So, if the opportunity presented itself, where do you stand on public sex? How about a place where you might get caught? Or, no way are you going to catch me in a bathroom stall like Russell Simmons?
I wouldn't want to get caught, but I have had public sex a couple times. In general, I prefer more time and space than a quickie in a bathroom stall would allow.
I prefer more hygiene than a bathroom stall.... but then again what happens on Monster Plantation at 6 Flags over GA stays @ Monster Plantation :) and I shudder to think about the hygiene there but hey I was a newlywed so that's fine right?
What happens at Niagara Falls lookout park, Woodend Conservation park, Champlain Lookout, The Floral Clock, Long Point Beach, stays in... Well.... But never in a public washroom, that's just Ick! Nast!!
No, never, no. Oh wait! Did it on a second story bacony ledge that was on the Champs-Elysees in Paris. I remember looking over backward thinking if someone looks up...
What happens on the Applachian Trail stays on the Applachian Trail. There's public and there's public. The Trail is one place, a public bathroom is much more public. It's all a matter of degree.
Okay I am totally naive. So I'm just gonna come right out and ask this question: if you're having public sex, or sex in a limo a la Billy Bob & Angie, you must be using a condom right? Otherwise, how do you, um, clean up? Or, to put it bluntly, do you just let the semen run down your leg?
I'm (sort of) not ashamed to say I've done it. Drunk as a skunk to be sure but hey that was in my misspent youth. Feel kinda bad for the house who's front lawn we used.... would I do it today? hell no!
I'm just not sure what is actually considered "public". In the back seat of a car in a parking lot? On that big rock in the woods behind my house during the day? Or does it have to be full-blown Spanish Steps?
I've had some 'memorable'(??) times when drunk so you won't catch me judging anyone. As long as A) I'm not about to eat/sleep/sit where you just f%cked & B) little kids don't/can't see you, who cares really?
@Izahart - !!!! That was my FAVORITE ride as a kid. I even "wrote a book" about it when I was little, pictures I took & all! Last time I was at Six Flags was after high school graduation in 2000 & you can believe I rode that ride! I suppose I can see how gutter monsters in a street band could be 'sexy'. Lol!
I get off on it. I don't need people watching at all, but it's the thrill of getting caught.
Got caught by a cop in my then-boyfriend's car. He asked how old I was. When my bf answered he snapped, "I wasn't talking to YOU." When I said I was 20 he exclaimed, "YOU'RE 12???" I laughed so hard. He didn't charge us. Told us to finish up then move along.
I don't know. I'm just not a public display or public sex kinda girl. Maybe it was cause I had a traumatic experience and almost got busted having sex in a car with my boyfriend at the time. a walker byer saw us and called the cops. 3 cop cars showed up, with about 10 cops. I got dressed so fast with my underwear caught in leg of my pants. We got away with it, but a HUGE close call. Never again.
I'm not a public display kind of girl either. Just not my thing, but to each their own I suppose. I absolutely HATE hearing other people having sex too, and the one time I caught a couple having sex in some bushes in a park, I felt uncomfortable for several days afterwards. *L* Call me a prude. And I've already told you how I feel about boning in public bathrooms *horf*.
Vicki - NOT in a public bathroom. Tell me Nooooooooooooooooo!
Maybe in an upscale bathroom with a garden tub, nice shower, that sort of thing. But never in a public bathroom where strangers poop and quite possibly not courtesy flush!
When I was in my twenties, sure. Dark park, bathroom stall in a restaurant just off the top of my head. Now, I"m a little prudish, to my fiance's great disappointment.
Once. Early summer, Public park in a gazebo, late at night overlooking the lake. We had just started going out but knew each other for years. Didn't plan it. She sat on top of my legs, in my lap and it just happened. Nobody was around. Although a few people in the houses across the lake might have seen...something.
Do it! Do it with panache and verve and a sense of adventure -- ideally with someone at least worth the lipgloss. Double points if it's a noteworthy location.
Life's too short not to enjoy it. After all, what happens beside the Cirque du Soleil touring tent STAYS beside the Cirque du Soleil touring tent.
I doubt I'd partake now...but when I was in my early 20's I took lots of risks. I think my most memorable would be on a bridge walkway...with traffic moving at dusk. Pretty fun.
I did it in a dry sauna at a gym I worked at once. Of course, the gym was closed at the time. I have to tell you...that was the hottest sex I'd ever had...figuratively and literally...
How about in the back seat of my car last night in a parking lot?! When you're two working adults with kids, ya gotta get it in where and when you can! Oh yes, it was gooood too.
I've actually gotten more daring about it as I've gotten older. I do have to have some sort of shelter though. Tried it on a blanket in the middle of an empty park and just couldn't enjoy.
What happpens in the middle of a footballfield at 2 am.... And in the alley behind a club, in several cars and in the corner of a parking lot.. And God knows where else..
I was sort of slutty in my early twenties.. Have calmed down now though...
And, oddly enough, I would never do it in a bathroom stall.. Under the stars is much better.. ;-)
What happens on a look out in the afternoon stays... What happens on playground equipment at night...feel a bit bad about that one. My hubby and I tried to find a quiet place to go for it in the car, couldn't find one. I still haven't in a car.
For me it adds a little excitement to think someone might catch us. This means my list is quite large and varied. It includes a rest room but, it was the shower in a campground.
omg, I now realize I am quite prudish now compared to my late teens and early 20s! Sometimes if you are in the mood, who cares whose around! What happens in multiple public parks, friend's living rooms, hotel bathrooms at parties, and in a classroom stays in those random locales ;)
I did it all the time when I was 16, 17 and 18 -not sure how I wasn't ever arrested.
However now, I'd be happy to find someone I could have a decent conversation with,(and maybe even a jog too -but that would be pushing it), than sex, to be quite frank.
When I was a teen, no problem hell what do you think my girlfriend & I were doing during lunch. Then again on my honeymoon with my wife (not same girl as in school).
Ummmm....
ReplyDeleteLet's just say what happens in Korea stays in Korea.
There is no way I can pass judgement from my glass house. :)
ReplyDelete^^^^what happens on Bleeker Street STAYS
ReplyDeleteBesides. Not THAT man people saw. I think
Lol. Not today or any day after. It was ok with my husband back when I was a teenager but now. . . I have a child and more lbs to maneuver.
ReplyDeleteI'd have to be pretty drunk to agree to do it a bathroom, probably so drunk no man would even want to LOL
ReplyDeleteI dunno. There are a lot of variables with this question.
ReplyDeletekeeping in line with several other posters
ReplyDeletewhat happens in Charleston stays in Charleston (even if it was on my honeymoon)
Uh, what happens in a white truck stays in a white truck. And also stays in a big blue van, I guess.
ReplyDeleteAs long as no one (especially a kid) might encounter you, then go for it. You're not hurting anyone.
I wouldn't want to get caught, but I have had public sex a couple times. In general, I prefer more time and space than a quickie in a bathroom stall would allow.
ReplyDeleteDone it and would do it again if the opportunity presented itself - but only with my significant other.
ReplyDeleteI prefer more hygiene than a bathroom stall.... but then again what happens on Monster Plantation at 6 Flags over GA stays @ Monster Plantation :) and I shudder to think about the hygiene there but hey I was a newlywed so that's fine right?
ReplyDeleteI'm down with it. But not somewhere where it would be easy to get caught.
ReplyDeleteWhat happens at Niagara Falls lookout park, Woodend Conservation park, Champlain Lookout, The Floral Clock, Long Point Beach, stays in... Well.... But never in a public washroom, that's just Ick! Nast!!
ReplyDeleteNever in a bathroom. Just never, ever. Never caught so it didn't happen, right?????????? But, ick, never ever in a bathroom.
ReplyDeleteNo, never, no. Oh wait!
ReplyDeleteDid it on a second story bacony ledge that was on the Champs-Elysees in Paris. I remember looking over backward
thinking if someone looks up...
Hey, _+_=_, don't knock it til you try it. :D
ReplyDeleteWhat happens on the Applachian Trail stays on the Applachian Trail. There's public and there's public. The Trail is one place, a public bathroom is much more public. It's all a matter of degree.
ReplyDeleteOkay I am totally naive. So I'm just gonna come right out and ask this question: if you're having public sex, or sex in a limo a la Billy Bob & Angie, you must be using a condom right? Otherwise, how do you, um, clean up? Or, to put it bluntly, do you just let the semen run down your leg?
ReplyDeleteAs others have said, there's public and there's public. Bathroom stall, no...outside on a deserted road in the country, sure.
ReplyDeleteI'd only get busy if it was a Burger King bathroom.
ReplyDeleteYou do the Humpty Hump?
DeleteI'm (sort of) not ashamed to say I've done it. Drunk as a skunk to be sure but hey that was in my misspent youth. Feel kinda bad for the house who's front lawn we used.... would I do it today? hell no!
ReplyDeleteKleenex, chopchop. Or just let it dribble.
ReplyDeleteI'm just not sure what is actually considered "public". In the back seat of a car in a parking lot? On that big rock in the woods behind my house during the day? Or does it have to be full-blown Spanish Steps?
Would I? Sure. Have I? See above.
You guys crack me up.
ReplyDeleteI've had some 'memorable'(??) times when drunk so you won't catch me judging anyone. As long as A) I'm not about to eat/sleep/sit where you just f%cked & B) little kids don't/can't see you, who cares really?
I'm starting to realize why I don't always fit in around here. I'm not nearly so adventurous.
ReplyDeleteWow, the question SHOULD have been where did you do it, not would you do it -- I love this group!
ReplyDelete@Izahart - !!!! That was my FAVORITE ride as a kid. I even "wrote a book" about it when I was little, pictures I took & all! Last time I was at Six Flags was after high school graduation in 2000 & you can believe I rode that ride! I suppose I can see how gutter monsters in a street band could be 'sexy'. Lol!
ReplyDeleteI get off on it. I don't need people watching at all, but it's the thrill of getting caught.
ReplyDeleteGot caught by a cop in my then-boyfriend's car. He asked how old I was. When my bf answered he snapped, "I wasn't talking to YOU." When I said I was 20 he exclaimed, "YOU'RE 12???" I laughed so hard. He didn't charge us. Told us to finish up then move along.
I don't know. I'm just not a public display or public sex kinda girl. Maybe it was cause I had a traumatic experience and almost got busted having sex in a car with my boyfriend at the time. a walker byer saw us and called the cops. 3 cop cars showed up, with about 10 cops. I got dressed so fast with my underwear caught in leg of my pants. We got away with it, but a HUGE close call. Never again.
ReplyDeleteNot me, I like to be clean and comfy...
ReplyDeleteI'm not a public display kind of girl either. Just not my thing, but to each their own I suppose. I absolutely HATE hearing other people having sex too, and the one time I caught a couple having sex in some bushes in a park, I felt uncomfortable for several days afterwards. *L* Call me a prude. And I've already told you how I feel about boning in public bathrooms *horf*.
ReplyDeleteVicki - NOT in a public bathroom. Tell me Nooooooooooooooooo!
ReplyDeleteMaybe in an upscale bathroom with a garden tub, nice shower, that sort of thing. But never in a public bathroom where strangers poop and quite possibly not courtesy flush!
When I was in my twenties, sure. Dark park, bathroom stall in a restaurant just off the top of my head. Now, I"m a little prudish, to my fiance's great disappointment.
ReplyDeleteWhaaaaaaaaaaaat? It was a bar, but the guy's bathroom was surprisingly clean. Compared to the girls.
ReplyDeleteNot in a public restroom. I make noise when it's good, and my moaning would echo too loudly.
ReplyDeleteHats off to you. I just couldn't. But, I don't throw stones, it's just not for me and I would refuse.
ReplyDeleteBut, being older, wiser, I did not refuse in a cave at a chapel. Praise the Lord! I mean, how many times after 50 will this happen?!?!?!
I think it's a disgrace and vulgar and some things should just be kept private and this is one of them!!
ReplyDeleteOnce. Early summer, Public park in a gazebo, late at night overlooking the lake. We had just started going out but knew each other for years. Didn't plan it. She sat on top of my legs, in my lap and it just happened. Nobody was around. Although a few people in the houses across the lake might have seen...something.
ReplyDeleteDo it! Do it with panache and verve and a sense of adventure -- ideally with someone at least worth the lipgloss. Double points if it's a noteworthy location.
ReplyDeleteLife's too short not to enjoy it. After all, what happens beside the Cirque du Soleil touring tent STAYS beside the Cirque du Soleil touring tent.
Jason, please.....continue.
ReplyDelete;)
Ahh the Tate Modern Art Museum... tee hee!
ReplyDeleteDid it in my twenties. Would probably never do it again.
ReplyDeleteNot in a public bathroom, but when you're a newlywed, those lovely warm spring Florida nights are enchanting.
ReplyDeleteI doubt I'd partake now...but when I was in my early 20's I took lots of risks. I think my most memorable would be on a bridge walkway...with traffic moving at dusk. Pretty fun.
ReplyDeleteI did it in a dry sauna at a gym I worked at once. Of course, the gym was closed at the time. I have to tell you...that was the hottest sex I'd ever had...figuratively and literally...
ReplyDeleteHow about in the back seat of my car last night in a parking lot?! When you're two working adults with kids, ya gotta get it in where and when you can! Oh yes, it was gooood too.
ReplyDeleteI've actually gotten more daring about it as I've gotten older. I do have to have some sort of shelter though. Tried it on a blanket in the middle of an empty park and just couldn't enjoy.
I forgot, I would not do it in a public restroom but a dressing room, on the other hand...
ReplyDeleteI love hearing all the stories. We are a fun bunch! And get it, redhotpepper!
ReplyDeleteWhat happpens in the middle of a footballfield at 2 am....
ReplyDeleteAnd in the alley behind a club, in several cars and in the corner of a parking lot.. And God knows where else..
I was sort of slutty in my early twenties.. Have calmed down now though...
And, oddly enough, I would never do it in a bathroom stall.. Under the stars is much better.. ;-)
Reminds me of a scene in 'Love & Sex:' (Great movie!)
ReplyDeleteHer: What do we have in common?
Him: How many other people do you know who like to have sex in public places?
Her: Every single guy I've ever dated.
Best sex I've ever had was in a GAP dressing room.
ReplyDeleteI don't even want to go to the bathroom in a public restroom.
ReplyDeleteOn the beach -- way overrated. I didn't like digging the sand out from places that should never see sand.
ReplyDeleteIs it really a public place if no one can possibly run across you? I'm thinking that time in the woods near a lake doesn't really count
What happens on a look out in the afternoon stays...
ReplyDeleteWhat happens on playground equipment at night...feel a bit bad about that one.
My hubby and I tried to find a quiet place to go for it in the car, couldn't find one. I still haven't in a car.
For me it adds a little excitement to think someone might catch us. This means my list is quite large and varied. It includes a rest room but, it was the shower in a campground.
ReplyDeleteThroughout the Greater Chicagoland area. ;)
ReplyDeleteLutefisk - I just said the same thing on that Russell Simmons Simmons.
ReplyDeleteIn a car, many times, but that's about as far as I would have gone. I'm not a risk taker & the thought of getting caught horrifies me.
*russell Simmons POST
ReplyDelete@_-_=_ - Bow-chicka-wow-wow!
ReplyDelete@Seachica - Agggreeeeed!!
omg, I now realize I am quite prudish now compared to my late teens and early 20s! Sometimes if you are in the mood, who cares whose around! What happens in multiple public parks, friend's living rooms, hotel bathrooms at parties, and in a classroom stays in those random locales ;)
ReplyDeleteI did it all the time when I was 16, 17 and 18 -not sure how I wasn't ever arrested.
ReplyDeleteHowever now, I'd be happy to find someone I could have a decent conversation with,(and maybe even a jog too -but that would be pushing it), than sex, to be quite frank.
When I was a teen, no problem hell what do you think my girlfriend & I were doing during lunch. Then again on my honeymoon with my wife (not same girl as in school).
ReplyDeleteI'd BETTER not catch you in a bathroom stall like Russell Simmoms, Enty. (shiver) One of us would hafta die!
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