For a very long time it appeared that Ryan Gosling and Eva Mendes had split. He was on movie sets hooking up with other women and Eva Mendes was spotted walking Ryan's dog less frequently. Then news breaks that Eva Mendes is pregnant which totally contradicted everything that anyone was saying about the couple to me or to any of the tabloids. Well, Radar says that Eva got pregnant while the couple was having some ex sex and that Ryan was “blindsided” by the news and the couple is still not a couple except that they are now having a baby together. Maybe the quiet from both of their camps is they are trying to decide what to do. Do they get married? Do they pose together in a show of solidarity? Is Ryan wondering whether the baby is his? You know Eva is not a quiet person or anti-pap so I'm guessing this stay quiet thing is coming from Ryan and she is just trying not to rock the boat. It could be a result of her supposedly having miscarriage back when she was using drugs and went to rehab and now doesn't want to say anything for fear of something happening. It will be interesting to see what the story is that is spun for public consumption when this all comes out and what the story will be in the future.