Monday, June 04, 2012

Today's Blind Items - The Actress Who Won't Eat

This actress is a solid B list. Everyone knows her name and would recognize her instantly in pictures. She has been in the business for a long time, but only does movies and is not that old. When she was still a teen she was in a movie with a very well known actor at the time. Heck he still is. A very big actor. Anyway she was so enthralled with him that she would follow him around the entire time she was on set. When she became legal, he took her out to dinner and they had sex. He was dating someone seriously at the time so there was no way he was going to continue to see this fling. He told her when he left her that the reason was she was too big for him despite her probably weighing 100 pounds at the time. For the next five years, the actress was in and out of therapy and rehab because she refused to eat and thought that she would never get anyone again. Later they did something else together and she starved herself for a month before filming started, barely eating enough to stay functional. She thought he would be pleased, but he never even noticed her size although he did welcome the opportunity to sleep with her again. This time they had sex almost everyday of filming. Again at the end he dumped her and she said that she thought her world was over and had no idea what to do anymore. She did meet some special right after and he convinced her she was too thin and they began to work on her self-esteem issues together. She dumped him though when a chance meeting with her former flame happened. This time he convinced her they would be together forever, but again, it was not meant to be as he was still with the same woman as their second time together. For the past several years she has swung up and down health wise depending on her therapy and still believes that somehow she can get this actor who she thinks of the love of her life to notice her. When she knows they will be somewhere together is when it is the worst as she stops eating to the point of passing out but for the past few years he has not even acknowledged her presence even when they are in the same place.


162 comments:

  1. I suck at these, but that's awful!

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  2. Does Christina Ricci / Johnny Depp fit this all the way through? It's what I immediately thought of.

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  3. I suck at these, too. But I'm gonna throw Christina Ricci/Johnny Depp into the ring.

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  4. Why do we women hurt ourselves for these fucked up men? Every woman I know has a least one story of a manipulative asshole in her life. I don't have a clue here, but I hope this chick can get the hell over him.

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  5. Not Christina Ricci -- she did Pan Am.

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  6. Never mind. She's prob not solid B. She's just so skinny I thought of her.

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  7. I thought Kate Bosworth as well but I can't figure out the movie or the actor.

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  8. Love to know who the actor is so I can punch him in the balls.

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  9. Kate Bosworth and James Marsden. Superman movie and Straw Dogs.

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  10. Ricci/Depp were both in Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas a year before they were in Sleepy Hollow.

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  11. I was thinking Drew while I read this, but I don't know who the guy would be and she just got married, so hopefully she isn't still pining over some asshole.

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  12. Even if we ignored the no-TV issue, Ricci and Depp do not work time-wise. They worked together in the late 90s with in a one- or two-year period.

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  13. @Lauren, Marsden is not A-list.

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  14. Kirsten Dunst and Brad Pitt?

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    1. First thought that came into my head!

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    2. That's exactly what I thought!

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  15. I just realized it doesn't say A-list, but Marsden is not a big actor.

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  16. I don't know why but the first few lines made me think of Kiki Dunst.

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  17. Kate Bosworth and James Marsden. Superman movie and Straw Dogs.

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  18. Kirsten Dunst? She went to rehab for "depression" in 2008... I'm trying to think of the actor. I know she worked with Brad Pitt in Interview with a Vampire, but I don't know if they worked together after that, so I dunno. Plus, I refuse to believe Brad would do that...

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  19. Also, Kate Bosworth wasn't a teenager when she filmed Superman.

    According to IMDB, the movies K-Bos did as a teen were:

    The Horse Whisperer
    The Newcomers
    Remember the Titans
    Blue Crush
    The Rules of Attraction

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  20. According to IMDB all the aforementioned actresses have done TV and one time or another.

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  22. I like the Drew guess. We know she's had weight issues. Also, she was married over the weekend, so it's timely.

    I just don't know who the guy would be. It would be someone she worked with in the early and late 90s.

    I realize Drew has done some TV, but they were TV movies -- and one of them was an HBO prestige project.

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  23. re: Ricci/Depp. was thinking the first movie was Mermaids but Depp wasn't actually in that, just remember her following him around since he was on set all the time (seeing Winona Rider). The later movies would have been F&L or Sleepy Hollow, when I believe Depp was seeing Kate Moss (100 lbs being too big for him). But, yeah, forgot he wasn't in Mermaids. Back to the drawing board.

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  24. Natalie Portman and Ewan McGregor?

    Just throwing stuff out there.

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  25. Even though she's done TV the Christina Ricci guess sounds right to me. Just to throw something else out there, maybe Kristin Dunst and someone from interview with a vampire or a little later?

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  26. I don't think Drew has ever been terrifyingly skinny.

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  27. Julia Stiles worked a lot as an older teen. She was in The Devil's Own with both Harrison Ford and Brad Pitt when she'd have been about 16 or 17. However, I'm not sure if she's worked with either of them since. Also probably not her since she was on Dexter. Of course some people don't consider working on premium channels like Cinemax, Showtime, and HBO as "tv".

    I don't know if legal in CA means 18. It varies from state to state. In many states the age of consent is 16.

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  28. @Coriander Shea - Amen, Sister!!

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  29. Just throwing it out there but it's a long shot: Emma Watson? The guy could be anyone from the HP movies.

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  30. What is wrong with women?

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  31. I too thought of Kate Bosworth. Didn't she have a long relationship with Orlando Bloom years ago?

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  32. According to the Daily Mail, K-Bos has a new beau and is on the mend.

    http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2153874/Kate-Bosworth-shows-pins-sheer-floral-chiffon-dress.html?ito=feeds-newsxml

    I don't see C-Ricci as this BI, her weight doesn't seem to flucuate.

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  33. In the mid-90s when she started making her comeback, Drew wasn't terrifyingly skinny, but she was tiny -- far smaller than she is today.

    http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qkdu4uOwe4A/TTHzUtZoufI/AAAAAAAABmI/cFrO2tZsKhA/s1600/Drew+Barrymore+90s.jpg

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  34. What about Keira Knightly?

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  35. Bosworth and Bloom met on the set of a commercial for The Gap. They never worked together.

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  36. Ricci has done tv. Can't be her.

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  37. What about Keira Knightly?

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  38. What an A-hole, I hope this one is reavealed.

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  39. I also think, like many others that this could be Keira Knightly. She is a lot younger than I thought she was. According to IMDb, she was born in 1985. That would have made her illegal/barely legal while filming the first Pirates movies. She was also in "The Phantom Menace" which would have been filming when she was in her mid-teens. She has done some tv work, but not in the United States. Lord knows that she is scary skinny!!!

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  40. Thinking of actresses that got really thin, I could see this as Keira Knightley. Kate Bosworth got thin but not A list. Did Keira do two movies with the same A list actor?

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  41. Wild guess out of left field:

    Keira Knightley and BIll Nighy (Love Actually and Pirates of the Carribbean)

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  42. Keira Knightley and Orlando Bloom? She turned 18 during the filming of the first Pirates movies, he was with Kate Bosworth and then Miranda Kerr, she dated Rupert Friend for a long time (he being the one who helped her). Although she's done TV movies so maybe not...

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  43. How about Winona Ryder, the actor Alec Baldwin, the movie Beetlejuice. She dated Depp after and he got her esteem up, but when Baldwin called, she dumped Depp. I seem to remember him as pretty devestated by the breakup. If not Baldwin, then Michael Keaton.

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  44. I was thinking Keira Knightley and Liam Neeson, but Bill Nighy fits too. Keira was in Phantom Menace and Love Actually with Neeson.

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  45. As much as I like Bill Nighy, it's hard to imagine Keira starving herself for him.

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  47. Call off the dogs, y'all, the hunt is over. Angelina Jolie was in a music video with Meatloaf when she was a teen. That explains it all. Girl, Interrupted indeed. She is crazy for the Loaf.

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  48. DO NOT DRAG BILL NIGHY'S GOOD NAME INTO THIS!

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  49. Hahaha RJ! To this day, AJ believes "I Will Do Anything for Love" was written about her. She imagines herself as Lita Ford.

    I think Keira is a good guess. I'm pretty sure I read at one point that her aunt and grandmother are/were bulimic - though she denied it herself. Could be misremembering, though.

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  50. I think we can eliminate the Star Wars cross reference with Keira Knightley. She played Natalie Portman's character's "double" in the film. KK was literally on screen for 30 seconds. Dont think that's enough filming time to make an impact on the actor.

    If we're sticking with KK I think Johnny Depp is a better guess than Orlando Bloom. Orlando Bloom is not a "very big actor". What has he done recently?

    Depp on the other hand.

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  51. It can't be Bill Nighy, I love him too much for him ever to be this kind of man!

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  52. I like the Winona Ryder guess with Michael Keaton as the man. Courtney Cox was with MK for years and starved herself for him as well.

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  53. The two that instantly came to mind are Kirsten Dunst and Kate Bosworth.

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  54. I don't think it is Keira Knightley - I remember several years ago when there were tabloid articles about a girl who got an eating disorder (or something?) supposedly because of how much she wanted to be like Keira, and Keira sued (and won) the tabloid and (as I recall) said a lot of body positive things about herself and naturally being that thin, and really attacking anyone who claimed that she didn't eat or had an eating disorder. This blind just doesn't feel like her.

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  55. Maybe a 'very big actor' could mean something else, like hypocritically fat.
    No idea for the actress coz they all get skinny but Val Kilmer for the horrible actor maybe?
    He seems like a knob to me.

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  56. Maybe a 'very big actor' could mean something else, like hypocritically fat.
    No idea for the actress coz they all get skinny but Val Kilmer for the horrible actor maybe?
    He seems like a knob to me.

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  57. I thought Kirsten Dunst right away. Was she a teen in Interview with a Vampire? And did she work with Brad Pitt again?

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  58. There have been so many blinds lately that specify "no tv". Frankly there are just not that many actresses (or any!) that have no tv on their resume. Either these blinds are all the same person or Enty is discounting a lot of tv work in these actresses' histories. Enty what gives?!

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    1. It wouldn't take much for him to check IMDB. Is it that much to ask?

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  59. I thought Kiki too, and tried to make Dakota Fanning work. Thank goodness the timeline doesn't work.

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  60. Could this be Rachel mcadams? First to pop in my head

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  61. I like Ryder and Keaton, but can't find another film after Beetlejuice they were in together.

    Next stop, K dunst research!

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  62. @Vicki - the men comment - brilliant.

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  63. Ryder doesn't fit for me. She likes rock star types. Keaton doesn't fit her usual MO.

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  64. Rachel McAdams didn't start acting until she was in her 20s. Not her.

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  65. I just love how ppl are like don't drag this one in or don't drag that one it, talking like they personally know theses people!

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  66. Google Alec Baldwin Winona Ryder. See the pic that pops up. She is seriously crushing on him. Or crushing him. :) They worked together later. That's my final answer. He was hot back then and became a bigger deal within the next two years. He was also a serious asshole on and off the set.

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  67. I'm with the Depp/Ricci guess. Fear and Loathing came out when she was 18 (approx), which means she was probably 17 when they filmed it. Barely legal?

    I just feel so badly for her... goes to show fame and fortune do not make our basic demons any easier.

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  68. I immediately thought of Kirsten Dunst...

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  70. I don't believe that johnny depp could be that mean. don't know him, but he seems pretty laid back. significant other issues are one thing, being a horrible destroyer of souls is another and I don't think that this is him.

    I do feel so badly for that poor woman, whoever she is.

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  71. Ricci and Depp were in "The Man Who Cried" as well.

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  72. I keep thinking Juliette Lewis and Robert DeNiro but I can't find a second film they worked on together. Did they maybe do a play together? Or a documentary? She also presented him with an award at AFI, I think.

    Still can't get my username to show, I'm Klynn

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  73. This isn't Depp/Ricci. I do think Enty sometimes forgets or omits early TV work or guest parts when he says "no tv work" or the likes for an actress/actor. However Christina Ricci just had Pan Am. Whther it stunk and was cancelled is immaterial; it is TV work and is recent as 6 months ago, so this is not her. Plus, as has been said, I don't think this matches with what the public knows of Johnny Depp.

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  75. Based on the title of this blind alone, I am going to go ahead and say "ALL OF THEM".

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  77. Of all the guesses so far, Ryder and Baldwin seem the most plausible. Beetlejuice was released in 88, and Great Balls of Fire in 89. Having trouble figuring out when they were filmed, though - on my phone.

    I like her for this since Enty says she's not that old, and she and I are the same age (40) :-).

    As much as it pains me to say it, it would fit Baldwin's known character, too.

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  78. Nevermind...can't be Ricci. She's done a lot of TV in the past.

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  79. And Baldwin was super good-looking in 1988.

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  80. Dunst's made a shitload of movies, but can't find two with appropriate overlapping costars.

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  81. I like Baldwin/Ryder, if by big actor enty means fat. Alec Baldwin didn't even shed most of that weight until very recently.

    I think he does mean fat because why not say "A list" instead of "big"?

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  82. This really doesn't sound like Depp, I can't see him being such a shmuck. Alec? Maybe.But did Winona look starved for years? When I think of anorexic stars, she's not the first to come to mind. I immediately think Bosworth. I remember how healthy she was way back.

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  83. Kirsten Dunst was only 11 or 12 when she filmed Interview w/a Vampire.

    @Tru Leigh, it says everyone knows her name and would recognize her instantly so there is not really a problem with the list you gave.

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  84. I like the train of thought that "very big actor" pertains to weight, because a few lines later it says how SHE was "too big" for HIM.

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  85. so no on the goopster?

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  86. I like the Rider/Baldwin guess. She was very thin and he's an a$$hole.

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  87. I agreed with the Ryder/Baldwin guess, but Winona's been on "The Simpsons," "Strangers With Candy," and "Friends." Not long-term starring roles, sure, but pretty prominent ones.

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  88. So Kate Bosworth is in the random photos today. She was still underage in Remember the Titans. Quite a few big names in that movie.

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  89. The Man Who Cried was the one who sat through that whole movie!

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  90. I can't find any big names from Remember the Titans that Kate Bosworth worked with again. She did work 2 years later with Kip Pardue, but he is pretty much the opposite of a big name. Most people probably don't know who he is. I wouldn't if Remember the Titans wasn't one of my faves and I loved his character in it.

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  91. Maybe Kate Beckinsale. Her weight fluctuates from skinny to really skinny.

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  92. The timeline on this seems very specific.

    -Worked together when she was a teen
    -Hooked up around age 18
    -Five years passed while the woman struggled
    -After the five-year point, they worked together again.

    So this woman would have worked with the same man as a teen and again while in the 23 or older range.

    It also mentions "for the past several years," (after all the drama) which indicates this has happened over a span of time. The woman has to be at least in her 30s or close to it.

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  93. Ok how about this...
    Kate Bosworth and Ian Somerhalder worked together on Young Americans in 2000 (which was a tv show so... the whole no tv thing? Anyway...) She would have been 17, maybe he didn't sleep with her til after? There were some reports they may have dated. They worked together again 2 years later on Rules of Attraction.

    But maybe it doesn't work because though he is a big name now, he wasn't really then.

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  94. so winona ryder and alec baldwin worked together again about 5 years after beetlejuice -a movie called looking for richard...but on another note, wasn't there a blind about a woman who would order food at restaurants and send it back multiple times stating that it was not right only to have them wrap it up so that she never had to actually eat - everyone thought it was kate beckinsale - she does fluctuate in weight from stick thin to straight emaciated looking.

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  95. I can't even believe I'm mentioning this, but Kevin Spacey was in Beyond the Sea and 21 with Kate Bosworth. Don't really thing it was him, but the timeline fits.

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  96. If you google Winona and Alec, she looks at him with googoo eyes in almost every picture. That's the best guess so far, but I'm still not convinced 100%. I will say though, that this is incredibly sad.

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  97. Hmmm... Kate Bosworth in the Randoms and someone throwing out Val Kilmer's name as the "very big actor". Both starred in 2003's "Wonderland" with Kate playing Val's John Holmes character's jailbait girlfriend. Did they appear together in another film though?

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  98. @lemonai - not that I can find. I looked for a Val Kilmer repeat too and couldn't find one, but stumbled on Kevin Spacey.

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  99. Looking for Richard fits the timeline perfectly for Winona/Alec.

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  100. You'd instantly recognize Kate Bosworth in pictures, if nothing else because of her different colored eyes. In that case, is Alex Skarsgard the one who convinced her she was too skinny and tried to help?

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  101. I like Kate Bosworth with Orlando Bloom for the bad guy.

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  102. Sort of random, but could "big" be in reference to a movie title?

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  103. I have a hard time believing that Winona still considers Alec "the love of her life". Beetlejuice came out in 1988...

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  104. Kate Beckinsale had anorexia or bulimia as a teenager and has been very open about it.

    Kate and Orlando did not do a movie together. They met on the set of a Gap ad.

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  105. I think the word choice of they did something else together and not "they did another movie together" is a key. Someone mentioned kate b did a gap commercial?

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  106. Winona Ryder and Daniel Day-Lewis? They made a couple of films together (The Crucible and The Age of Innocence).

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  107. Anonymous2:18 PM

    Diane Lane and Richard Gere?

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    1. I simply wont believe Geres could be such a dick!! Hes a buddist for goddsakes!!!!!

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  108. Ugh
    off topic (but kinda not)
    when I was in HS I was a member of the band (so cool, right? I was a twirler) Anyway there was a gorgeous guy who played trombone. There was a plump freshman on the flute and boy did she have it bad for trombone boy (he was a junior) On a bet he told her that if she lost 50 lbs he would take her out. She lost the weight, he still blew her off.
    Asshole. I remember comforting her as she cried. She didn't understand why he didn't say yes when she asked him out in her size 6 dress.

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  109. What about Kate Beckingsale, Kenneth Branagh?

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  110. Kate Beckinsale and Robert Sean Leonard were in Much Ado About Nothing in 1993 and then The Last Days of Disco in 1998, but I really don't want to see this being Robert Sean Leonard.

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  111. I have doubts about Ryder and Baldwin now. Beetle juice and Great Balls of Fire were only filmed a year or so apart; she was underage during the filming of both. Well, under 18; don't know age of consent where they filmed GBOF; lots of southern states, so who knows?

    But it wasn't five years apart. The "second" film could have been the King Richard documentary, but doesn't make sense, unless Enty's combining the first two films into one "experience" to be sneaky. Huh. IDK.

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  112. @onfortune - Bekinsale was already 20 in 1993. Waaahhh - this one's hard!

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  113. Anonymous3:12 PM

    Wow!! I am going through the same thing right now.

    I was going out with this guy. He kept telling me I was fat and that I needed to lose weight. He could not be with a fat chick. So, one day I decided to break up with him because of it. He said that in order for us to get back together, I had to lose weight. I was 170 and 5'4. He wanted me to go down to 130. I know I won't ever go down to that, but I did starve myself for a while just to lose weight so he could see that I did love him.

    Too bad I don't love him anymore.

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  114. kelgela - as a forty year old woman who's been around the block, I'm going to tell you this as nicely as I can -

    RUN THE FUCK AS FAR AWAY FROM THAT ASSHAT AS YOU CAN. RUN FAST AND START RUNNING NOW.

    I am definitely yelling at you; I want to make sure you hear me. That is not what love is. I'm so glad to see that you've quit him, but be sure it takes. Stay far away from him. You are so much more than a number on a scale. True love loves you, not your weight.

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  115. I will also add that as a very thin 17 year old, I had a weight-obsessed boyfriend. I was never quite good enough for him. It took me years to get over the damage he did to me.

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  116. Jude Law and Natalie Portman did 2 movies together

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  117. Keira Knightly has a naturally thin body. It's not an anorexic body like Kate Bosworth. I used to be naturally thin like that in my teens and 20s, and had to endure all sorts of cruel remarks about anorexia, even though I ate like a horse. Besides, in all the interviews I've read or seen with her, she strikes me as pretty together for an actress.Not the type to give up her life for a man. She's engaged, too.

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  118. This just screamed Gwyneth Paltrow to me. She could certainly still be carrying a torch for some tool from years ago, even if she is married. And that girl never eats. Just look at the picture of her in the pics today. When she does eat, she talks about all kinds of raw food diets, vegan, etc. She even landed herself in the hospital within the last couple of years from a diet.

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  119. My first though for "big actor" was Chris Noth. Don't know who the actress would be.

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  120. Can't we make it Kirsten Dunst and James Franco? Doesn't take a giant leap to make him a villain. :)

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  121. I hope this is revealed because that actor guy is a colossal douche. Women have enough pressures without some guy leading them on, messing with their body image and using them as a convenient plaything. I want to know who he is so I can go online, print out a picture and throw dog crap at it.

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  122. This being Johnny Depp would break my heart.

    Kelgela, You are going to meet a killer unbelievable wonderful guy and just laugh your ass off that you even gave that tampon string of a bf one thought. I'm cheering you on over here on the sidelines.

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  123. renee zellweger & vincent d'nofrio.

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  124. I was once engaged to and living with a colossal douche who had been fat as a child and his siblings made merciless fun of him being fat when he was growing up. He managed to starve himself down and work out and was a normal weight when I met him.

    I was working as a model at the time. Rail thin. Extremely tall. And during our whole relationship he was immensely obsessed about my weight, convinced that I would become fat from, like, eating one single fucking cookie or whatever. I was already dangerously thin but starved myself down MORE to be with him. Dealt with scary blood sugar issues, mental fogginess, and depression from it. He was verbally abusive about ANY time he saw me eating food. He also took it upon himself to control all the food coming and going from the house. I only really ate when I was driving outside the home because I couldn't eat anything in the house.

    Since I was stupid and 19, for a year or two I let him affect my self-esteem. I genuinely began to obsess and think I was too fat in the thighs or whatever, while dangerously close to anorexic levels.
    This was all HIS doing. HIM being obsessed that I wasn't ever thin enough or was going to balloon up all of a sudden, when I'd never been overweight (and still am not to this day.)

    Eventually I got the hell out of there. But because undereating made me unwell, it made it hard for me to hold down a job and have my own finances coming in, which made me more dependent on him, which made it harder to leave.

    All such fucking men should be castrated the moment they "hint" that the lady in their life is too fat, or "suggest" that she shouldn't eat dinner that night because she's looking a little chunky, or whatever.

    Castrated with a dull-edged kitchen knife, no anesthesia. :)

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  125. Felicia, you are far more eloquent than I, and said exactly what I was thinking. So glad to hear you're out of there, and I share your violent sentiment on this. It just plain makes me mad as hell, because I know how it feels.

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  126. Its Brad Pitt and Kristen Dunst.......
    Look at how thin she is in Touch of evil Photoshoot
    Anjelina Jolie and Jennifer Aniston had great shape and curves......until they started dating Brad Pitt......
    Now they're so skinny.....

    Just look at the guy's wife of girlfriend...and you might know who the guy is........

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  127. Renee Zellweger is an interesting guess. I remember when she and Jim Carrey were together, she seemed crazy about him. Then she did the Bridget Jones (1 or 2?) and went to London to gain weight and film. He lost interest promptly and it really seemed the weight was an issue. She seemed obsessed with dieting after that. Carrey doesn't work here because I don't think there were any movies but I've always thought that breakup caused her weight obsession.

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  128. NaughtyNurse, I like your guess. Goopie does not eat solids that's obvious. She is sickly thin looking and constantly talks/writes as though she is a health nut. It may be Goopie Gwennie, but let's face it all of these young starlets at times look too thin. I thought it was due to the biz, not trying to get a guy.

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  129. I think Enty should reveal the guy in this one. What a jerk!

    I like the Ryder/Baldwin guesses. But, hasn't there been talk of Brad Pitt liking his women really thin (alluded to above)? I could see this being Dunst/Pitt. Except she seemed really heartbroken over breaking up with Jake G?

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  130. LOl, whats up with this guy?

    Cant say youre just not that into her?

    Probably wouldnt stop her from pining over the guy but at least she wouldnt be starving herself over him.

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  131. Anonymous11:11 PM

    i'm with you angel1975. I've noticed that anyone Brad Pitt dates is either already really thin or gets really thin while they're with him - not just Jennifer and Angelina but also GOOP and Juliette Lewis.
    He strikes me as the sort who'd comment if his girlfriend put on a pound.

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  132. And now y'all can get back to calling Xtina fat.

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  133. I like Christian Bale and Kirsten Dunst for this ("Little Women"), but can't find another movie they did together. And she did admit to having a crush on him. http://suckmyalcott.tumblr.com/post/8533099758/kirsten-dunst-said-she-had-a-crush-on-christian-bale

    BTW, Orlando and Kate did do a movie together..."Elizabethtown."

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  134. Elizabeth town was with Kirsten Dunst:)

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  135. Someone mention Kevin Spacey and he is openly GAy so it is not him. I accept the Ricci option because she (one only) dropped weight and she is immature. However Keira has a strong character and would never allow that.

    My options are:

    Christina Ricci, the big weight drop (lasted shortly)
    Kate Bosworth
    Ellen's wife was anorexic-the most

    Those are the only anorexic I can recognise because others are thin but not to the point of starving themselves.

    Not sure which one is the guy though, probably someone that dates very thin people

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  136. @Kiki - People who watch "House" know who Robert Sean Leonard is. That show was/is huge.

    I agree that he's not huge enough for this blind, but still.

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  137. From Spacey's wiki:

    Spacey has never married and staunchly protects his private life.[29] This has generated rumors regarding his sexual orientation. He has stated that he is not gay in the October 1999 issue of Playboy,[30] in The Sunday Times Magazine (December 19, 1999)[31] and in the May 2007 issue of Gotham Magazine.[32]

    So, openly gay? Since when?

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  138. I checked out Kate B's resume and she never works with the same actor twice, besides Josh Lucas, but doubt it's him since the last movie they do together is directed by Kate's now-boyfriend. If he knew about all the drama surrounding the guy, he wouldn't have hired him.
    So Kate is out.

    I'm gonna look at Christina Ricci now, she seems the type for it.. She as admitted to having had an ED and her weight fluctates a lot.
    Kirsten Dunst also seems a good guess (lots of rehab, substance-abuse, very skinny), but haven't looked at her IMDB yet:p

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  139. I like the Winona Ryder guess - she has always seemed super fragile to me. And Alec Baldwin is 100% asshole, I could see him doing something like this just for kicks.

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  140. My guess is too old, but given the guy's typical women, how big he is now, and her weight fluctuations and current age...

    (I don't believe this really; it's just stuck in my head:)

    Kate Winslet + Leo DiCap

    The age is all wrong (she was 22 at Titanic), but the weights are right — there's even a recent KW interview where she comments he's fatter than her now.

    She's constantly on about her body image. I think they like each other, and she wears a ring he gave her on her wedding ring finger. But I can see him only liking skinny models. And she obviously has some issues with how she views her weight (past and present).

    Take out the "became legal" bit, and her being 100lbs at the time (she def. was not), and I'd go KW.

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  141. Kirsten was only 12 when she filmed interview with a vampire

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  142. Winona & Alec

    Beetlejuice in 88
    Great Balls of Fire in 89
    Looking for richard in 96

    timeline isn't right

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  143. kirsten and brad only did interview together. not to mention she was 12 when this movie was finished.

    the only match with christina is johnny depp.

    nothing promising on kate bosworth either.

    keira doesn't fit the anyone from the pirates franchise bc the timeline is way off.

    ive tried megan fox and gwyneth too with no good matches.

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  144. I'm on the Winona/Alec train

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  145. Okay so what if it could be Tom Cruise. Thandie Newton would have been 19 filming Interview with a Vampire not just legal but young and about 5 years later Mission Impossible.

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  146. I'm leaning more toward the Alec/Winona one. However, wasn't he married to Kim Basinger around that time? Would it have been when they were dating before they got married? It says he was with the same woman both times they got together. Hmmm....The movies being Beetlejuice and Great Balls of Fire?

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