What Do You Think?

When I first read about the woman who disappeared in Aruba and the fact that the guy she was with has been detained for her disappearance, I had to read the story several times. The reason was every article or story I have seen mentions the woman's boyfriend. He is quoted as saying that he misses her and wants her back safe. It confused me because she went to the island with the guy who is being questioned in her disappearance and they did not exactly go as platonic snorkeling buddies.

Apparently Robyn Gardner was dating this guy back home for two and half years. Got it. At the same time she was dating the guy at home she met this other guy online on a dating site. At some point she decided to go to Aruba with the guy she met online and Robyn and her long term boyfriend got into an argument about it. Umm yeah. The boyfriend also said that Robyn called him before she left and said that she loved him and they would work it out when she got home.

I think this is tragic and the guy she went with has a history of domestic violence with all of his former girlfriends and wife. My question is this though, would you want to be with someone who you have been dating for over two years and they go on vacation with someone they met on a dating site? I think the guy in Aruba did it, but I would also check the travel records of the boyfriend. He just got jilted and knew he was going to get cheated on. He was not upset about it?