I really thought Jesse James had ticked off just bout every group of people he could. The only ones who seem to love him are Nazi enthusiasts and people who make a habit of voting for David Duke. Oh, and he is doing land office business at KKK conventions. Now, Jesse has gone ahead and made every gay in the world mad at him. Radar Online got a hold of an e-mail Jesse sent which talked about two gay co-workers who had recently left the company.
“Now you guys will be able to Suck each others D***s without anyone giving you a hard time for it! That’s right!...my place is ‘f***ed up’..and the Two most ‘f***ed up’ things about my place are gone now!.....Don’t worry though you 2 f***ots will be fine! Maybe Just Maybe? If you suck his d**k real hard he might even put you guys on TV!.......”
How did Sandra not know any of this? None? Nothing?
Enty, manipulators will deceive the closest to them for years, decades, a lifetime... that's all he is really, a manipulator. He'll try to find some sympathy from people in about 3 months in a new show that'll be canceled before the end of the year.
ReplyDeleteHmm he is homophobic but has no problmes with his ex wife's lesbian proclivities?!?! Gotta love the douchebags double standards.
ReplyDeleteThat marriage validated him as a nice, normal guy who just liked tatoos and motorcycles. It gave him an image that was the complete opposite of the truth. Now Sandra has to deal not only with the infidelity, but the fraud he was.
ReplyDeleteThen again with all the gay and bi men in Hollywood, perhaps SB wanted a very macho str8 man and was willing to put up with his crap to do so, just saying.
ReplyDeleteI really think she needs to make some kind of statement, saying she is in no way affiliated with the whole nazi gay bashing Jesse James. If she doesnt, she is most def not a role model for anyone.
ReplyDeleteAnd before someone says anything - no, we are not responsible for each other partners and their actions. And non-public figures do not need to make any kind of statements regarding their or others behaviors. But when you are a public figure, different standards apply.
And anti-semetical, anti-gay sentiments should be denounced if they are coming from someone close to you. Especially your husband.
Great article in Jezebel (and yeah i know i linked to it before, but i think its great)
http://jezebel.com/5506660/what-did-sandra-know-about-this-nazi-stuff
I do not care for the word faggot. OFFENSIVE!
ReplyDeleteI don't think this is that big of a deal. It was a fight with a former co-worker. Of course you bring out the meanest shit you can say.
ReplyDeleteI'm not defending the asshole. I just don't think this is that big a deal.
Okay, pile on.
Some women are blind to the offenses of their significant others. She appeared to take such good care of HIS kids - maybe she wanted to stick things out.
ReplyDeleteSpeaking of 'Dicks...'
ReplyDeleteWhat bugs me about Sandra is she did release the statement about there being no sex tape. If she had said nothing, I would've said to leave her alone, but since she commented on that I think she should denounce all this other stuff that is far worse, imo, than a sex tape.
if you have to add a disclaimer to your comment a part of you has to know what you are saying is wrong.
ReplyDeleteit is a big deal,like hate crimes. this guy has influence over alot of scumbags and impressionable young scumbags and to be using the word 'faggot' IS a big deal.
would it be no big deal if he said n--ger?
Some women are married to serial killers for many, many years without ever having a clue. It's completely possible that she had no clue who he really was.
ReplyDeleteJust sayin'.
i agree Moosh, she kinda has to say something in regards to this otherwise she'll risk people seeing her silence as protecting him or condoning it.
ReplyDeleteSince she's the one left to take care of the kids just what should she say? He is truly a manipulator.
ReplyDeleteYeah, it would have been a big deal if he said n*gger. He didn't.
ReplyDeleteAnd i don't agree with "hate" crimes, for the record. We've already had this argument, jax.
@Syd
ReplyDeleteAre you a lesbian? I am only asking cause I have something to say, and before I say it I want to make sure I remember correctly before I make another boob move today.
LOL. Yes, SueEllen. I've been with my partner for 20 yrs.
ReplyDeleteI just think it's darn near impossible to hide your true feelings & your true self from your spouse of 6 years. Traveling, not traveling, whatever. After this new info I really think Sandra knew and didn't care or knew & condoned it. Both of which are dangerous.
ReplyDeleteI had a friend whose wife cheated on him after 10 supposedly idyllic years and he was so shocked he rebounded immediately with another friend of mine although they were absolutely wrong for each other and he still loved his wife. He sooo wanted everything to be okay again that he became perfect for my other friend...for a year.
ReplyDeleteThen it became too much to continue being this person; however much he wanted to be in love, only a quarter of his real personality was with my friend, the rest of him was someone she would want nothing to do with, let alone marry.
Jesse was probably living this kind of life with Sandra. I think he loves her as much as he could love any woman, that's just not very much because only a part of his personality is actually the guy she married.
Thanks for indulging me. Ok. Has anyone ever called you a bulldyke, or your woman? I think that's just as offensive as faggot (and n***), and when you say those things, you know what you're doing, you're trying to hurt the person. I don't think it's the word so much as it is the intent behind it. Hate crime or not, I could care less, I just think that even if you are SUPER pissed at someone certain words just shouldn't be used.
ReplyDeleteI hope you don't take this as an attack, cause I really like your comments here, and on rotspot ;)
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ReplyDeleteCount me as another person who is incredibly offended by the word "faggot" (and nigger), which almost always come into play during a hate crime, which I also believe is its own special kind of crime.
ReplyDeleteI thought I couldn't be more disgusted by James than I was last week. I was wrong.
I honestly don't recall being called a dyke, except jokingly. Perhaps because neither my partner or me fit the typical stereotype of what people think lesbians looks like.
ReplyDeleteI do get your point, though. I have a different opinion, but that's okay. We don't have to see eye to eye on everything.
Oh, SNAP! You totally busted me for RotSpot! hahaha
I also busted myself, no?
ReplyDeleteDoes this whole Sandra Bullock/Jesse James situation have anything to do with a blind here from Feb 1, 2007?
ReplyDeleteThis A list actress wants to be married only once which is why she is working so hard at saving a marriage that is becoming one problem after another. Always hesitant to marry, and famous for just having boyfriends, this actress finally took the plunge. The plunge though was not what she was expecting. Always publicity shy, her husband's past actions are forcing her into the public eye much more than she would like. It seems as if her husband did not tell the whole truth and nothing but the truth when they were dating and his past mistakes and relationships are coming back to haunt him and our actress. She wants it to all go away, but new problems surface everyday. As things grow more tense, they are spending less time together, and the feeling is that is not if they will split up, but when.
If it does, I think it'd be a good time for a reveal ;).
Yeah, he is using the worst word he can think of to piss someone off. To me, that doesn't make it any less offensive. It's just another insecure straight guy trying to make himself look tough. And failing miserably.
ReplyDeleteWow, nice catch KellyLynn!
ReplyDeleteGood catch Kelly Lynn. Could it have been Sandra or was that maybe Renee? When did she and Kenny Chesney get married?
ReplyDeleteTrue story: 2 years into our relationship the guy I was with MARRIED SOMEONE ELSE. and was with me for another year before confessing. He had his own "fake" apt that he filled with furniture he bought off craigs'list. I suspected something was 'off' but NEVER in a million years did I think it was that he had a wife and a house elsewhere. And it's still mind blowing to me when I think back to some of the things he said and did, because HOW could someone be so selfish and disgusting of a human being that they could go to such lengths to keep what was one big ruse going? I'm not saying I didn't know ANYTHING but it definitely came as a shock when he finally fessed up. And when you love someone, you try to ignore their faults or hope that if you just love them enough, those faults will dissipate. Unfortunately for Sandra (and myself) she had to learn the hard way that that is rarely the case.
I was looking for the blind item Enty mentioned yesterday regarding Steven Seagal, and came across that one. (Yes, I had entirely too much time on my hands yesterday.)
ReplyDeleteapplause for KellyLynn.
ReplyDeleteWut the hell is wrong with this guy ? pond scum...
ReplyDeleteMan, it just keeps getting worse. I'm not gay, but my roommates are. Let me tell you, that word (that I refuse to type) is probably the most hurtful thing you can say to them. Both of them.
ReplyDeleteAlso, I noticed some of you typed the one offensive word, but not the other offensive word. Why is that? That bothered me as well. Why is it okay to type one and not the other?
Thank you, Rocket, for consciously typing both, because lets face it, they are both equally just as offensive...
The fact that Sandra STILL has not filed for divorce is very troubling.
ReplyDeleteI really really think she wants to stay with the "fantasy Jesse" and pretend "real Jesse" does not exist.
She can still keep a relationship with the kids on some level without being married to Jesse.
I still think she won't divorce him.
sandra is undoubtedly thinking about the children who are biologically jesse's. she can't just file for divorce w/o effecting her right to see them.
ReplyDeleteI do believe that she could have been deceived by this guy completely. sad, but possible.
I'm beginning to think he has actually hated Sandra this whole time and totally faked loving her (and put on a totally fake persona to get her to fall for him, and faked even being attracted to her when she's so not his type) so he could user her/her fame/her money/whatever. Because I can't think of any other explanation for how she wouldn't know any of this unless he just flat out hates her and his entire relationship with her has been fake for self-serving reasons on his part.
ReplyDeleteAs for the gay-bashing -- that's actually right in line not just with contemporary hate speech but with the actual Nazi practice half a century ago (Nazis targeted and sent gays to the camps too). It's hard to tell if he's doing the modern hate crime thing or the Nazi thing or both there.
Great catch KellyLynn.
ReplyDeleteNow I am just waiting to find out he kept a Klan robe in his garage also.
Also, I would like to add that ANY term that is derogatory to someone's religion, race, or sexuality is totally offensive. We are not talking about 12 year old boys here trying to be cool. It is just so wrong.
@SFG, that is a crazy story!!!
ReplyDeleteoh, and another offensive word that MAKES MY SKIN CRAWL: r***rded. I don't know how many ***'s to do, but you know what I'm talking about right? UGH!!! I think it is DISGUSTING!!!
ReplyDeleteoh, last one. I think I have said before that my husband is Mexican. My mom, dad, husband and I were walking and I swear I thought I heard my mom ask my husband about that "w**back there" I said "WHAT?!~" alas, she had said that "guy back there". Lol, don't ask me, I thought I heard it.
ReplyDeleteLong time lurker, but wanted to chim in.
ReplyDeleteMy thought was this - she responded to the sex tape because it implied "she" conducted herself in an unbecoming way, but she hasn't responded about the other things because they have to do with "his" actions only/directly. Or the actions of the others he was involved with.
Also, I don't think she'll file for divorce. I think she will remain seperated to maintain some sort of potential legal right to the kids. Plus, I think if she eventually goes through with the divorce she'll have one hell of a stipulation in there about her role in their lives.
Hate to say it, but I unsed to watch Monster Garage and really loved JJ & the two of them together. But alas he has shown his true nature...
It's fairly easy for a man, or woman, to keep lots of secrets from their partner if they have a vested interest in doing so. Hence, Sandra was probably duped and feels like a fool right now.
ReplyDeleteThat being said, as painful as it is for her, she is going to have to make some sort of public statement soon or she will lose all credibility.
Enty, I don't get it either but you always hear about those men (like @SFG, for instance) that lead double lives.
ReplyDeleteI think she commented on the sex tape b/c some other sites implicated her in it and in a VERY VERY unflattering light.
That is a good catch KellyLynn! Sounds very similar.
I don't understand what the hold up is w/ the divorce either. Its always so funny to me that you can get married SOO quickly but ending it is a pain in the ass. I've had several girlfriends whose husbands cheated and it took almost 2 years to sort out. RIDICULOUS!
It's funny that you wrote that, Icecat (and thanks), because I actually cringed writing both words, but I felt that I should because they are equally heinous to me.
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