This is one of the most fascinating stories I have read in a long time. First the He Said in this battle. The man says that after he had been dating a stripper for about six months she told him that she was pregnant. Considering they always used condoms the guy was shocked. A DNA test after the birth confirmed the twins were his and the woman sued for child support, and also sued to remain in the home and even tried to get half his stuff. She ended up being allowed to stay in the home and got $800 a month in support. The man was more surprised when he got a bill from a fertility clinic. He says the woman took used sperm from the condoms and then took it to the clinic and got pregnant.
Now the She Said. The woman's attorney claims that the man and the woman were trying to get pregnant and that he even injected his girlfriend with hormones so they could make her pregnant. The attorney went on to say that this was simply a bid to get full custody of the twins and nothing more.
My question is can you take the sperm from condoms and run off to a fertility clinic and use those to get pregnant? Isn't there some expiration time for that? Doesn't the latex do anything to it? How did she manage to get away after sex so fast?
Yeah, this has shady written all over it.
ReplyDeleteIf she was telling the truth about him helping her to get pregnant, and he knew, then he'd certainly give samples at the clinic, not from used condoms?! That's just stupid because you're right, Enty, that *would* compromise the sperm you'd think.
That's what you get for dating a stripper.
ReplyDeleteThat fertility clinic sounds shady too if that's the way they operate (which I doubt). You can't just walk in with random sperm on a condom and have the bill sent to the man. Why would he use a condom if he was trying to get her pregnant?
ReplyDeletein France,there is some spermicide in condoms and the sperm donor must "give" in clinic so it's difficulty possible
ReplyDeleteand i agree with every one: why use condoms if you want to be pregnant !
ReplyDeleteThis is disgusting.
ReplyDeleteI don't understand either why the clinic took the sperm. Did she bring it in, in the condom? Did she remove it and put it in a container?
Sperm does live up to 72 hours after it's final ride, so it's not too surprising she was able to "get away with it" - literally - so quickly.
Really, this lady could of done this quite sneakily if you think about it.
ReplyDeleteAll she had to do was get the sperm out of the condom, put it into something else and hide it from her boyfriend.
She waits until he goes to work the next day or whatever - she has 72 hours to get it to a clinic.
She tells the clinic her man is super important/busy and is leaving all this up to her. Maybe she even provided false documentation of his consent? That could explain why he was billed.
I find it VERY hard to believe there is any clinic out there that would just take some sperm and knock you up with it.
Also, the attorney is already claiming the man knew and "injected his girlfriend with hormones so they could make her pregnant."
ReplyDeleteShe must have already made it seem like the guy was consensual so they are using this angle. Why else would they? They KNOW he wasn't but because she already acted like the boyfriend was O.K. with this - they have a fighting chance with this outrageous claim.
It's sad. Crazy people can be masterminds.
Forget all that other stuff. If you've got sperm, a turkey baster and an Instead cup to keep it in there, there's no need for the fertility clinic.
ReplyDeleteCondoms are not 100% effective. But I can't imagine a clinic agreeing to this, and figure it was her and her girlfriends in the kitchen with a turkey baster, IF it happened that way. More inclined to believe She Said in this one.
ReplyDeleteIt's said what people do for money, like bringing children into the world. She should have just poked a hole in the condom.
ReplyDeleteUmmmm, no. But I have to admit, that's a new one, LOL.
ReplyDeleteOh, and strippers, as well as prostitutes are human beings, too. Let's not shame them.
ReplyDeleteafter what happend with OctoMom i would think this is entirely possible with clinics cashing the check and using whatever sperm is handed to them.
ReplyDeleteIf he didn't sign consent for his sperm to be used he has every right to sue them.
Having been through IVF (after five unexplainable miscarriages...sigh) I can tell you that the amount of tests the hubby had to go through (at the clinic!) and that the amount of notarized paperwork he had to sign was staggering. Plus, at my clinic they said you only have about 1 hour to bring in the "sample" . So, I don't know, either super shady clinic or he is lying.
ReplyDeletei'm with fingerbinger - why not just poke a hole in a condom?
ReplyDeleteYou husband or boyfriend has to sign that he knows you are doing this before they will proceed. I had to have a notarized form on file to use sperm "donated" off-site. They make special collection condoms for fathers that have difficulty in donating in office.
ReplyDeleteThis doesn't make sense. My ex was sterile (slow swimmers), and he had to go through MOUNTAINS of paperwork to give in his sperm. This sounds like a bad movie script. I don't buy that a fertility clinic would do this without his prior consent.
ReplyDeleteActually, the whole mess with Octomom has put fertility clinics on the alert. I think the regulations are even stricter than they were before.
I'm not buying his story.
She probably just poured it into her vagina and stood upside down for an hour. I;m sure it could work!
ReplyDeleteWhat Unknown said... This doesn't sound very likely. Also, as pomme mentioned, I believe most condoms have spermicide in them, so that would sort of make the whole "sperm-harvesting" from a used condom difficult. Eh, this is an odd story.
ReplyDeleteLOL @ Cheryl
ReplyDeleteThis has the makings of a TV movie.
My ex and I went through fertility treatment and as others said, there was a ton of paperwork and red tape with the sperm sample. My ex had to deposit it at the clinic or bring it in himself and sign off that it was his. There was very little time to bring in a sample, the sperm had to be prepared or "washed" and I had to take hormones even though I was fertile. There was no way I could have brought in a random sample! Unless this clinic was really shady I call BS!
ReplyDeleteLesson to be learned.... FLUSH THE CONDOM IN THE TOILET, lol
ReplyDeleteNot sure if I buy this either. I think clinics work with both parties not just the woman that brings in the sperm.
The woman's story is crap. My daughter was conceived after numerous IUIs and IVFs. I could not bring in my husband's sample. He had to take off work to walk the cup in to the office, show his ID, and sign papers.
ReplyDeleteExcuse me, I mean the man's story is crap, or they both aren't telling the whole truth.
ReplyDeleteAlright, well after reading how extensive it is to get approved at fertility clinics from a lot of you - I agree both sides wreak of crap.
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