Monday, March 15, 2010

New Jersey Woman Trying To Become Fattest Woman In The World

I don't even know where to begin. This mother of two from New Jersey wants nothing more than to become the world's largest woman. It is her goal to weight 1,000 pounds. To that end she eats about 12,000 calories a day. She is doing it on purpose. Why? So she can leave her kids without a mom? It seems to me from reading between the lines that she might not be raising her son. Well, I think someone should take a really good look at whether she should be raising her daughter. This isn't someone who has a disease and can't control her eating, she is forcing herself to eat more. If she keeps it up she will die. How is that any different from a parent who does drugs? Yes, I suppose it isn't illegal to eat food.

I eat lots and lots of food. I do so voluntarily. However, I also recognize the risks and if I had a young child I would improve my eating habits. As it is, I don't really fluctuate in my weight and I don't want to buy larger sizes so I am pretty content with where I am.To make all of this happen she spends about $750 a week on food. Oh, and she says she pays for most of it by charging men online to watch her eat. Really? It is like porn although I guess she keeps her clothes on. She is with a man who loves larger women and he introduced her to the online world where men love larger women. Fine. Great. I love it. BUT, that doesn't mean you should take it to the extent where you are going to kill yourself on purpose, especially when you have kids.

At one point she lost a bunch of weight and was going to have a gastric bypass, but when one of her friends died during the procedure she just went back to eating. It took 30 medical people to deliver her daughter. She already holds the world record for largest woman to deliver a baby. I am speechless.

(Thanks Chloe)


45 comments:

  1. I'm guessing her IQ is on the low end of the curve, hey?

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  3. Doesn't she believe in shoes or socks, or does she like her feet fealthy? No personal dignaty? Oy, I can smell the stench coming off the screen.

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  4. I'm surprised she found someone to impregnate her. Or that she stopped eating long enough to get pregnant.

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  5. This is absolutely disgusting. What is even the purpose of gaining this title?? I sincerely doubt she'd make back the money she spent sickening herself. Social services - speak to this woman about what she's doing!!

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  6. hmmmm Kate Winslet and husband split.......off to check blind items........

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  7. I just threw up a little bit. Absolutely disgusting.

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  8. Sick and Wrong.

    I have no words for this...

    I concur about that gross couch too!!

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  9. I disagree with Enty. Someone like this is very sick and is dealing with some type of mental illness/depression or an addiction.

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  10. You do have a valid point Rose. I agree; there has to be something wack in her head.

    AND for those of you who don't think food is an addiction, you're dead wrong. I am hugely addicted to food. When I quit the bad shit in the early 2000's... Guess what I replaced it with?? Yep, FOOD.

    Don't get me wrong I am only a little over weight. (my BF says I'm pleasantly plump :P). But if I let myself, I could get up in the middle of the night and just bindge eat.. because I'm addicted to eating... I don't even think it's the food. I think it's the eating...

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  11. this biotch is crazy in the brains,sad.

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  12. Maybe it's a good thing that America doesn't have free health care cause this woman would be such a drain. Geez. Put down the cheeseburger lady.

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  13. I do believe that binge eating is just as much of an escape as drugs or alcohol, and Icecat is right - it's not about the food itself but the act, and the ritual, of stuffing your face until you can't feel anything. As much as I believe that a person can be healthy and beautiful at any size, this woman has a f*cked up relationship with food and eating - and from the pictures it looks like she is only eating processed junk food too, which is certain to break down ones health eventually. I think she has a serious problem, but it's not the state of her body - it's her quest to become famous. Some people have affairs with famous married men and sell the text messages to In Touch. Some people try to become the fattest women in the world.

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  14. there is no way she can wipe her ass. seems she wants to take up alot of room in the world so she has value. and yup, food IS a drug. sad human.

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  15. it's not good for her health! and i can say that because i'm not thin!

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  16. I've been in self-imposed exile from commenting on this site for a few weeks, but Icecat's comment has ended my silence.

    "I don't even think it's the food. It's the eating."

    Wow, Icecat, I got chills from that statement. I've got 'food issues', too, and always said/thought I was a food addict. But, no - I'm an EATING addict. Wow. Kind of a major breakthrough here, kids.

    And for those of you who don't understand the difference - Well, I can't explain why, but let's just say it's huge. Thanks, Icecat, for a kick in the pants.

    P.S. This woman is definitely troubled.

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  17. YUK...SHE IS SERIOUSLY MESSED UP..

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  18. Anonymous12:00 PM

    Her feet, the couch, her selfishness ... all nasty.

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  19. Wow, @annalise, good point! I hadn't thought of that. How WOULD she wipe herself??

    I've noticed that these ginormously 700+ pound women always seem to be white, and if they have kids the kids are ALWAYS biracial, black/white. Just an observation.

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  20. She's all everyone in NJ is talking about - at least in my office, lol. Her SO said he wouldn't even look at a woman under 400 lbs. He's 150 lbs soaking wet. She does not wear shoes because she can't get them on her feet. Yes, she is making money off her site. Men love to watch her eat and go about her daily activities. I have to go rest my eyes now.

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  21. Men pay to watch her eat...they are sicker than she is.

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  22. No problem Babs!! I think I kind of had that revelation myself.

    Here is one difference at least for me that might explain: I don't crave a certain food and have to go out and get it and eat it. I'll eat anything in the house. I don't do this anymore because of, well, health reasons.. BUT at one point I would literally get up in the night, get whatever out of the fridge hot or cold and eat it..All of it...

    I used to blame it on quitting drugs, because I had starved myself for so long.. I think when you come off Meth, your so starved for food and sleep, that's all you do for a while. BUT the eating part stayed. Then you realize 5-10 years have gone by and you're getting fat and your addicted to eating.. Ugg.

    Vicious Cycle if I do say so myself...It's really hard. I am trying to get in shape now, and it's tough... :P

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  23. She's the fat version of Octomom.

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  24. This whole thing is just gross. I can't even comprehend the mess she must leave in the toilet. She must buy liquid plumber by the case load.

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  25. oh here we go again. this will devolve into a big fight about weight before the day is done.

    first, i've taken care of morbidly obese pregnant women---many of them. it's very, very challenging. it's dangerous for the mother AND the baby.

    i also read somewhere she claims to be very 'healthy.' sorry, that's not possible. she fails by definition. AND she has to use a wheelchair if she's going to be on her feet for any length of time because her knees are shot. that's healthy??

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  26. And they say everything is bigger in Texas....

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  27. While she is consuming all this food and trying to achieve this "goal" - her child is watching, and learning.

    Learning about food habits, body image, self-esteem, and successes in life.

    I hope this womana nd her child get help.

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  28. i am in totaly agreement with Rose and Icecat. if she wasn't scarfing food nonstop, i wonder if she would be a major alcoholic, or a meth head. this is just very sad.

    i also noticed the yucky couch, but did you also notice how it looks like the floor BEHIND the couch is filthy? i wish she could help and not live with someone who is exploiting her :(

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  29. I am eating carrot sticks, drinking water, and getting ready for a workout, and now I can do so feeling infinitely better than someone else today. Awesome! Check Monday off the list!

    On another note, this is really really really sick and twisted.

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  30. I knew I'd been on the wrong parts of the internet for too long when I read the Daily Mail article about this woman and not only already knew that there was a fetish for watching obese women eat to the point that they become immobile, but that I knew what it was called. There's a whole "feeder" fetish community and she's relatively average size for people in that fetish community.

    Again, I've clearly been on the internet waaaay too long if I know that.

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  31. There's a difference between being healthy overweight and putting your body through this sort of torture.

    And moi, the fact that you already knew about a "feeder" fetish does suggest you've been spending too much time on the wrong site of the internet, but no one here could fault you for that. The crazy side of the internet is vast, and the slopes leading into it are slippery.

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  32. Anonymous1:31 PM

    She needs to lay off the pretzels, those things are fat-free. Got to eat way too many of them to gain weight on them.

    I didn't know about feeder fetishes until today (thanks, guys!) but did know there are some men who like heavy women, I think I learned about them on Oprah years and years ago. I was shocked at the time, though, because when they first announced the subject, I thought, in my 20-lb-too-many innocence, that it was men who preferred women like me. And then they came onstage, and not a one of them was under 350 lb. and none of the men were over 150 lb. One of them even wrote poetry about his woman's obesity, and the places deep in the many rolls of her body which were always damp and had their own peculiar odor...now THAT is ick nast!

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  33. If the woman didn't have kids, then fine eat yourself to a untimely death. It's nothing but selfish. I remember seeing a tv-show about this same woman, her husband would leave her if she lost weight. It's nothing but mental abuse from the husband's part.

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  34. She's doing this to please her man - the feeder. She's lost weight before, then the feeder came along to fatten her up. He needs to leave her beore he kills her.

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  35. Gawd. So disgusting.

    I say that as a binge/compulsive eater.

    She doesn't need a TV show. She needs professional guidance and/or an intervention and inpatient mental health care. She is so far into denial that she is trying to make it pay $$ for her?

    Oh dear.

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  36. I wonder how Howard Stern and His Pathetic Sidekick are going to feel about this!

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  37. I feel sorry for her but also kinda jealous that she is letting herself eat 12,000 cals a day. As someone who has lost 42 lbs and counting this sounds like a wetdream to me. I would never want to be her, and i totally get the addicted to eating point that a few of you have made, but god, doesnt it sound kinda awesome to just let youself go and eat anything you wanted to all day every day?! Then again I read from Michael K that she cant walk further than 20 feet without sitting down from being out of breath so maybe not. I like walking around too much lol

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  38. There's a feeder fetish?!? Whoa. I've come across some disgusting things on the 'net, like furries and other sick fetishes, but...wow. Both of them need intensive therapy!

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  39. I first found out about feederism way back in the day on Usenet (soc.support.fat-acceptance, IIRC). It's one thing to simply have a preference for a particular body type, be it fat or thin, but this is a whole different issue--in a way, it's the flip side of those relationships where one party insists the other one starve themselves to keep their love, and either way it's definitely not healthy, mentally or physically. What annoys the crap out of a lot of people is that, for the most part, the feeder community won't admit that it's not about food so much as it is about control--if they'd just admit it's a form of extreme BDSM, that would be one thing, but they adamantly refuse to discuss the power dynamics behind the issue. (How can it NOT be a power issue when, say, the goal is to make the feedee so fat they're completely dependent on the feeder? Sure sounds like it to me.) And let's not even get into how this feeds into the notion that the only people who are interested in fat people are sick freaks who want to exploit them for their own gratification. (A really good book, which I have to recommend, is Hanne Blank's Big Big Love--it's a very interesting read no matter what your body type, and she discusses feederism at length, pointing out the BDSM issues inherent in it.)

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  40. Bwa ha haaaa, patty way up at the top cracked me the hell UP. I didn't even see the disgusting sofa until patty mentioned it.

    Too funny!

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  41. This just makes me sad. To each his own - if you don't have kids depending on you, that is. I don't understand it, but apparently she's willing to be a side show for people who are into some weird sh*t. In the meantime, someone else is starving themselves to death for the same reason - love and acceptance. That's all people really need. It's just heartbreaking that some people feel they need to harm themselves in order to get it.

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  42. What RtMP said. It's a fetish & this is how she makes her $$$, by showing it on webcam. If you want to blame anyone, blame all the fatty-haters (myself included) who disenfranchise people until this is their only option in life. She's prolly never had any kind of social acceptance until this...it's sad, really.

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  43. "And let's not even get into how this feeds into the notion that the only people who are interested in fat people are sick freaks who want to exploit them for their own gratification. "

    Holy shit, is that anEXCELLENT point. I actually have a running joke with one of my friends who is also overweight that we need to screen any guy that likes us because we have this tiny fear that they are those freaks who want to buy us a t-bone and then f--k us. I know some big girls like that. They have guys take them to a buffet and then it makes the dude horny and they have sex. Ewwwwwww, this is scary, thank god i am getting smaller,so i can dodge these weirdos better, lol

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  44. But you do have a young child, don't you?

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  45. Well, Enty being speechless has gotta be worth something, no? I mean, when was the last time THAT happened?

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