Just a few weeks after starting to collect welfare, Nadya Suleman has filed for bankruptcy. I guess that celebrity boxing thing doesn't pay all that much. Oh, or the topless photos. Oh, or the Danish reality show. Talk about low level gigs. She would have way more success if she left her kids with a babysitter while she went and got drunk every night and partied. It kind of seems obscene, but the news would be done in a different slant and then Vegas would want her to come party with them and she would earn more because right now, whatever her plan is, just is not working. I think she should also seriously consider getting some type of real job even if for nothing else then to show her kids she actually works and makes an effort. From looking at her house and everything she does, I never get the sense she tries really hard at anything and that she is just expecting things to fall into her lap. When you have 14 kids for which you are responsible you need to make an effort. Say what you will about the Duggar family and I will say a lot, they don't even use the reality show money to take care of their kids. They work hard and make enough and are responsible enough to be able to afford all those kids.
To do porn is not showing your kids that you will do anything to support them, it shows that you are willing to do anything to not actually get a job. Even if she did do porn, she would burn through the money so quickly she would still be forced to earn a living and would only be delaying the inevitable.
Wow. And to think, none of us saw this coming...
ReplyDeleteNot for nothing, but the Duggars are a two parent home and the kids are old enough to help out. She's not in the same position as them.
ReplyDeleteI wish people would foster her kids b/c she's clearly too irresponsible to take care of them herself. GET A JOB!
ReplyDeleteEnty, do you realize who expensive it would be to put 8 toddlers in daycare? Who is going to take care of those kids while she works? I don't have kids myself, but my friend has a 3 year old and she spends $600/month on day care. Imagine that x8 for a person that has few "real" job prospects.
ReplyDeleteEnty, do you realize who expensive it would be to put 8 toddlers in daycare? Who is going to take care of those kids while she works? I don't have kids myself, but my friend has a 3 year old and she spends $600/month on day care. Imagine that x8 for a person that has few "real" job prospects.
ReplyDeleteShe planned to have 14 children as a single mom. I think she should have planned how to suppor them before she did, but obviously that didn't happen. I find her choices disgusting. As a parent she should be modeling good choices for her kids, instead she just keeps making crappy ones. No one in their right mind would have put themselves in that position. Her poor kids.
ReplyDeleteI'm with Tam! This idiot decided to have 14, so why didn't she figure out how to pay for them? I think her kids should be adopted by people who want and can afford kids.
ReplyDeleteMaybe the Duggars are different, but that's because they made more responsible decisions than this twit.
She's bat shit crazy. The end.
ReplyDeleteI actually feel a bit sorry for this nut. She is a shining example of the saying "be careful what you wish for". She wanted to be famous, she wanted those kids. Mostly I just feel sorry for the kids.
ReplyDeleteShe planned to support them by becoming a celebrity except instead of becoming famous and loved, she became infamous and trashed so no reality show. She wasn't all there, obviously, but clearly neither was her doctor. This never should have happened.
ReplyDeleteAgree with Tam. She limited mentally, and cant think beyond what she wants NOW. So, no, theres no plan, and it never enters her mind to go get a job at Walmart. She created a friggin mess of a life-she has no control over her kids, her money, her life. And WTF in their right mind wants to see her naked, much less doing porn?????? That person's got problems too!!! Cps has git to step in now, or we are looking at 14 welfare cases for life. The kids already hv problems- some are autistic, some hv developmental problems. Do u honestly think she is providing a stimulating envoirment for them??!! She gets her hair done instead of her plumbing!!!! She's nuts!!!!
ReplyDeleteI really cant stand this story. People always rag on "welfare moms" with a bunch of kids but this bitch gets sympathy when she is doing the same thing. I personally dont care what she does for money as long as it goes to the kids and not plastic surgery or some other bullshit.
ReplyDeletei'm sure there's no real job she's qualified for that could possibly earn her enough money to take care of all those kids. this woman disgusts me, and i feel so awful for the kids.
ReplyDeleteHer doctor should lose his license for allowing this (and yes, he allowed this) to happen.
ReplyDeleteThose children don't stand a chance.
Like Tam said, "She planned to have 14 children as a single mom."
ReplyDeleteWTF?!?!!? Terrible idea. Who the hell thinks "Oh, eight screaming toddlers, no problem!"
That's my worst nightmare. NIGHTMARE!!!!!
auntliddy - thank you! That was my thought - who on earth wants to see her in porn? Those nude photos were way too much information, IMO.
ReplyDeleteWell, according to TMZ, she's signed on to do a "self-pleasuring" video.
ReplyDeleteThis is just sad. I know she really doesn't want to do it but she's desperate with her home going into foreclosure. I hope someone with a heart and the financial resources will step up and just buy her the home for the sake of her children. With all those kids, how is she as a single mother supposed to work a job too? I know she should have thought of that before, but 'should haves' don't matter now with all those very real and dependent mouths to feed.
ReplyDeleteI don't have sympathy for her because this is all her doing. She did have a plan, unfortunately for her, there's nothing likable about her to make people want to watch. Hmmm, although there is nothing likeable about Kate Gosselin.
ReplyDeleteAnyhoo, you can't compare her to the Duggars. They had money to begin with and the children are of various ages so some are in school (do they home school? I bet they do) and some are at home, etc. Nadya's kids are two ages. She can't get a job out of the house because there's no way she could get daycare. Even if she could afford her, where will she find 8 spots in the same place.
Yes, she made this mess and I feel no sympathy but her only job option is to work from home.
as always, the children are the faultless victims. if she does do porn, its going to damage her even more than she is damaged now. what a mess that woman has made of her, and of her children's lives. sad.
ReplyDeleteThis woman is incompetent and unable to provide for her children so I feel that is enough reason for the state to remove the children from care, it's not like they are getting any attention or quality time from their mother anyways so the transition should hopefully not be traumatic for them.
ReplyDeleteI agree with others here in that porn will just be a payday she will blow through quickly, she needs a real job and since she cannot afford daycare it really leaves her with zero options other than to give them up.
If the State of California had any sense at all, they'd have that woman spayed and take the kids she already has away from her. Then let her get out there and try to sell herself. On a good day, she might even get around $2.50 a pop.
ReplyDeleteI don't understand why anyone would put 14 children on this earth, when there're already 7 billion people here and earth's resources are running out.
ReplyDeleteWhy even have so many kids of your own, when you can adopt a child in need?
It's too late now, but it's like watching an accident ready to happen and this whole thing makes me feel uneasy about what's going to happen to these kids......
@anita, the Duggars do home school their kids. Also, they have a "buddy system" which is basically one way of saying they fob a younger child off on an older child to basically be in charge of.
ReplyDelete@GSDlover, you know, I agree with you, as much as it pains me to see children separated from their mother and each other. She's clearly incapable of managing her situation.
ReplyDelete*slams head on desk repeatedly*
ReplyDeleteOMFG, this woman!
I don't think it's sad, it's pathetic. She could have spent the last couple years doing some vocational school or something at her kids won't be ashamed of. It may not pay much, but a steady working job pays more than two or three random jobs taking off her clothes. She can not be being paid much.
ReplyDeleteWhat is sad is the heavy toll she has put on her children's lives.
Who's giving her sympathy? I'm sure not. This woman is a nutjob, and that's the nicest way I can put it.
ReplyDeleteWell we all know she's bat guana loco. I think at this point the public really needs to start putting pressure on CPS to take these children. NOBODY can handle 14 kids alone.
ReplyDeleteHow's she going to do porn anyway when she is phobic about sex, according to her own statements?
ReplyDeleteTake these kids away, State of California, please.
This woman is mentally ill and she needs to be put in a facility that can help her. Sadly, those children have to be put in foster care, which will mean separating them, but hopefully they would be reunited weekly. She has had so many offers of professional assistance starting with Oprah and Suze Orman, and most recently Dr. Drew. She said she wanted to be a personal trainer, so he paid for her classes, child care help, and housekeeping help, but she's gone all wonky on him too. She cannot function as a normal person does. She does not make normal, practical decisions (obviously). She doesn't need pity or disgust, she needs treatment. Those kids have enough issues, now they need to know their mother does porn to support them?
ReplyDeletefiggy, have you ever heard of faking it? If all of us stopped having sex because we didn't like it, there wouldn't be any housewives left. porn will be a breeze.
ReplyDeleteand I take extreme umbrage with what netalovesrobin said: "I really cant stand this story. People always rag on "welfare moms" with a bunch of kids but this bitch gets sympathy when she is doing the same thing. I personally dont care what she does for money as long as it goes to the kids and not plastic surgery or some other bullshit."
I don't see Octomom getting an ounce of sympathy or compassion. Quite the opposite. And note how your rant is exactly like those you criticize for ragging on...oh it's too much of a loop. I might get pulled in.
SHOW SOME COMPASSION, PEOPLE! THE KIND THAT GARY SINISE POSSESSES IN BUCKETS.
I always had compassion for Anna Nicole Smith, too. And Marilyn Monroe. These are all the same women, with all the same troubles. Give the bitch a break, wherever she goes next. I'm sure it won't be pretty.
U have no idea what ur talking about and u totally misunderstood what i said!
Deletewhat kind of job is she qualified to get that would pay for child care and expenses for 14 kids? none. the only option for her is to make a circus freak out of herself.
ReplyDeleteIt isn't anyone else's right to say what she should do but the only option I could think of if I was in her position would be to give some of the kids over to others--even if it was to foster care--to work on getting some kind of work or training to work--the place she is in righlt now is a lose/lose--she is mentally not in a place to do anything realistic and in the end the kids will suffer for her ongoing foolishness. I feel sorry for them and for her.
Ewwwww...I wouldn't want to see this chick do porn. 20 kids have popped out of the Vajayjay. It probably hangs on the floor.
ReplyDeleteI do have sympathy for her...and it is my understanding that she did not know how many embroyos the doctor "planted" as some of them usually do not take at all. As for the state taking away her kids...come on...the kids have to be in terrible danger and abuse for that to happen and should be reserved for kids who need to be saved. All is see here is bad judgement on her part.
ReplyDeleteAs for the Duggars, I feel sorry for the older kids as they are the ones taking care of the younger kids all of the time.
I'm sure Nadya is doing what she can with what she has but what does not help are incidents like the one two weeks ago where someone breaks her car window and leaves a note telling her "to die".
Crila, she's only had 14, not 20.
ReplyDeleteIf she's doing what she can with what she has she shouldn't be paying for Direct TV, a gym membership, and $500 Brazilian Blowouts.
ReplyDeleteTMZ just posted a list of all her creditors.
The part of me who doesn't want to see anyone degrade themselves by doing porn wants to feel sorry for her, but I don't. She's an adult. She made the decision to have these children. She should have thought about how she was going to support them prior to having them. I believe she has a degree and prior work experience. She has also been given opportunities and training and I don't see anything happening there. She doesn't want to work. She wants to be famous. I have no sympathy for people like that.
ReplyDeleteI do feel sorry for the kids. They didn't ask for this.
Where did she say she is going to do porn? Is Enty going to back that up with facts or a link to that interview or is the headline simply misleading on purpose because it gets more attention?
ReplyDeleteI love this blog and I don't care who Enty is, but come on.
@Nessie - are YOU going to adopt one of these kids? They are going to be as bat shit crazy as she is. It's genetic. She transmitted all the bat shit crazy to them genetically. Sure maybe one will turn out OK after a horrible stint of adolescent conduct disorder but, really, what are the chances? Remember the lady who sent back the adopted kid to Russia?!?!?!?!? There is no cure. Neuter her and all her spawn before they breed!
ReplyDeleteSis, I think it's fairly safe to say that there is neglect going on in that home. The place is a wreck, she has training potties everywhere (including outside) that just sit there filled with waste, the kids are allowed to use spray paint on the walls, and the kids all looked dirty and disheveled in those pics the hairstylist took. I think there is enough evidence to justify taking the kids into state care. She obviously can't take care of them. Of course, to be fair, I don't think ANYONE could take care of 14 little ones on their own.
ReplyDeleteWell, the key phrase here is, "...what person in their right mind..?" Because obviously she ISN'T. I'm assuming she thought that after having 8 kids all at once, the reality-series world would beat a path to her door and her career would take off ala "Kate plus 8," but circumstances dictated otherwise. Everyone who has tried to help her has walked away in frustration, and if she is doing porn she should have taken the offer for a million from Vivid Video when they made it--too late now. A masturbation video? Good LORD.
ReplyDeleteNo offence to her, but would anyone even want to watch her doing porn?
ReplyDeletecar, any job would be better than nothing. So far she hasn't done anything to try and work since the younger kids have been born. What has she done besides posing semi-nude? That isn't going to sustain a household either.
ReplyDelete@Trixie, it's been on every gossip site now and she's confirmed it to TMZ.
ReplyDeletebe serious about her getting a job. a regular job would not even pay for her child care. porn is a fast way to make a buck. everyone points fingers at her, but that isn't helpful. she got herself into this, i understand that. but now that she is here she must deal with reality. short of marrying a saudi prince or winning the lottery; she has the choice of giving up her children when she is homeless or doing porn to keep them.
ReplyDeletewe already know there is some mental illness here, so bashing her is usless. the situation will not change; 14 kids and need for fast cash.
Ouch, she must be hating herself right now. Just a few years ago she could have made a million for the exact same decision and since in the middle of her 15 minutes, it might have led to new things. Now she will make a fraction of that and disappear much like the Amy Fishers and the like who decided to do porn way after the window of opportunity to do a Kim Kashardian.
ReplyDeleteI hate people feeling sorry for this woman. She already had 6 kids as a single mum and decided it would be a good idea to have more, plus spending god knows how much on IVF for it all.
ReplyDeleteI think if this were any other person they would have had their kids taken away from them.
She's an idiot!!!
From looking at her house and everything she does you don't get the sense she never really tries hard at anything? SHE HAS 14 KIDS. Of course her house isn't going to be spotless. How on earth do you expect her to afford daycare while she's working? Duggars and Nadya are apples and oranges. I don't agree with her decision but it's history. I think she's been beaten up over it enough now.
ReplyDeleteI'm curious has to how in the world she's going to be able to handle 14 TEENAGERS...
ReplyDeletei really hope they take her kids away, even if they're separated from each other, they'll have a better life than living with this. Hopefully there is a family group that wishes to adopt or foster that can keep them together but even if not, they need to be away from this sick freak.
ReplyDeleteNadya has a false sense of entitlement. She expects the world to cater to her because she had all of these kids. However she chose to implant eight embryos even though she already had six kids at home that she couldn't afford to have. I don't feel sorry for her or her children as I grew up in a household with more children than she has and we figured it out without welfare.
ReplyDeleteShe's too immature and self centered to be a mother. She has no attention of taking care of anyone but herself.
If the kids stay with her some of them will grow up with the same expectations as their mom. If they are taken away they have a 50/50 chance of growing up in a decent household and becoming educated independent adults.
I think many people equate abuse with physical abuse.. These children are being emotionally abused and neglected, which will leave LONG standing wounds with them.... Honestly, I wish the Duggars would adopt her and the kids.
ReplyDeleteAccording to the View today, it is not porn, she has signed up to do an "instructional video" on masturbation.
ReplyDeleteShe looks like the McPoyle sister on It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia
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As been stated, MANY have tried to help this broad to no avail. The best option now is for the state to step up to the plate and take the kids away. The state takes kids away from drug addicts and crack heads on a daily basis. This nut is really no different.
ReplyDeleteIIRC she said that after she had the eight babies, she would get a Masters in Sociology and would then be able to support all 14 children.
ReplyDeleteI also think IRC that she spent a bundle of $$$ from a settlement of some sort on plastic surgery for herself before having the eight new babies.
First, she couldn't afford to take care of the six babies by herself. A sociology degree is a very questionable route to financial security by a single parent until you reach the Ph.D level unless you have some incandescent theories/ideas and are a genius at publicizing them, and even then....
She was a certifiable idiot w/the general public w/her beliefs -- Not legally certifiable, but she stood out from the gen pop.
Legal adoptions in the U.S. are very long, complex processes. MDs who perform in vitro procedures should have their clients/patients go through just as vigorous a vetting process as potential adoptive parents go through. I guess the state boards that certify MDs are responsible for this.
This is a F'd up situation all around w/i'm afraid no good solution. Please, please, use it as an example.
State medical boards should clarify, strengthen and ENFORCE the ethics that must be followed by certified MDs when helping people to become pregnant.
There really are a boat load of constitutional/individual rights issues in OctoMom's situation, but really, some restraint in certifying [third party] individuals to perform fertilization procedures might be the first and best stop gap in situations like this.
She looks like Anthony Kiedis.
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