wonder if she signed a pre-nup ?
ReplyDeleteIf a guy wants a wife he shouldn't marry an actress...
i agree with cinephreak. manipulative might be another good word to describe him (since there was the blind revealed about him messing up her deals), but abusive is something entirely different.
ReplyDeleteNo he's not physically abusive, but I bet the mind games are amazing and Blake is really not the brightest
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she loves the attention, she loves to be seen, i hope he locks her up and melts the keys
ReplyDeleteI have a hard time trusting this all the way. Didn't they date, buy a house in upstate CT and get married without publicity? Wouldn't all of that have been a clue?
ReplyDeleteWe always want what we can't have. Move over Blake, I'll take your place in a heartbeat.
What's so funny is that most women in the world would see this as a plus. ha ha
ReplyDeleteIf he wants a quiet life with a stay are homer, why date/ marry starlets with careers?! I agree with manipulative. His idol must be Steve McQueen the original bloated old fart......
ReplyDeleteIts a long story.......
**quiet life with a stay at home type.....
DeleteI predict many, many marriages/divorces in Ryan Reynolds' life if he continues to marry starlets. Agree with everyone above who says he should find a nice civilian to marry. DEFINITELY!
ReplyDeleteOne thing we should take away from this is that he called RR a "A list all movie actor." He may be that now, but he used to be on TV on that show about the pizza place. Further evidence that calling some one "all movie" just means "all movie NOW".
ReplyDeleteactually Ryan Reynolds always was low-key on his private life :he can date with famous women but he never sold his private life
ReplyDeleteHe should marry a non-celebrity. She should cut her ties and move on. Although, I'm #teamleighton
ReplyDeleteholla at him ryan. I stay home with you
ReplyDeleteBlake so obviously went after A listers--Ben Affleck, Leo, and now Ryan R. She caught one--but I bet Ryan wasn't so manipulative during the courtship phase...
ReplyDeleteIdk he sounds pretty controlling from all the stuff I have read on here. Sure, not fame hungry, but definitely controlling and manipulative.
ReplyDeleteI wish Enty reveled blinds that aren't obvious
ReplyDeleteI would gladly give up my job to be his stay-at-home wife and live in that house on Beacon. Dude, I cook from scratch. And I'll give blowjobs with pearls on. Call me!
ReplyDeleteLol...I'm with u girl!
Deleteseriously, I would be all over that position.
ReplyDeleteHe wants his wife to be background noise on the RR show? I could do that, while Im living it up in that big fancy house spending his money on shit I dont really need, never gotta work again... pshaw
I don;t see this as abusive. She wants to go out and he doesn't. She wants to be A list like him. I guess it doesn't appeal to him to be out around the paparazzi.
ReplyDeleteIf he had to end up with a celebrity, he would have been better off with Sandra Bullock (you know, assuming she's not a lesbian, as it's rumored), since she likes to stay out of the spotlight too.
ReplyDeleteYeah right @Cathy. There are plenty of famous yet private H'wd stars who would be happy to be a wife only out promoting their latest project rather than themselves. He chose someone on the wrong side up and perhaps the wrong decade for him. A nice goil in her 30's who was more established and less eager to hit the clubs would be a better choice.
DeleteI am loving these reveals today!!
ReplyDelete1) they are current! No dated 2009 reveals today - Woo hoo!
2) they are good ones!
3) they keep on coming! If only every day could be like this!
Thank you Enty!
One small request - please reveal at least one of the blinds about the racist actor or actress. I need to know. Thanks and Happy New Year!
Believe me, control is a form of abuse.
ReplyDeleteI wonder who the Blake Lively blinds are coming from. Back in the day it was clear Enty had a tie to the cast from Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants.
ReplyDelete@MAC If I remember from yeaaaaars ago he is good friends with Amber Tamblyn.
DeleteLol Vicki! I like the pearls!
ReplyDeleteAbuse is more than physical and the stories we keep getting about Ryan and his significant others scream emotional abuse. Controlling and manipulating another person's life to such an extent breaks them down; just because Ryan's 'hot' or in search of a traditional wife (wtf?) doesn't mean he isn't being abusive.
ReplyDeleteAt least Blake has a public enough image that people would start to wonder where she was. Other women aren't so lucky.
I'm wondering if Blake led him to believe that she would be ok with this just so she could get him to marry her. I work part time but love being a homemaker. I have a master's degree so it's not like my husband is forcing me to be barefoot and pregnant. We could also make a lot more money if I worked full time, but I do what is best for my family.
ReplyDeleteMaybe she is the controlling one here.
She should call Maury! He just posted this on Facebook:
ReplyDeleteMAURY
RE: CONTROLLING RELATIONSHIPS
Are you or someone you know in a controlling relationship and you want the abuse to end?
Send us a PRIVATE MESSAGE with all of your contact information and someone will get back to you as soon as possible.
@Amber, the Kardashians should have a Very Special episode of Maury where every effing member of the family confronts Kris Jenner.
ReplyDeleteMaybe she should have dated him longer and got to know him better before she married him.
ReplyDeleteNo one can control you unless you let them, and it's not like she is being held hostage.
Yes, I know all about battered women syndrome, but I don't think this is the case.
What did she expect when they moved to CT or whatever? That the paps were going to be staked out at the corner market.
I don't feel for her.
Yikes, everyone's turning on Ryan Reynolds. Weird how it happened so fast.
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Sounds like two people with conflicting ideas of how to juggle their careers and future. In other words, a lot like most marriages. If things don't work out, well, it's not the worst reason for a marriage to fail. No one is necessarily the "bad guy" in this scenario.
ReplyDeleteI have a hard time with the characterization that this is "not what she signed up for" or that everything has to be all about him. For starters, they weren't a very public couple to begin with. Secondly, choosing to foster his career over hers doesn't necessarily mean he needs everything to be about him. I think it's easy math. It's not fair, but his shelf life is longer and more lucrative than hers, ESPECIALLY if they have kids.
@MinnieSaSa - you will make yourself crazy trying to figure out what Enty means by "All Movie". Sometimes if the actor has been on a TV show a long time ago, it doesn't matter and can mean they are still "All Movie" (Like Ryan Reynolds and his Pizza show). Or if, like Kate Hudson or Gwyneth Paltrow, guest-starred on Glee, that doesn't count as they are still considered "All Movie".
ReplyDeleteYeah, I know. Crazy.
And some folks believe that Enty doesn't even consult IMDB and just post what he thinks the actor's status is. So just post your guess based on the OTHER details, such as married, kids/no kids, foreign-born (i.e. not US born) etc. and save yourself a headache. Oh, and celebrity is a veil that covers a lot of territory when Enty is being vague. Could mean singer, reality star, even athlete but usually (but not always) doesn't mean actor. Whew!
Happy New Year!
It's not like Blake was ever on the party circuit or regularly being photographed off the GG set. She hangs out with Martha Stewart for Christ sake.
ReplyDeleteThere are millions of women on this earth who just want to be stay at home mothers. Hell no, I am not one of them. But, they are everywhere. Why didn't he go get one of those? Why date, then marry, someone with a career and then expect them to give it up? It is extremly selfish. Blake seems like a lot of stupid women these days who are obsessed with 'the ring?' Never take the time to get to know a guy, just want to be married. And, then once they are, it isn't anything like they imagined. There is a reason women are least likely to get remarried than men. Use your head.
ReplyDeleteAm I the only one who finds it odd RR has been married twice and engaged 3 times in the last 6 years. WTF?
@MISCH... Thanks for this fantastic insight jewel: "If a guy wants a wife he shouldn't marry an actress..."
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ReplyDeleteHey Ry, I'm happy to spend time at home and I can scrub up real nice for red carpets. Think about it. *wink*
ReplyDeleteI think the biggest reveal in this blind is that RR is an "A list all movie actor". really? Him?
ReplyDeleteReynolds is such an idiot! He didn't learn from Scarlet? Don't marry actresses!
ReplyDeleteI kind of think it's funny that a famewhore like Not So Lively married him though.
He is painfully private, she is "in the know" in hollywood so she should have known this! Divorced in 2 years
ReplyDeleteTsk, tsk, tsk honey lesson number one: someone as hot as Ryan with that body is someone to f*ck on a regular basis-not marry. Which I would gladly do. Just saying.
ReplyDeleteVicki your comment made me laugh out loud.
ReplyDeleteI don't feel sorry for Blake, I believe Enty revealed before that he rebuffed her during Green Lantern. She didn't give up and sold him hot Betty Crocker. It worked and it's not like he's different, it was public that he and Scarlett never saw each other due to their careers, but I think he might be happier with a non-actress.
This feels like a plot line from Mad Men.
ReplyDeleteShe married very 'up' and did what she could. She devalued herself by doing it too.
ReplyDeleteWell...girl must have known what the deal was with Reynolds - marrying a hermit? Do your homework!
ReplyDeleteI give it 6 more months.
ReplyDeleteI see their relationship lasting a long time! She seems content to be talked in absentia, it still makes her relevant! The difference will be when we no longer care.....
ReplyDeleteI normally lurk, but when I do come out to comment, it seems like it's after the comment party is over, lol.
ReplyDeleteAnyway, I wanted to point out that it seems like Ryan wants his cake and eat it, too. It's reminiscent of Joe DiMaggio and Marilyn Monroe. Beautiful blonde Hollywood actress wife, check. Wanting her to give up her career to take care of him, check. Expecting her to clean, bake, and other "womanly" duties (*rolls eyes*), check. Scarlett didn't fit the mold? Well, let's try again with another blonde actress.
If this isn't what she wants, she should get out now. RR has always been low key. Allegedly he even turned down People's "Sexiest Man Alive". She likely had some idea of what she was getting into. As much as I think RR (and his new wife) are overrated, I respect that he isn't a famewhore.
ReplyDeleteShe should've known already that he's very private, he's never out looking for attention so I doubt it was a surprise to her but maybe she thought she could handle being away from the spotlight and its not what she thought.
ReplyDelete@cinephreak, I agree with you, unless there's something else going on that we don't know of, him wanting a stay at home wife is not abuse. May be controlling, but NOT abuse.
ReplyDelete@Vicki Cupper, lol, that was funny!!
@NomNom83, I sooo agree!!!!
Heeyyyy Ryan!!! Look at me!!! I'll be your stay at home wife!! I'll learn how to cook and even dye my hair blond!!! I'll be the one waiting for ya naked in bed with high heels!!! Woo hoo!!
It's not like he didn't know what he was getting with Blake, unless she suggested that she was done with the spotlight.
ReplyDeleteI'm not a huge fan of either so I'm impartial. And I have no connection to the entertainment world so it goes as impartial as can be -- I don't find the stuff we read about him weird at all. If you Put yourself in his shoes -- say he wants a normal family. He wants to make sure both of them work consistently but also in roles which will keep their careers strong IN THE LONG RUN. therefore, if she shouldn't accept a stupid role which pays well now but will not be a good career move, why can't he steer her away from it. I love cdan
ReplyDeleteAnd I love the blinds but there's 2 sides to every story. If my husband all of a sudden decided to be mr famous you bet I won't be too ecstatic.
DeleteIt's not like they need the $$ to survive -- then let him educate her that few roles but good ones is the way to go.
If as you say she's not the brightest one in the bunch, then he's giving her good guidance. Abuse, as someone above said it -- it's a huge allegation. I think sometimes people forget that marriage is hard and it's not just about one or the other and their careers
I think she will have a couple of kids with him and it will last a little longer than what's being predicted or alluded to here. She knew what she wanted and worked hard to get it. The only way this can be true is if he started acting like this after the marriage which I highly doubt. When they were dating they were not very visible, so I think she knew and she is madly in love with him:)
ReplyDeleteThis is such a shame. It's such an obvious mismatch in terms of future planning!
ReplyDeleteShe is just starting to enjoy success and he is sort of on a high-level plateau. She is the last person he should have married.
If he wanted a trophy wife he should have chosen a socialite of some sort.
The blind hints at Blake being mislead. Scarlett did an interview andstated that Ryan wantedher to drop everything and b home with him when his career ws in a lull. IMO the fault lies with Ryan. Two wives hinting at him being controlling? Where there's smoke there's fire.
ReplyDeleteBlake is not my fave person, but I feel for her if this is true. To the people, who said she should have known better, How many of you were young and in love and made excuses for another's behavior and avoided the red flags. Say he wants to stay at home and you rationalize it as "Aw he loves me so much he wants me all to him self. It's just our cozy love bubble, but think later on we'll do more outside." As for control not being abuse, it may not be physical but control can often take the form of verbal abuse and can often lead to physical abuse. I direct you to the power and control wheel as relates to domestic violence. According to this theory at the center of domestic violence is the desire for power and control which manifests in many different forms including economic abuse, emotional abuse, intimidation and ISOLATION. Check it out
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My superficial comment is that Ryan is hot & Blake has a fug face. Bodies can change, but a face is forever.
ReplyDeleteI think Blake is quite striking, but she refuses to go the route of fillers and surgery. She's always so well groomed.
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