You would think the death of someone that Tameka Foster and usher cared about would bring them closer together. Not like getting back together again, but at least civil to each other. Nope. Tameka says that Usher only visited Kile in the hospital once during the two weeks he was on life support. She also says the only reason Usher wanted their custody hearing continued is that Usher was afraid he was going to lose because no judge would rile against a mother who lost her child so tragically. Tameka says that Usher did not do it to be nice. These two really hate each other. I'm still not sure what they ever saw in each other. I think Tameka let usher explore some things he wanted and needed to explore and did so with a non-judgmental eye and kept quiet about it. No matter the hatred, none of those taboo subjects have come up yet although it would be really fun if they did.