Monday, October 22, 2012

Today's Blind Items - Everyday Is A Lifetime

It has been a hard few years for this celebrity. Once the A list darling of the tween world she now has made her way into the world of mainstream and is on a very hit show and says that everyday is a struggle. A struggle to not use and a struggle to fall asleep. A struggle to make it through an hour a day or sometimes even a minute. She says she is fine when she is working and that none of the other people she works with on her show even have a clue what she goes through on a daily basis because while at work she can control her urges and the demons. It is when she gets drunken texts from the guy she still loves but who causes her nothing but pain that it hurts. He loves to say nasty things about her and reminds her of her flaws and knows that no matter what he says or does or how many times he cheats or trashes her that she will always fall under his spell and do what he wants and not just because he is a B- list actor. Sometimes when he is drunk and she is trying to sleep without pills, he will send her photos of himself having sex with other women. He knows it will make her even less likely to sleep. He knows what buttons to push on her. She would like to work every second of everyday and then crawl into bed exhausted. That is the only way she can ever really sleep. She has welcomed her new job with open arms. Before, she would struggle to find something to do everyday. She would go days and days without working and would sit at home and try and stay focused on one activity for 15 minutes. She would do this like clockwork with a timer to let her know when it was 15 minutes. Day after day she would do this. Struggling to make it 15 minutes. Friends would come over and try and help, but they would always have to leave at some point. She would bribe them to stay and pay them or give them gifts. Anything to not be alone. She paid some people to be with her as employees but it was awkward.

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  1. And wilmer whatsit for the ex?

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  2. Demi Lovato with asshat Wilmette as the douchbag ex.

    I really like her and hope she knows that people are rooting for her. She seems like a sweet soul.

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  3. gotta be Demi lovato.

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  4. Ummm Demi & Wilmer? Fuck, idk.

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  5. Wilmer needs to rot in hell. >:(

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  6. Everything that I read about Wilmer makes me wish that he was dead so that he could no longer screw with young women.

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  7. I like the Demi guess but ENTY, B-list for Wilmer?!?! You got to be kidding me?!?

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  8. Demi and Wilmer, and I agree with MM that he can't possibly be B-. What a rotten piece of work he is.

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  9. I'm sorry for these people. It makes my average existence in the flyover states sound amazing, and I'll take what I've got.

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  10. Okay, so he's an asshole, but let's just remember -- this woman beat the shit out of one of her employees for looking at her the wrong way.

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    1. So??? That makes it equal or something? The girl was obviously on drugs at the time and I don't think "beat the shit out of" is really the right term for it, I don't think the other person was seriously hurt.

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  11. My heart goes out to this young lady. It's pretty difficult to stay on course through a heartbreak.

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  12. It all started with Lilo. That's Wilmer- The Life Destroyer of Former Tween Stars.

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  13. @Lola, I liked "Wilmette" better!! :-)

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  14. I suck at these and even I knew it was Demi/Wilmer/X Factor.

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  15. yeah..immediately thought of Demi and Wilmer, though I hate to think he's B- still.

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  16. Let's take a moment to properly define "beat the shit out of," shall we?

    Beating the shit out of someone is a SERIOUS BEATING and involves wailing away on someone until they are cowering on the ground with grievous damage. It is not a hissyfit smackdown.

    Just wanted to get that straight.

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  17. Turn off your phone, girl!!!!!!!

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  18. Anonymous10:37 AM

    wilmer is a b-, why not but where?

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  19. Demi, change your number.

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  20. I have to say I have a lot more respect for Demi (if this is her). I know the struggle and how easy it is to just give in.

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  21. X Factor is a "very hit show", I'd say. So yeah, Demi Lovato.

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  22. I thought of Demi Lovato also. I used to be romantically involved with a psychologist and he said he always believed men who are abusive, emotionally or physically, have some psychopath in them. I can totally believe it when it comes to Wilmer. To do that to someone signifies a complete lack of a working conscience.

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  23. If she really wanted to put an end to this nonsense, she would just change her phone number. There are ways to avoid people if you are really serious about it.

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  24. Wait, weren't there pictures of Wilmer and Demi hanging out recently?

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  25. I will say, I thought this was Wilmer and Demi...but what hit show is Demi on now? Wilmer is now a B list actor? Really? He's always been referred to as a D list.

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  26. Change your number, block his number and put a third party in charge of keeping him out of your life.

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  27. Yup - there is always a way to get rid of someone if you really want to.
    Definitely Demi Lovato and Wilmer Valderamma

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  28. Exactly MAC! Too many ways around dealing with this POS.



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  29. Exactly MAC! Too many ways around dealing with this POS.

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  30. My first thought was Brenda Song on "Scandal" but the other clues threw me.

    Wilmer was on a show recently that I think was cancelled.

    If this is Lovato all she has to do is keep changing her number and block his. I worked in telecom for years. Changing a phone number these days is no big deal.

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  31. Anonymous11:25 AM

    Live in Colleyville. Demi is NOT a sweet innocent victim. NO WAY NO HOW. Ask her neighbors..spoiled brat since birth.

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  32. I would argue that Wilmer (@chophop, I have no idea why my phone thought Wilmette was more plausible than Wilmer, but lol) is easily a B-. He co-starred on a huge hit show (That 70s Show), has for many years voiced a HUGE children's character (Handy Manny), recently starred in a new show, which may or may not have been cancelled (Awake)and has worked continually throughout his career.

    He's still a complete asshat who is clearly a bit too taken with his own importance.

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  33. Totally OT but has anyone else heard the news about Clooney possibly testifying for the former Italian prime minister. He's on trial for paying to sleep with an underaged girl multiple times. The girl is claiming Clooney was at some weird sex party that the prime minister had. Of course Clooney is denying it but after last March I have a feeling Clooney isn't being very honest. I'm also questioning Himmmm much less now.

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    1. Omg @andy!!!! I am VERY interested in Berlusconi bc he owns my soccer team AC Milan. He held "bunga bunga parties" with underage prostitutes and I think one was brought from another country =sex trafficking. He is a DIRTY man but I had no idea about Clooney! I'll have to mention that at the next fan meeting which always includes Berlusconi bashing and tons of bunga bunga jokes.

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    2. Very interesting @andy. Off to google now. I never doubted any of Himmmms stories, esp about Diana Jenkins.

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  34. What a dick this guy is. She's in love with him still - that's why she allows him to make her feel like shit.

    Poor kid. Hopefully she can get past her demons. I'm sure once she does that, then he's done.

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  35. Demi didn't "beat the shit" out of her employee. She slapped her.

    BIG DIFFERENCE....

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  36. Oh yeah, I hate Wilmer. That guy is pure bleh!

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  37. Change ur number n stay in conseling...this dude is a POS..shesh Clooney n a freaky sex party? Really...

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  38. She should change her phone number and lay off the drama queen nonsense.

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  39. wouldn't it be easier to hire someone to filter your email/tweets/erc, than put up with this? she's getting something out of it. anyone know if she has had any boyfriends other than this fool and the jonas brother?

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  40. Totally Demi Lovato (& skeezy Wilmer V).

    Having been through similar situations w/an ex-bf myself, I know fully well how hard it can be to break away from a jerk like Wilmer (even when it's so obvious to everyone else that she shouldn't give him the time of day). She has to hit that breaking/rockbottom point before she can finally realize that she should really just cut him off completely. It took me years to make myself do the same thing. Sounds pathetic & sad, but I can't explain it any better than that :-b.

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  41. @kelly Demi punched someone. Once. She didn't beat the shit out of someone. Very different. She did it during her eating disorder/drugs/alcohol days.

    I feel bad for anyone who has to deal with a manipulator like this.

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  42. SCat07, you're totally right. It seems pathetic and sad to the rest of the world, but to those of us caught up in the psychological manipulation and biological (oxytocin) bonding, it's a trap from which one can't wriggle free..until that liberating day when we do! I never judge those in bad or abusive relationships because I work with them, and because I've been there.

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  43. I swear I saw a photo and there was a black eye involved.

    I apologize for exaggerating on a gossip website. :-)

    But punching someone even once -- I mean seriously. Does everyone punch people occasionally? I guess I need to get out of the suburbs.

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  44. I say she should publish the pictures he sends her sleeping with the other women!

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  45. Interesting if it is Demi. I just read an interview where she talks about how giving up her cell phone for months at a time has been part of her recovery. She said going without it helps her learn to sit with herself and her feelings. Maybe it also helps her avoid WV.

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  46. OT but all the non trash (not reality) shows I pick to watch get canceled after one season. Awake was a pretty awesome show. :/

    On topic, wilmer is a douche.

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  47. Demi, doing things for 15 minutes at a time is a DBT practice. That is what the treatment center she went to uses in all of its practices. I know, because I went there too.

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  48. Don't you think it's Hayden Panettiere on Nashville? That's what it sounded like to me, but I don't keep up with her much so I don't know who the guy is.

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  49. I never doubted Himmmm's stories either. Unfortunately he is ruining his own credibility with the whole RDJ impersonation.

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    1. I feel the same way astrogirl. As much as I'd love to believe it's RDJ (cuz I've loved him since I was a wee lil' one) I just find it hard to believe a celebrity would so blatantly out themself

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  50. Poor girl, Demi, I think we can agree for all of her past misdeeds, problems and mistakes, she is clearly a troubled girl. Here is to her having peace in her future.

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  51. Oh, and fascinating Andy. I believed a lot of those original himmmm posts, especially the Diana Jenkins info.

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  52. Almost as depressing and seemingly endless as this description of this poor girl's life is the sheer number of possible Demi Lovato blind items.

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  53. @SilverOnyx...

    Me too! I have stopped watching new shows during their first season because they are ALWAYS cancelled. I wait until their second and then go on Netflix.

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  54. I love your button AndyCane, dorks are the new black :)

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    1. Thanks! I was ahead of that trend. I was a dork before the hipsters made it cool. :)

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  55. Cosign @astrogirl

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  56. My son watches Handy Manny sometimes and when I hear Wilmers voice I want to puke!

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  57. Poor girl. Demi really does seem like a genuinely nice person. That scumbag needs to leave her the f*** alone. Does she not have a brother? Mine would have kicked his scrawney butt by now.

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  58. I don't think I even believe this one ...

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